What attracts you to Ftms ......

gotoseagrl · 12-27-2013, 10:18 PM

most admirable: the courage to be One's true self.

Kurt · 01-26-2014, 05:18 PM

Bumping this thread. Would love to hear from the ladies.

Leigh · 01-26-2014, 05:30 PM

I love their strength, courage, the way they love and just how they are really wonderful people. I have dated two FTM's in my past and would do so again if the right one came along

SirenManda · 04-22-2014, 09:38 AM

I'll bump.

What attracts me the most? Being who you are regardless of what people expect of you. Picture being purple, but feeling like your meant to be green. I couldn't imagine the emotional tole that could take, but I'd give anything to make sure everyone felt as comfortable as they could and just be themselves.

Plus... physical attraction is stronger with FTM's for me. No idea why, strength is a big turn on though.

Candelion · 01-24-2015, 12:40 PM

For me the obvious attraction to trans men is their masculinity. But it is their specific brand of masculinity that attracts me. There is a thoughtfulness, a mindfulness, a deliberateness to their maleness. It seems to me that through their journey they have thought a lot about what it is to be male. Although they know who they are, they don't take their masculinity for granted because every day it is challenged and questioned by others. Through answering these challenges and exploring with mindfulness the nature of their masculinity, they at some point determine what type of man they want to be. It is my experience that trans men usually aspire to embrace all the good and desirable attributes of manhood. Yes, they may not successfully achieve all they want to be as men, but because they have so deliberately contemplated the nature of their masculinity, they are better men for it. I celebrate you and thank you for that.

cricket26 · 01-24-2015, 01:04 PM

their minds fascinate me...

12-27-2013, 10:18 PM	#1
gotoseagrl Senior Member How Do You Identify?: old-fashioned queer stone submissive girl Preferred Pronoun?: mermaid, very lucky babygirl Relationship Status: Saltwater mermaid ♡ Join Date: May 2010 Location: CA Posts: 2,209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,192 Thanked 6,103 Times in 1,727 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	most admirable: the courage to be One's true self. __________________ Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence

01-26-2014, 05:18 PM	#2
Kurt Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Trans Preferred Pronoun?: Male ones Relationship Status: I'm ready..and anxious Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: USA Posts: 25 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 75 Thanked 57 Times in 18 Posts Rep Power: 1073755	Where are you , ladies. Bumping this thread. Would love to hear from the ladies. __________________ Life is too short to live it without passion.

01-26-2014, 05:30 PM	#3
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I love their strength, courage, the way they love and just how they are really wonderful people. I have dated two FTM's in my past and would do so again if the right one came along __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-24-2015, 12:40 PM	#5
Candelion Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her/you Relationship Status: He can till my field. Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Canada Posts: 1,317 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,396 Thanked 4,029 Times in 895 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	For me the obvious attraction to trans men is their masculinity. But it is their specific brand of masculinity that attracts me. There is a thoughtfulness, a mindfulness, a deliberateness to their maleness. It seems to me that through their journey they have thought a lot about what it is to be male. Although they know who they are, they don't take their masculinity for granted because every day it is challenged and questioned by others. Through answering these challenges and exploring with mindfulness the nature of their masculinity, they at some point determine what type of man they want to be. It is my experience that trans men usually aspire to embrace all the good and desirable attributes of manhood. Yes, they may not successfully achieve all they want to be as men, but because they have so deliberately contemplated the nature of their masculinity, they are better men for it. I celebrate you and thank you for that. __________________ http://i96.photobucket.com/albums/l1...g?t=1416947695

01-24-2015, 01:04 PM	#6
cricket26 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: must be love on the brain Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 1,602 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 986 Thanked 4,264 Times in 1,315 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	their minds fascinate me... __________________ Life is a long lesson in humility. James M. Barrie

04-22-2014, 09:38 AM	#4
SirenManda Member How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: . Posts: 257 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 162 Thanked 959 Times in 232 Posts Rep Power: 6492221	I'll bump. What attracts me the most? Being who you are regardless of what people expect of you. Picture being purple, but feeling like your meant to be green. I couldn't imagine the emotional tole that could take, but I'd give anything to make sure everyone felt as comfortable as they could and just be themselves. Plus... physical attraction is stronger with FTM's for me. No idea why, strength is a big turn on though.