How to tell if she's into you...

Chinajewelry · 12-28-2013, 11:56 PM

Maybe licking/biting lips, or blinking fast. I do these sometimes. But I'm a femme so it doesn't apply to all

Bad_boi · 12-29-2013, 04:49 AM

If she touches you thats a sign. Like if she plays with your hair or fixes your collar.

Paradox · 01-05-2014, 01:45 AM

Nice thread!!

If this was a test I would fail miserably. I am friendly -(some mistake or assume flirtation) with the most people I meet. I'm generally pretty good a sensing and reading people - except in cases like this.

I rarely I mean rarely notice. My friends would be the ones who would ask me after 'How did so and so work out?', or 'What happened with ABC? She's likes you.' I would ask 'What makes you think she likes me?' - of course I get the 'Are you serious ? look -

For me to know if she likes me comes one of three ways;
1) My friends tell me
2) The person who is interested comes at me with a 2x4
3) We eventually figure it out.--- Needless to say this option is in the lowest rating.

Maybe if there was some kind of sensory - mood accessory or emotion bracelet that we can wear to help determine if we like each other.

Of course to be worn discretionarily - wouldn't want to give away signals 24/7

cara · 01-05-2014, 01:50 AM

She gets out of bed in the middle of the night to drive through the city to come snuggle with you.

Nadeest · 01-05-2014, 04:25 PM

I'm awfully dense, at this sort of thing, seems like. I do talk to my friends, though, and ask them for advice.

homoe · 12-23-2018, 11:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bad_boi

If she touches you thats a sign. Like if she plays with your hair or fixes your collar.

Oh for sure............

01-05-2014, 01:50 AM	#4
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12-28-2013, 11:56 PM	#1
Chinajewelry Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Lipstick Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: NM, USA Posts: 14 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 15 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 214760	Maybe licking/biting lips, or blinking fast. I do these sometimes. But I'm a femme so it doesn't apply to all

12-29-2013, 04:49 AM	#2
Bad_boi Member How Do You Identify?: Transman (male) Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His ect. Relationship Status: Handsome bastard. Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: May 2010 Location: Seattle Posts: 727 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 122 Thanked 1,824 Times in 499 Posts Rep Power: 0	If she touches you thats a sign. Like if she plays with your hair or fixes your collar.

01-05-2014, 01:45 AM	#3
Paradox Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Constant Outsider - Humanist Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Toronto - Canada Posts: 59 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 57 Thanked 191 Times in 49 Posts Rep Power: 1217577	Nice thread!! If this was a test I would fail miserably. I am friendly -(some mistake or assume flirtation) with the most people I meet. I'm generally pretty good a sensing and reading people - except in cases like this. I rarely I mean rarely notice. My friends would be the ones who would ask me after 'How did so and so work out?', or 'What happened with ABC? She's likes you.' I would ask 'What makes you think she likes me?' - of course I get the 'Are you serious ? look - For me to know if she likes me comes one of three ways; 1) My friends tell me 2) The person who is interested comes at me with a 2x4 3) We eventually figure it out.--- Needless to say this option is in the lowest rating. Maybe if there was some kind of sensory - mood accessory or emotion bracelet that we can wear to help determine if we like each other. Of course to be worn discretionarily - wouldn't want to give away signals 24/7

01-05-2014, 04:25 PM	#5
Nadeest Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Leesburg, FL Posts: 595 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,876 Thanked 2,118 Times in 501 Posts Rep Power: 17077997	I'm awfully dense, at this sort of thing, seems like. I do talk to my friends, though, and ask them for advice.