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Old 01-08-2014, 12:00 PM   #1
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25 years next month since I quit. It was considerably easy when I threw a pack in the trash and never smoked again. I used to puff 2 packs a day for about 10 years. My mother also stopped cold. I never understood the "addiction" per se since we both had no trouble stopping, but when I tried to get rid of sugar and couldn't, I realized how addiction affect people in different ways. Nicotine was easy for me to quit, not for my sisters. Sugar was very easy for my sisters to quit. Not for me.
I really admire those who had trouble and still quit. And I hope those who are trying find the strength to do so just as I hope someday I'll be able to let go of sugar...
As a person who's given up refined sugars amongst other things (caffeine, alcohol, drugs, nicotine and the smoking habit), I can truthfully say the only way I've found that works for me is applying the 12 step programme, 'one day at a time'.
We can do anything for just one day. I'm not saying it's easy but it's possible with the right mental attitude and coping strategies in place.

If one day is too much then break it down to manageable chunks; one hour, half hour, 10minutes if necessary.

Not having the first one of any of our addictions saves us from the second, third, ad infinitum.

One is too many and a thousand never enough right!?

Good luck all of you who are quitting whatever you're quitting. It's not easy but it IS possible

Keep riding that dragon until you tame it, you'll be so proud of yourself for doing something proactively positive for your own well-being.


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I have been working on a plan for myself to quit. I'm taking chantix for 2 weeks to help curb the urge to smoke and I'm using a vaporizor also. I am going to use a 6 % nicotine solution and ween down to 0 by mixing with a 0% solution over the next two weeks or so. I know I can beat this with help from friends and family and making a plan for myself to do this one day at a time. I"m a 30yr smoker and I Know it's hard to quit for some just as hard as giving up hard drugs for addicts. At least that's what my physician has told me. It's in the mind as well. I"m feel ready to quit mentally and I want to do it the best way possible for me and I think my plan is going to work; we'll see. I'll keep reading posts here, they are full of support and I thank each and everyone of you that are quitting and have quit for the advice and support you've given to all of us here. I look forward to being another EX-SMOKER in the group. My dad and mom have both been after me hard this past year to quit, they are both Ex-smokers themselves. I want to be among the group of people that says I can and I DID.
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I have been working on a plan for myself to quit. I'm taking chantix for 2 weeks to help curb the urge to smoke and I'm using a vaporizor also. I am going to use a 6 % nicotine solution and ween down to 0 by mixing with a 0% solution over the next two weeks or so. I know I can beat this with help from friends and family and making a plan for myself to do this one day at a time. I"m a 30yr smoker and I Know it's hard to quit for some just as hard as giving up hard drugs for addicts. At least that's what my physician has told me. It's in the mind as well. I"m feel ready to quit mentally and I want to do it the best way possible for me and I think my plan is going to work; we'll see. I'll keep reading posts here, they are full of support and I thank each and everyone of you that are quitting and have quit for the advice and support you've given to all of us here. I look forward to being another EX-SMOKER in the group. My dad and mom have both been after me hard this past year to quit, they are both Ex-smokers themselves. I want to be among the group of people that says I can and I DID.
And best of luck to you, my friend, though I don't think you need luck with a plan like this.

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