What do YOU need to feel loved?

blush · 04-22-2010, 10:03 PM

but
Goof.

That's all I need to feel loved.

Cyclopea · 04-22-2010, 10:39 PM

Wow, what a good question and I'm not sure I can answer it. I have been deeply, profoundly loved. But how did I "know" it?
Because I have had other people say they love me and I did not feel anything. It was just like something people say.
When I felt loved, I had the sense of being cherished. Infinitely adored.

Ask yourself this question: Is it more important to love, or be loved?

It is more important to me to love.
No judgement on those who answer otherwise.
But to me "to love" means the person is honest, ethical, beautiful, magickal, a warrior, true, endlessly fascinating, fantastic, deep, hilarious, brilliant, good-hearted, brave, ephemeral, smells good, worthy of respect, amazing, silly, adorable. Etc. They can have crappy qualities too but those are the good ones..
When you love someone that amazing they make you "feel loved" in thousands of wonderful ways that can't be listed. At least not by me!
Those that have loved me have gifted me in ways that can't be quantified and I am grateful. I am one lucky fucker.

04-22-2010, 10:03 PM	#1
blush Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: I'm with goofy. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 911 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 962 Thanked 2,375 Times in 616 Posts Rep Power: 15632317	Sappy, I know but Goof. That's all I need to feel loved. __________________ "We never forget those who make us blush." Jean-Francois de la Harpe

04-22-2010, 10:39 PM	#2
Cyclopea Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Lesbian Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Exit Zero Posts: 1,267 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,694 Thanked 1,615 Times in 632 Posts Rep Power: 226200	Wow, what a good question and I'm not sure I can answer it. I have been deeply, profoundly loved. But how did I "know" it? Because I have had other people say they love me and I did not feel anything. It was just like something people say. When I felt loved, I had the sense of being cherished. Infinitely adored. Ask yourself this question: Is it more important to love, or be loved? It is more important to me to love. No judgement on those who answer otherwise. But to me "to love" means the person is honest, ethical, beautiful, magickal, a warrior, true, endlessly fascinating, fantastic, deep, hilarious, brilliant, good-hearted, brave, ephemeral, smells good, worthy of respect, amazing, silly, adorable. Etc. They can have crappy qualities too but those are the good ones.. When you love someone that amazing they make you "feel loved" in thousands of wonderful ways that can't be listed. At least not by me! Those that have loved me have gifted me in ways that can't be quantified and I am grateful. I am one lucky fucker. __________________ http://forum.axishistory.com/images/...arious/eye.jpg