Taking a Risk to Visit Someone You Met Online

anaisninja · 05-12-2014, 04:43 PM

I am glad I went, in the sense that, at least I found out sooner rather than later. It still fucking sucks though.

TruTexan · 05-12-2014, 04:51 PM

Talking online to someone and even on the telephone or skype still isn't like the real thing and the reality doesn't set in to know them in real time until you meet them and see if you still have that chemistry going. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you , I wish you the best life has to offer. Remember, there are more fish in the sea, just keep an eye out you might find a real catch that the chemistry is really there between you two. Good luck in that regard, and Godspeed in your healing of your disappointment. Keep your head up and keep going forward, you'll feel better soon.

Happyfemme · 05-12-2014, 05:03 PM

It sounds like a very difficult situation. I'm glad you had someone to process with today. It's good that you realized quickly that it wasn't going to work well for you.

bokster · 05-12-2014, 05:39 PM

Hi Anaisninja,

The important thing is that you had the courage to take that risk to find out for yourself. And the courage and grace to acknowledge and express the outcome.

For every "No" that we experience, there's bound to be a "Yes" that will happen someday.

I wish you a pleasant evening.

Duchess · 05-12-2014, 05:43 PM

anaisninja, please don't let this experience discourage you. There are many wonderful people on and off the net. You're taking a chance no matter how you meet. Big hugs to you sweetness.

Duchess

*Anya* · 05-12-2014, 07:19 PM

I am sorry it did not work out for you.

I think it is always worth risking your heart on love-regardless if around the corner or another state.

(((Big hug))).

candy_coated_bitch · 05-12-2014, 07:36 PM

I am also sorry you had a bad experience. Sometimes things online just don't translate into real time. I've been there. I feel you on the disappointment. I've also had some wonderful experiences with those I've met online. I think it's always worth it to take the chance! Thank goodness you know now and don't have to invest any more time.

I hope you try again. *hugs to you*

Bard · 05-12-2014, 07:37 PM

actually I met my wife online and when we met in person well it was amazing or rather she is

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anaisninja Member How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: . Posts: 117 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 167 Thanked 485 Times in 93 Posts Rep Power: 6064352	I am glad I went, in the sense that, at least I found out sooner rather than later. It still fucking sucks though.

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bokster Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch. Lesbian. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2014 Location: Manila and NYC Posts: 73 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 65 Thanked 136 Times in 32 Posts Rep Power: 1010584	Hi Anaisninja, The important thing is that you had the courage to take that risk to find out for yourself. And the courage and grace to acknowledge and express the outcome. For every "No" that we experience, there's bound to be a "Yes" that will happen someday. I wish you a pleasant evening.