Would Like To Meet... a thread for your personal ad

okieblu · 05-29-2014, 03:51 AM

I've been reading through the thread and it's been a hoot. HoneyBarbara, you are an absolute kick-ass femme.

While I would really like to date again, I'm still trying to do some needed work on myself. Seems I have been for years.

I'm 57, single, stone butch. Trying to get on SSI, currently on state assistance. I'm an artist and crafts person, working in a lot of different media, these days mainly jewelry making. Doing my damned-ist to get out of Oklahoma and in a State where I might have a hope of making a living/partial living as an artist. Really want a little piece of land, for a small home, with a big garden, fruit trees, some animals-yes, I'm an omnivore. I'm into alternative building, permaculture/green gardening/farming, and yes, I dumpster dive.

I'm on the far left politically, blue collar all my life and working class poor. I'm also OLP-Out Loud and Proud. My health isn't great, but I'm doing what I can to try to make it better, or at least keep it from getting worse. I quit smoking 5 yrs ago this spring. I'm not really a drinker, but I'm okay if you are a light/social drinker. I'm smart, mouthy as hell, sarcastic, and I PAY ATTENTION. I know how to do housework, I'm a pretty good scratch cook, and I take care of the bills and the necisities (even if I can't spell it) first. I love books, like movies, animals. I have a grown daughter and a 16 yr old granddaughter that I love very much, but I REALLY dont want to raise anymore kids.

I'm skinny, though getting a little heavy, I'm all arms and legs, 5'7" tall, grey hair and hazel eyes. lots of wrinkles.
And this is turning into a novel...

Dont say I didn't warn you...

skeeter_01 · 05-29-2014, 07:45 PM

What the heck...here goes

I feel you, you're floating around in my mind and my heart. You're a classy femme woman. You're in your late 40's or early 50's, but certainly don't look or act it! You love to be spoiled, you love to laugh, you love to cook with a partner, you love adventures and you love DOGS!

You're looking for a butch lesbian that is funny, loving, romantic and will treat you like the princess you are. A butch that will take care of you when you need it and give you your "rein" when you want it. A butch that will have you laughing, dancing and loving. A butch that wants to make a life long commitment. NOT a hit and run. You're NOT looking for a one night stand, someone to share with your partner, or some sleazy "let's have phone sex", you are a femme, you're looking for REAL. And I hate to brag but, not only am I REAL but I'm AWESOME!!

Life is short. I'm looking for my LAST wife, not my NEXT. You must be a femme. I won't compromise with that. I am butch, I'm a stone butch and only attracted to femmes. I'm waiting for you baby.... Satisfaction guaranteed or your loneliness cheerfully refunded...

WolfyOne · 05-30-2014, 02:04 PM

I read all these posts and sit here, think to myself, why do words not come so easy for me when I want to write in this thread, but my poetry can flow. All I can say is if anyone wants to get an inside look at me, find my poetry thread and start at the beginning.

I'm slow out the gate when it comes to love. When I get interested in a single femme, she's usually dating someone by the time I get brave enough to ask her out. I often think, if it was meant to be it would. The powers that be would just put us in the same space and let the dance begin. I'm the kind of person that knows from the first look and the first hug, if we made a connection.

It's been over 4 years since I've been in a relationship. I had to make sure all the cobwebs were cleaned out of my heart and head just to be fair to myself and anyone that may take an interest in me. I didn't want to be vulnerable and perhaps open old wounds. In fact, it honestly scares me a little to get involved, let my heart feel again, but I know I can and I will. It's part of human nature. We want to feel without pain, but it happens. We want to love forever, but sometimes it doesn't happen that way. We take that leap of faith and always hope for the best...well, here I am taking that leap of faith.

I'm a gentle butch looking for a femme that accepts me as I am, flawed. I'm 55 even if my friends don't think I look or act my age at times. Must love animals, if you really want to get to know me. Those that do know me from BFP in real life can probably tell you more about me than I have written here.

okieblu · 06-08-2014, 05:03 PM

Short and simple

Single Butch, 57 ISO Femme into Permaculture/Homesteading/Etc

I'm looking for a best friend as well as a partner. Let's take it slow and see what happens.

SleepyButch · 10-08-2014, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

I read all these posts and sit here, think to myself, why do words not come so easy for me when I want to write in this thread, but my poetry can flow. All I can say is if anyone wants to get an inside look at me, find my poetry thread and start at the beginning.

I'm slow out the gate when it comes to love. When I get interested in a single femme, she's usually dating someone by the time I get brave enough to ask her out. I often think, if it was meant to be it would. The powers that be would just put us in the same space and let the dance begin. I'm the kind of person that knows from the first look and the first hug, if we made a connection.

It's been over 4 years since I've been in a relationship. I had to make sure all the cobwebs were cleaned out of my heart and head just to be fair to myself and anyone that may take an interest in me. I didn't want to be vulnerable and perhaps open old wounds. In fact, it honestly scares me a little to get involved, let my heart feel again, but I know I can and I will. It's part of human nature. We want to feel without pain, but it happens. We want to love forever, but sometimes it doesn't happen that way. We take that leap of faith and always hope for the best...well, here I am taking that leap of faith.

I'm a gentle butch looking for a femme that accepts me as I am, flawed. I'm 55 even if my friends don't think I look or act my age at times. Must love animals, if you really want to get to know me. Those that do know me from BFP in real life can probably tell you more about me than I have written here.

It's never easy getting back into the mode of trying to find a person to share our lives with. It's scary, especially if you've been hurt before. Who wants to get their heart broken time after time? So I applaud you for taking that leap!

We all have our faults, I like to think it's what makes us unique or differ from others. If we were perfect, we would be boring!

Femmes... I know this post was written awhile ago and not sure if Wolfie is still looking or not but...while I don't know Wolfie all that well, I do have to say that from what I do know.... (I'm not sure if you go by hy/she) hy is funny, loves to laugh, and is loyal to those people who are hys friends/family. I know that Wolfie loves to dance and has a great time doing so! I've seen that in person at past Reunions. I know hy loves animals as well, which in my book always says a lot about a person. Wolfie is definitely a great sport also... wore a tutu at last years reunion. I don't know many Butches/Guys who would have done that.. I wouldn't have lol.

Anyway, if you are looking for a genuine, caring, funny person... take a look here. You never know... you might find a like connection that could lead to more!

(Sorry Wolfie for writing this if you aren't looking anymore. Just thought since you said your friends could write more that I would add some stuff.)

Chad · 11-29-2015, 01:07 PM

Bump Bump Bump

05-29-2014, 07:45 PM	#2
skeeter_01 Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: Hey you! Relationship Status: Sleeping single in a double bed.. Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: ann arbor, michigan Posts: 195 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 288 Thanked 477 Times in 130 Posts Rep Power: 3007277	What the heck...here goes I feel you, you're floating around in my mind and my heart. You're a classy femme woman. You're in your late 40's or early 50's, but certainly don't look or act it! You love to be spoiled, you love to laugh, you love to cook with a partner, you love adventures and you love DOGS! You're looking for a butch lesbian that is funny, loving, romantic and will treat you like the princess you are. A butch that will take care of you when you need it and give you your "rein" when you want it. A butch that will have you laughing, dancing and loving. A butch that wants to make a life long commitment. NOT a hit and run. You're NOT looking for a one night stand, someone to share with your partner, or some sleazy "let's have phone sex", you are a femme, you're looking for REAL. And I hate to brag but, not only am I REAL but I'm AWESOME!! Life is short. I'm looking for my LAST wife, not my NEXT. You must be a femme. I won't compromise with that. I am butch, I'm a stone butch and only attracted to femmes. I'm waiting for you baby.... Satisfaction guaranteed or your loneliness cheerfully refunded... __________________ Texting while driving is a real KILLER!!! ‎"It takes hundreds of nuts to hold a car together...but it takes only one nut to scatter them all over the highway..." Jeff PARAMEDIC

05-30-2014, 02:04 PM	#3
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,391 Times in 4,138 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I read all these posts and sit here, think to myself, why do words not come so easy for me when I want to write in this thread, but my poetry can flow. All I can say is if anyone wants to get an inside look at me, find my poetry thread and start at the beginning. I'm slow out the gate when it comes to love. When I get interested in a single femme, she's usually dating someone by the time I get brave enough to ask her out. I often think, if it was meant to be it would. The powers that be would just put us in the same space and let the dance begin. I'm the kind of person that knows from the first look and the first hug, if we made a connection. It's been over 4 years since I've been in a relationship. I had to make sure all the cobwebs were cleaned out of my heart and head just to be fair to myself and anyone that may take an interest in me. I didn't want to be vulnerable and perhaps open old wounds. In fact, it honestly scares me a little to get involved, let my heart feel again, but I know I can and I will. It's part of human nature. We want to feel without pain, but it happens. We want to love forever, but sometimes it doesn't happen that way. We take that leap of faith and always hope for the best...well, here I am taking that leap of faith. I'm a gentle butch looking for a femme that accepts me as I am, flawed. I'm 55 even if my friends don't think I look or act my age at times. Must love animals, if you really want to get to know me. Those that do know me from BFP in real life can probably tell you more about me than I have written here. __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

06-08-2014, 05:03 PM	#4
okieblu Member How Do You Identify?: queer butch Preferred Pronoun?: hey you! Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2014 Location: Norman Oklahoma US Posts: 221 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 125 Thanked 423 Times in 138 Posts Rep Power: 4059272	Add-on Short and simple Single Butch, 57 ISO Femme into Permaculture/Homesteading/Etc I'm looking for a best friend as well as a partner. Let's take it slow and see what happens.

11-29-2015, 01:07 PM	#6
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,312 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Bump Bump Bump Bump

05-29-2014, 03:51 AM	#1
okieblu Member How Do You Identify?: queer butch Preferred Pronoun?: hey you! Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2014 Location: Norman Oklahoma US Posts: 221 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 125 Thanked 423 Times in 138 Posts Rep Power: 4059272	I've been reading through the thread and it's been a hoot. HoneyBarbara, you are an absolute kick-ass femme. While I would really like to date again, I'm still trying to do some needed work on myself. Seems I have been for years. I'm 57, single, stone butch. Trying to get on SSI, currently on state assistance. I'm an artist and crafts person, working in a lot of different media, these days mainly jewelry making. Doing my damned-ist to get out of Oklahoma and in a State where I might have a hope of making a living/partial living as an artist. Really want a little piece of land, for a small home, with a big garden, fruit trees, some animals-yes, I'm an omnivore. I'm into alternative building, permaculture/green gardening/farming, and yes, I dumpster dive. I'm on the far left politically, blue collar all my life and working class poor. I'm also OLP-Out Loud and Proud. My health isn't great, but I'm doing what I can to try to make it better, or at least keep it from getting worse. I quit smoking 5 yrs ago this spring. I'm not really a drinker, but I'm okay if you are a light/social drinker. I'm smart, mouthy as hell, sarcastic, and I PAY ATTENTION. I know how to do housework, I'm a pretty good scratch cook, and I take care of the bills and the necisities (even if I can't spell it) first. I love books, like movies, animals. I have a grown daughter and a 16 yr old granddaughter that I love very much, but I REALLY dont want to raise anymore kids. I'm skinny, though getting a little heavy, I'm all arms and legs, 5'7" tall, grey hair and hazel eyes. lots of wrinkles. And this is turning into a novel... Dont say I didn't warn you...