Instant Turn-Offs

Girl_On_Fire · 05-31-2014, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by canadianmusician

Showing up drunk or high is definitely a turn off. This happened once.

Low self confidence.

Jumbled/compartmentalized communication styles. I like to hear it clear as a bell!

Even calling me drunk or high is unacceptable to me. Bleh.

Medusa · 05-31-2014, 12:31 PM

Hygiene is a huge one - Dirty fingernails, teeth, hair, feet, or clothing is a huge turn off.

Name-dropping

Hypochondria

No sense of humor or having a stick up your ass

Mean-spirited bullshit or rudeness

Not being able to hold a conversation about current events or politics on even a small level

Interrupting

Not listening

Racism/Sexism

Owning an emu (LOL! I'm phobic!!)

Gemme · 05-31-2014, 01:17 PM

I think that someone who doesn't understand (at least not without a REALLY good reason.....like being raised by wolves in the forest or something) the fine lines that traverse and connect our social relationships.

For example, the lines between confident, cocky and arrogant. For me, I'm definitely okay with the first option and possibly the second option if there's humor in the equation but the last option is an instant switch flipper (and not in the ON direction).

The line between dominant and controlling is another example.

I like it when people....not just potential mates, but all people....toe the line of impropriety in one form or another but have enough sense to not fall off the deep end.

For the record, I have no ill will towards emus or those who love and/or own and/or farm them.

Diablo · 05-31-2014, 02:02 PM

People who are so self centered they seem to forget they are actually talking to another person. I like to be talked with, not talked AT.

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05-31-2014, 02:02 PM	#4
Diablo Timed Out - Identity Issues How Do You Identify?: HUMAN Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Earth Posts: 843 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,128 Thanked 1,618 Times in 623 Posts Rep Power: 0	People who are so self centered they seem to forget they are actually talking to another person. I like to be talked with, not talked AT.