![]() |
![]() |
#15141 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Just a good ole boy Preferred Pronoun?:
Male ones Relationship Status:
She Thinks My Tractor's Sexy Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Somewhere between right and wrong
Posts: 3,372
Thanks: 13,988
Thanked 10,142 Times in 2,400 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
“Life itself is simple...it's just not easy.”
― Steve Maraboli “Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” ― George Bernard Shaw
__________________
Trev ![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to Trev For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15142 |
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status:
Happy ![]() Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic.
Posts: 9,234
Thanks: 9,840
Thanked 34,617 Times in 7,640 Posts
Rep Power: 21474860 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() ![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to Kobi For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15143 |
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Transguy Preferred Pronoun?:
He Relationship Status:
single ![]() Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Central West Coast of Florida
Posts: 5,204
Thanks: 34,866
Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts
Rep Power: 21474857 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
For My Daughter
By Sarah McMane “Never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.” – Clementine Paddleford Never play the princess when you can be the queen: rule the kingdom, swing a scepter, wear a crown of gold. Don’t dance in glass slippers, crystal carving up your toes -- be a barefoot Amazon instead, for those shoes will surely shatter on your feet. Never wear only pink when you can strut in crimson red, sweat in heather grey, and shimmer in sky blue, claim the golden sun upon your hair. Colors are for everyone, boys and girls, men and women -- be a verdant garden, the landscape of Versailles, not a pale primrose blindly pushed aside. Chase green dragons and one-eyed zombies, fierce and fiery toothy monsters, not merely lazy butterflies, sweet and slow on summer days. For you can tame the most brutish beasts with your wily wits and charm, and lizard scales feel just as smooth as gossamer insect wings. Tramp muddy through the house in a purple tutu and cowboy boots. Have a tea party in your overalls. Build a fort of birch branches, a zoo of Legos, a rocketship of Queen Anne chairs and coverlets, first stop on the moon. Dream of dinosaurs and baby dolls, bold brontosaurus and bookish Belle, not Barbie on the runway or Disney damsels in distress -- you are much too strong to play the simpering waif. Don a baseball cap, dance with Daddy, paint your toenails, climb a cottonwood. Learn to speak with both your mind and heart. For the ground beneath will hold you, dear -- know that you are free. And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
__________________
“You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”
|
![]() |
![]() |
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to Jesse For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15144 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
with a distinct flair Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: somewhere else
Posts: 1,852
Thanks: 7,623
Thanked 4,388 Times in 1,009 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
A Late Walk
When I go up through the mowing field, The headless aftermath, Smooth-laid like thatch with the heavy dew, Half closes the garden path. And when I come to the garden ground, The whir of sober birds Up from the tangle of withered weeds Is sadder than any words A tree beside the wall stands bare, But a leaf that lingered brown, Disturbed, I doubt not, by my thought, Comes softly rattling down. I end not far from my going forth By picking the faded blue Of the last remaining aster flower To carry again to you. Robert Frost |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following User Says Thank You to Smiling For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15145 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Just a good ole boy Preferred Pronoun?:
Male ones Relationship Status:
She Thinks My Tractor's Sexy Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Somewhere between right and wrong
Posts: 3,372
Thanks: 13,988
Thanked 10,142 Times in 2,400 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() ![]()
__________________
Trev ![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Trev For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15146 |
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Femme on a varied spectrum/babygirl Preferred Pronoun?:
she/her/hers Relationship Status:
Loved ლ ⚢ Join Date: May 2013
Location: Devenir un avec l'immatérialité des étoiles...
Posts: 9,439
Thanks: 6,606
Thanked 14,669 Times in 6,299 Posts
Rep Power: 21474858 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() ![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following User Says Thank You to Genesis For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15147 |
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Femme on a varied spectrum/babygirl Preferred Pronoun?:
she/her/hers Relationship Status:
Loved ლ ⚢ Join Date: May 2013
Location: Devenir un avec l'immatérialité des étoiles...
Posts: 9,439
Thanks: 6,606
Thanked 14,669 Times in 6,299 Posts
Rep Power: 21474858 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() ![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#15148 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Just a good ole boy Preferred Pronoun?:
Male ones Relationship Status:
She Thinks My Tractor's Sexy Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Somewhere between right and wrong
Posts: 3,372
Thanks: 13,988
Thanked 10,142 Times in 2,400 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() ![]()
__________________
Trev ![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#15149 |
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Femme on a varied spectrum/babygirl Preferred Pronoun?:
she/her/hers Relationship Status:
Loved ლ ⚢ Join Date: May 2013
Location: Devenir un avec l'immatérialité des étoiles...
Posts: 9,439
Thanks: 6,606
Thanked 14,669 Times in 6,299 Posts
Rep Power: 21474858 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() ![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#15150 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
with a distinct flair Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: somewhere else
Posts: 1,852
Thanks: 7,623
Thanked 4,388 Times in 1,009 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud
I wandered lonely as a cloud That floats on high o'er vales and hills, When all at once I saw a crowd, A host, of golden daffodils; Beside the lake, beneath the trees, Fluttering and dancing in the breeze. Continuous as the stars that shine And twinkle on the milky way, They stretched in never-ending line Along the margin of a bay: Ten thousand saw I at a glance, Tossing their heads in sprightly dance. The waves beside them danced, but they Out-did the sparkling leaves in glee; A poet could not be but gay, In such a jocund company! I gazed—and gazed—but little thought What wealth the show to me had brought: For oft, when on my couch I lie In vacant or in pensive mood, They flash upon that inward eye Which is the bliss of solitude; And then my heart with pleasure fills, And dances with the daffodils. William Wordsworth |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following User Says Thank You to Smiling For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15151 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Femm Preferred Pronoun?:
She Relationship Status:
**loved by many** Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Closer to the waves
Posts: 15,408
Thanks: 29,161
Thanked 40,985 Times in 10,756 Posts
Rep Power: 21474865 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() ![]()
__________________
![]() A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back. |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Bèsame* For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15152 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Femm Preferred Pronoun?:
She Relationship Status:
**loved by many** Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Closer to the waves
Posts: 15,408
Thanks: 29,161
Thanked 40,985 Times in 10,756 Posts
Rep Power: 21474865 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() ![]()
__________________
![]() A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back. |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#15153 |
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Transguy Preferred Pronoun?:
He Relationship Status:
single ![]() Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Central West Coast of Florida
Posts: 5,204
Thanks: 34,866
Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts
Rep Power: 21474857 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
“I fell in love with her courage, her sincerity, and her flaming self respect. And it's these things I'd believe in, even if the whole world indulged in wild suspicions that she wasn't all she should be. I love her and it is the beginning of everything.”― F. Scott Fitzgerald
__________________
“You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”
|
![]() |
![]() |
The Following User Says Thank You to Jesse For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15154 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Poetically versed to breathe only truth and bleed certainty Preferred Pronoun?:
Kane Relationship Status:
Married to Chefnaction Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Finally, home
Posts: 1,987
Thanks: 5,900
Thanked 4,733 Times in 1,583 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
The Peace of Wild Things
When despair grows in me and I wake in the middle of the night at the least sound in fear of what my life and my children's lives may be, I go and lie down where the wood drake rests in his beauty on the water, and the great heron feeds. I come into the peace of wild things who do not tax their lives with forethought of grief. I come into the presence of still water. And I feel above me the day-blind stars waiting for their light. For a time I rest in the grace of the world, and am free. ~Wendell Berry
__________________
I need your grace To remind me To find my own |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#15155 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Poetically versed to breathe only truth and bleed certainty Preferred Pronoun?:
Kane Relationship Status:
Married to Chefnaction Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Finally, home
Posts: 1,987
Thanks: 5,900
Thanked 4,733 Times in 1,583 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
“Wouldn’t it be fine if we could prove things with our mind, and know for certain that things are always in their place. I’d like to know what a place is like when I’m not there. I’d like to be sure.”
~ Ray Bradbury~ "The Illustrated Man" (btw, great book)
__________________
I need your grace To remind me To find my own |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#15156 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Poetically versed to breathe only truth and bleed certainty Preferred Pronoun?:
Kane Relationship Status:
Married to Chefnaction Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Finally, home
Posts: 1,987
Thanks: 5,900
Thanked 4,733 Times in 1,583 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() "All these years, all these memories, there was you. You pulled me through time." from the movie "The Fountain"
__________________
I need your grace To remind me To find my own |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following User Says Thank You to deathbypoem For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15157 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Poetically versed to breathe only truth and bleed certainty Preferred Pronoun?:
Kane Relationship Status:
Married to Chefnaction Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Finally, home
Posts: 1,987
Thanks: 5,900
Thanked 4,733 Times in 1,583 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
I would go to hell to find you.~ What Dreams May Come
__________________
I need your grace To remind me To find my own |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following User Says Thank You to deathbypoem For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15158 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
with a distinct flair Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: somewhere else
Posts: 1,852
Thanks: 7,623
Thanked 4,388 Times in 1,009 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
My Love Reveals Objects
My love reveals objects silken butterflies concealed in his fingers his words splash me with stars night shines like lightning under the fingers of my love My love invents worlds where jeweled glittering serpents live worlds where music is the world worlds where houses with open eyes contemplate the dawn My love is a mad sunflower that forgets fragments of sun in the silence Isabel Fraire |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Smiling For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15159 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Divine Feminine Preferred Pronoun?:
. Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: .
Posts: 4,921
Thanks: 16,246
Thanked 10,223 Times in 3,305 Posts
Rep Power: 21474854 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
I hate the way you talk to me, and the way you cut your hair.
I hate the way you drive my car. I hate it when you stare. I hate your big dumb combat boots, and the way you read my mind. I hate you so much it makes me sick, it even makes me rhyme. I hate the way you always think you're right, I hate it when you lie. I hate it when you make me laugh, I hate you worse when you make me cry. I hate it when you're not around, and the fact that you didn't call. But most of all I hate the way that I don't hate you. Not even close, not a little bit, not even at all. ~ Ten things I Hate About You |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to Talon For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#15160 |
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Femme on a varied spectrum/babygirl Preferred Pronoun?:
she/her/hers Relationship Status:
Loved ლ ⚢ Join Date: May 2013
Location: Devenir un avec l'immatérialité des étoiles...
Posts: 9,439
Thanks: 6,606
Thanked 14,669 Times in 6,299 Posts
Rep Power: 21474858 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() First there was Helen of Sparta, who did it only
with oil, no one knows how; then there was Maggie of England, who even on the battlefield put men back together; and then there was Rose of the deepest South, who stood up in her father’s clothes and walked out of the house and herself. Disguised women were always among them. They badly wanted to wear blue, they badly wanted to wear red, they wanted to blend with the woods or ground. Together with men they were blown from their pronouns. Their faces too were shot off which were then free of their bodies. “I never had any dolls I only had soldiers. I played soldier from the minute I was born. Dropped my voice down almost into the earth, wore bandages where I didn’t need them, was finally discovered by the doctor, was finally discovered at the end.” Someone thought long and hard how to best make my brother blend into the sand. He came back and he was heaped up himself like a dune, he was twice the size of me, his sight glittered deeper in the family head, he hid among himself, and slid, and stormed, and looked the same as the next one, and was hot and gold and some- where else. My brother reached out his hand to me and said, “They should not be over there. Women should not be over there.” He said, “I watched people burn to death. They burned to death in front of me.” A week later his red-haired friend killed himself. And even his name was a boy’s name: Andrew. A friend writes to him, “My dress blues are being altered for a bloodstripe.” That’s a beautiful line, I can’t help hearing. “Kisses,” he writes to a friend. His friend he writes back, “Cuddles.” Bunch of girls, bunch of girls. They write each other, “Miss you, brother.” Bunch of girls, bunch of girls. They passed the hours with ticklefights. They grew their mustaches together. They lost their hearts to local dogs, what a bunch of girls. I sent my brother nothing in the desert because I was busy writing poems. Deciding one by one where the breath commas went, or else it would not stand and walk. This was going to be a poem about release from the body. This was going to be a poem about someone else, maybe even me. My brother is alive because of a family capacity for little hairs rising on the back of the neck. The night the roadside bomb blew up, all three sisters dreamed of him. There, I just felt it, the family capacity. My brother is alive because the family head sometimes hears a little voice. I had been writing the poem before the boy died. It then did not seem right to mention that burn means different things in different bodies. I was going to end the poem with a line about the grass. But they were in the desert, and I was in the desert when I thought about them, and no new ending appeared to me. I was going to write, “The hill that they died on was often a woman, wearing the greatest uniform of war, which is grass.” I know my little brother’s head. The scalp is almost green, where the hair is shortest. I know my little brother’s head, and that is where the ending lives, the one that sends the poem home, and makes grass stand up on the back of the neck, and fits so beautiful no one can breathe—the last words live in the family head, and let them live in there a while. |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
Tags |
poems, quotes, sayings |
|
|