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			 It has been way too long since we have gathered here.* Comes in and sweeps away the cob webs and dusts all the furniture. Opens the windows and doors to let this ol' loft air out. Puts on a fresh pot of coffee  and bakes some homemade peanut butter and oatmeal raisin cookies. Fluffs the pillows on the couches and chairs, then goes outside and waters the plants and flowers, and bring some fresh cut roses and irises and puts them in different vases throughout the place. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Takes one solitary white candle and placing it in a candle holder and lights it for our dear sister Cuddly on her Birthday* 
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			Well, hiya Deb....  *sniffs roses, sets out tea and coffee, pours 2 cups, hands one to Deb* It has been a while. How are you doing? Would be nice to see some folks on this thread again. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			*takes cup and sips*hmm thank you Ruthie. I Am Doing well. Thanks. A lot has been happening in my life, but it is all good.  How have you been?  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Howdy Loft friends, 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I hope that everyone is well and enjoying life. I am living the dream. Chad Is it nap time yet?  | 
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			Chello lofters!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			(((((((Ruthie!!!!))))))))) I have missed you my friend... 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Hope everyone is doing well tonight... I have a headache from the weather change... I am ready for it to go away. I havent been here in so long its great to see new and old friends...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Stopping by to say hello -- I am new to the Planet -- I was BklynFem on bf.com SOOO many years ago ;-)  I have been hanging out on fb, but wanted to connect on a LBGTQ space.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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	I'm over 40 now! Guess I can add my two cents on this thread now!  
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			It would be nice to have a place to land in the morning and catch up with the news while drinking a cup of coffee.... Most days I dont feel my age at all. Then I have to take a good look around me and go .."yea I remember being in that mess before."  Im digging having a lil wisdom about some things now. My 17yrold thinks Im some sorta guru or something. I just remember being 17. That childs just like his mama.. And I rock.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Welcome to the site lola. There's also a thread for newbies to introduce yourselves. Feel free to post there as well so more know you are a newbie here. Hope you enjoy your time here.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Thanks for the welcome, TruTexan!  I will be sure and do that! :-)
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Hi everyone! I'm over 50 and live in Toledo, Ohio. Looking to make some new friends.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			afternooners  strangers ..  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			  its been a long long time. its nice to see all of you here. and wow a 2015 get together ?? i wish i could make it to that   im in the process of saving $$ for a trip to Dallas texas next april.... working on getting booked into the deep alum art fest.   for next april. ........ in other news guess i have a lot of catching up to do   heh
		
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			Helllooooo,,,,,,,?? 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Anyone still drop by here these days ? I have chocolate !  
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