How about butch and butch?

[ButchPride]

Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch

For me, the way I read it is that this site is for butches AND femmes. Not necessarily always butches who are into femmes and vice versa. I'd say the majority of us here are into the butch/femme dynamic--but there's space for other butches and femmes who are into different dynamics as well. I think it's important to make space for everyone because butches and femmes are NOT cookie cutters. Openmindedness is free and really doesn't hurt anyone.

I'm grateful for that. As a butch lesbian who has never really gotten into the butch-femme dynamic, I have found some online spaces that actively excluded me. It hurts to be closed out.

[Mel C.]

Originally Posted by ButchPride

I'm grateful for that. As a butch lesbian who has never really gotten into the butch-femme dynamic, I have found some online spaces that actively excluded me. It hurts to be closed out.

I'm glad you are here! I think this site is more open than others, but some people aren't. I didn't interpret the site name to be only people in butch-femme relationships.

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Originally Posted by ButchPride

I'm grateful for that. As a butch lesbian who has never really gotten into the butch-femme dynamic, I have found some online spaces that actively excluded me. It hurts to be closed out.

Originally Posted by Mel C.

I'm glad you are here! I think this site is more open than others, but some people aren't. I didn't interpret the site name to be only people in butch-femme relationships.

Ditto what Mel said....

[Jane Bond]

Originally Posted by Mel C.

I'm glad you are here! I think this site is more open than others, but some people aren't. I didn't interpret the site name to be only people in butch-femme relationships.

I keep an open mind. While I tend to prefer and can more easily fall in love with a femme, there's nothing quite like a dapper, intelligent, humorous butch who knows what she's doing in bed.