What makes me butch?

Mister Bent · 04-26-2010, 07:56 PM

I only came in here to see what makes apretty butch.

apretty · 04-26-2010, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Mister Bent

I only came in here to see what makes apretty butch.

what makes a 'pretty butch'?

lots and lots of lip gloss.

JustBeingMe · 04-27-2010, 11:14 AM

Never heard a butch called Pretty before. GEEZ am I outta the loop already at my age?

AtLast · 04-27-2010, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by JustBeingMe

Never heard a butch called Pretty before. GEEZ am I outta the loop already at my age?

Nah.... not out of the loop.. We all are a bit loopy...

Jett · 04-27-2010, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by JustBeingMe

Never heard a butch called Pretty before. GEEZ am I outta the loop already at my age?

Really? I've had a gay guy send me a drink with the pick-up line relayed by the waitress... "You're either the prettiest guy in the room or the handsomest woman".

Didn't bother me, nice compliment...

chrisbutch · 04-27-2010, 01:09 PM

Trying everyday to be the best person i can be, and trying to be the type of butch that i want to be......trying to be me, to be true to myself...

AtLast · 04-27-2010, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Metropolis

Really? I've had a gay guy send me a drink with the pick-up line relayed by the waitress... "You're either the prettiest guy in the room or the handsomest woman".

Didn't bother me, nice compliment...

Glad to see other butches have this happen. LOL... Frankly, many a' gay men have made my day!!! Plus they really take note of what you are wearing and have some good fashion tips! I rather enjoy some of the times when my gender can't be read. Like the mix of it all. Of course, there are times when this is a pain as in the women's bathroom fiascos that come up. Then, again, I just stare back and go to my stall!Just not going to dwell on stupid bathroom drama.. ARGH!!

Andrew, Jr. · 04-27-2010, 08:02 PM

I think how anyone id's is personal. It isn't something that can be discussed openly on the internet. It is something sacred and personal. Everyone has to go on their own journey in finding out who they are.

One of my nephew's when he was exploring his sexuality and gender, he was in elementary school. He asked me to buy him a tea set for his birthday. So I did. Today he is married, and he has a picture of his tea set with me in it with him. He treasures that photograph. He told his wife that it was me who helped him get thru his journey.

I agree with Hack about this thread. It is very upsetting. It isn't about being true to who you are, or how I am, but how to cut each other down. We already get put down by society, why should we do it to each other here?

Gemme · 04-28-2010, 02:05 AM

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Originally Posted by JustBeingMe

Never heard a butch called Pretty before. GEEZ am I outta the loop already at my age?

I have heard it and done it. I call 'em as I see 'em and if someone is handsome, I say so. If they are beautiful, I say so. If they are pretty...so on and so forth.

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

I think how anyone id's is personal. It isn't something that can be discussed openly on the internet. It is something sacred and personal. Everyone has to go on their own journey in finding out who they are.

One of my nephew's when he was exploring his sexuality and gender, he was in elementary school. He asked me to buy him a tea set for his birthday. So I did. Today he is married, and he has a picture of his tea set with me in it with him. He treasures that photograph. He told his wife that it was me who helped him get thru his journey.

I agree with Hack about this thread. It is very upsetting. It isn't about being true to who you are, or how I am, but how to cut each other down. We already get put down by society, why should we do it to each other here?

I must not be reading the same thing you are, Andrew. I don't see anyone cutting anyone down. This thread has the potential to blow up, but I think the responses have been quite respectful, actually.

04-26-2010, 07:56 PM	#1
Mister Bent Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: . Posts: 2,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,151 Thanked 5,825 Times in 1,722 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	disappointed! I only came in here to see what makes apretty butch. __________________ Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin to slit throats. - H. L. Mencken

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JustBeingMe Senior Member How Do You Identify?: as ME Relationship Status: I don't need no stinking status. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: somewhere you're not..... Posts: 1,808 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,961 Thanked 1,690 Times in 694 Posts Rep Power: 12813869	Never heard a butch called Pretty before. GEEZ am I outta the loop already at my age? __________________ Nothing more, Nothing less, I'm Just Being Me

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chrisbutch Junior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: earth Posts: 74 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 152 Thanked 94 Times in 40 Posts Rep Power: 936602	What makes me a butch? *Trying everyday to be the best person i can be, and trying to be the type of butch that i want to be......trying to be me, to be true to myself...* __________________ Chris

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Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	I think how anyone id's is personal. It isn't something that can be discussed openly on the internet. It is something sacred and personal. Everyone has to go on their own journey in finding out who they are. One of my nephew's when he was exploring his sexuality and gender, he was in elementary school. He asked me to buy him a tea set for his birthday. So I did. Today he is married, and he has a picture of his tea set with me in it with him. He treasures that photograph. He told his wife that it was me who helped him get thru his journey. I agree with Hack about this thread. It is very upsetting. It isn't about being true to who you are, or how I am, but how to cut each other down. We already get put down by society, why should we do it to each other here?