The Paranormal

[Lady Pamela]

Originally Posted by Ghost Huntin' Daddy

But you sunk your whole life savings into this and you have no means to leave.
The reason I ask this is because I am helping someone now who is at their wits end. She's very frightened. Has done all she can to try and cleanse the house, but it only proved to increase the activity. She has gone to a hotel with her dogs to get sleep on occasion.
I'm just curious as to what everyone else would do in the same situation.
Thank you for your response Lady Pamela!

The first thing I will tell you is fear allows things to manifest. When fear is present you actually open doors to create things without even realizing your doing it.

She needs to work on not allowing her fears to override her thoughts and emotions.
She can not rid something if she is always trying to fight it and fear it.

She needs to be stern but not provoke things..this is not only dangerious at times but it also keeps such things active.

She needs to simply believe that she is cleansing..her dought negates the cleaning process...understand?

[Ghost Huntin' Daddy]

Originally Posted by Lady Pamela

The first thing I will tell you is fear allows things to manifest. When fear is present you actually open doors to create things without even realizing your doing it.

She needs to work on not allowing her fears to override her thoughts and emotions.
She can not rid something if she is always trying to fight it and fear it.

She needs to be stern but not provoke things..this is not only dangerious at times but it also keeps such things active.

She needs to simply believe that she is cleansing..her dought negates the cleaning process...understand?

M'Lady...I'm already helping her thru that...ty. Again, Im only asking what you guys would do if it was happening to you and all your money was put into this house.

[Lady Pamela]

Originally Posted by Ghost Huntin' Daddy

M'Lady...I'm already helping her thru that...ty. Again, Im only asking what you guys would do if it was happening to you and all your money was put into this house.

Well she only has a couple options..one to put the house on the market or the other to stay and work it out.

I personally would stay and never allow anything to force me away. I would seek outter help as well as put myself into check...but some ppl are not able to do so.

[Ghost Huntin' Daddy]

Originally Posted by Lady Pamela

Well she only has a couple options..one to put the house on the market or the other to stay and work it out.

I personally would stay and never allow anything to force me away. I would seek outter help as well as put myself into check...but some ppl are not able to do so.

TY again Lady Pamela

[Miss Scarlett]

I agree with Lady Pamela about fear. Your friend definitely needs to overcome this before she tries anything else with the house. Fear and negativity are as empowering to hauntings as they are to humans (think bullies).

GHD, is this haunting truly malevolent or just annoying? Is your friend's fear amplifying her perception?

I have been in a similar situation. A house I rented on the west coast of Scotland was haunted - actually the entire village was haunted. Since housing was at a premium there we were stuck. But having grown up in a haunted house I had some experience, understanding and a reasonable lack of fear though not caution. So I took the time to try to understand what our ghosts were all about and, just like back home, and we learned to live with each other.

I don't fear ghosts, spirits, etc., but I do respect them and am cautious until I understand what they are all about.

[Ghost Huntin' Daddy]

Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett

I agree with Lady Pamela about fear. Your friend definitely needs to overcome this before she tries anything else with the house. Fear and negativity are as empowering to hauntings as they are to humans (think bullies).

GHD, is this haunting truly malevolent or just annoying? Is your friend's fear amplifying her perception?

I have been in a similar situation. A house I rented on the west coast of Scotland was haunted - actually the entire village was haunted. Since housing was at a premium there we were stuck. But having grown up in a haunted house I had some experience, understanding and a reasonable lack of fear though not caution. So I took the time to try to understand what our ghosts were all about and, just like back home, and we learned to live with each other.

I don't fear ghosts, spirits, etc., but I do respect them and am cautious until I understand what they are all about.

Hello Miss Scarlett. Just to explain, this isnt a friend. This is someone who follows my team on Twitter. She was calling out for help, but no one was answering her, so I jumped in. I asked her a bunch of questions that are pretty standard for paranormal investigators to ask. She's not being harmed at all. It seems the dogs are barking and howling at her bedroom closet door and when she opens it to check, they run out. She's found her dishes taken out of the cupboard, clothes removed from the drawer. What sent her over the edge was hearing a gun shot inside her room. Which I'm sure is pretty damn scary.
I'm very much aware of spirit attachment, people that can cause telekinesis to happen, or objects that may be haunted, etc. Since she is in Minn., I can't get to her, so I have contacted a team near her and they will be contacting her for an investigation.
The questions I ask here are usually based on things I run into in my travels just to get different points of view. As an investigator, I have to be prepared for just about anything, so I either keep up with different scenarios from other investigators, read more information about it, or go to my psychic buddies to get advice. I will not give clients or ppl asking for help a made up story or try to guess. If I dont know, I will redirect them to someone who does!
Thank you for sharing your story!