Relationships - What things do you want & need?

SleepyButch · 10-06-2014, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Oh and takes the rose and puts you in my room, in water!

Sorry had a dummy moment!

I had a dummy moment also. I couldn't figure out why you took the rose and then put Sweet Bliss in your room in water... lol

To each their own I suppose.. I'm still cracking up.

JDeere · 10-06-2014, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch

I had a dummy moment also. I couldn't figure out why you took the rose and then put Sweet Bliss in your room in water... lol

To each their own I suppose.. I'm still cracking up.

HAHAHA Poor Sleep!

SleepyButch · 10-06-2014, 10:38 PM

I just thought of this one or actually have thought of it in the past but was reminded of it tonight...

I need to be in a relationship with someone who truly appreciates me and my romantic side. It brings me a lot of joy and pleasure being romantic whether it's small gestures or large ones. I love it so she must also!

Kenna · 10-06-2014, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch

I just thought of this one or actually have thought of it in the past but was reminded of it tonight...

I need to be in a relationship with someone who truly appreciates me and my romantic side. It brings me a lot of joy and pleasure being romantic whether it's small gestures or large ones. I love it so she must also!

I often don't participate in this type thread because I can't put together the correct words for my feelings...but if I may with Sleepy's permission, plagiarize his post? My feelings exactly...as well as, I need and want someone that's emotionally stable, secure and confident. I need/want a healthy relationship, with healthy, positive energy that's built on a foundation of respect, integrity, and mutual acceptance and "listening to" each other's boundaries, desires and space...I need a relationship without fear of abuse, narcissistic or energy draining people....

In 2008, I was awarded the maximum 3 year restraing order against (a cismale that I hadn't been in a relationship with but I had allowed too close to my son and myself) who was very narcissistic and abusive. I learned a lot during that experience and what I needed in my relationships.
My main goal is a very healthy, very stable, mutually affectionate, deep connection with a compatible person who doesn't" crash" or get abusive when I need space or interact with friends and family.

A SOLID foundation to our connection (example friends first and getting to know each other slowly) is my key...as I've seen other relationships crumble very quickly when their foundation is built on resentfulness, spite, jealousy, or negative intentions.

RockOn · 10-07-2014, 04:59 AM

Hey Keena,

If you will clear out your private message box .... then I will answer the question you asked me in your private message.

It is full and will not accept any more messages. That is what you get for being so popular.

Gemme · 10-07-2014, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by RockOn

In reality Gemme, I would be very different in my remarks here if I were wanting or hopeful of finding a partner online ... a lot more keyed down and respectable acting... but since I would not even consider a LDR, I think maybe I go for the effect ... see what kind of playfulness can be evoked if I am in a "take it to the edge" mood. And if I drop off the edge, no one cares and I do not mind at all either.

I appreciate you responding, RockOn.

My question is this: Why?

Why do you feel that you can be one way online and that anyone would believe you to be different in person? I just don't see the need for the duplicity, I guess. I'm a very 'take me as I am' and 'wysiwyg' kind of person, so it's just not how my brain works.

For me....and it's solely on me since you obviously received some positive responses from some femmes....but that was not taking it to the edge. It was more like using a bulldozer to shove someone over the edge. A bit too blatant for me but we all have our things and you just said you don't mind going over the edge, so that's that.

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Oh and takes the rose and puts you in my room, in water!

Sorry had a dummy moment!

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch

I had a dummy moment also. I couldn't figure out why you took the rose and then put Sweet Bliss in your room in water... lol

To each their own I suppose.. I'm still cracking up.

Thank you, Sleepy! lol

I thought it was just me scratching my head on that one.

However, to be more thread appropriate I would say that if I were looking for an intimate relationship with someone, I want everything. I want to see your soft underbelly and your grit and, hopefully, mine would match yours or at least complement it.

10-06-2014, 10:38 PM	#3
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I just thought of this one or actually have thought of it in the past but was reminded of it tonight... I need to be in a relationship with someone who truly appreciates me and my romantic side. It brings me a lot of joy and pleasure being romantic whether it's small gestures or large ones. I love it so she must also! __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

10-07-2014, 04:59 AM	#5
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	note to Keena Hey Keena, If you will clear out your private message box .... then I will answer the question you asked me in your private message. It is full and will not accept any more messages. That is what you get for being so popular.