Demographics of how we date/partner/be single

~SweetCheeks~ · 10-12-2014, 07:09 PM

Partnered/committed monogamous.

imperfect_cupcake · 10-12-2014, 07:30 PM

I'm pretty blunt about being a girly girl that only goes for butch on OKCupid. There is a very rare butch 35+ on okcupid in my area. Usually poly.

The ones that are out on cupid about being butch and are monog/poly/single/etc... Just plain out about being Butch and come in various different guises are all across the border in Seattle and further south.

The only out ones here are poly and with a partner. Which is fine. I'm in school anyway. But I never get a write back. *shrug*

MsTinkerbelly · 10-12-2014, 08:05 PM

Married, monogamous.

Nadeest · 10-12-2014, 08:47 PM

I'm definitely single, and not dating. That is because I haven't found anyone, though. I'd happily go out with someone nice, that asked me out, right now, no matter what their age, as long as they were of legal age.

imperfect_cupcake · 10-12-2014, 08:58 PM

Ok when you *do* date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?

Mel C. · 10-12-2014, 09:05 PM

Too bad I can't change my answer on polls. I answered for Sunday but might want to change my answer tomorrow.

Orema · 10-13-2014, 06:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by honeybarbara

Ok when you *do* date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?

Single, not dating, not having casual sex.

When I date it's one butch at a time and if it doesn't work out I move on.

I have a crush on someone

it's pretty strong and I'm not going to date anyone until we work this out.

Gemme · 10-13-2014, 06:42 AM

Single, not dating, not having casual sex.

Nadeest · 11-13-2014, 10:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by honeybarbara

Ok when you *do* date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?

I don't really have enough information yet, to be able to answer your question. In the past, when I lived as a male, I tended to date one person at a time; however, everything changed for me, after transition. I don't know how I will do things, now. I AM open to dating multiple people at one time, just as I would also consider a poly relationship. The first person that I dated, after I transitioned was poly, and that opened my thoughts to the possibility.

Gaige · 10-12-2014, 09:11 PM

Single, not dating, no casual sex. I need an attraction in order to be able to have sex with a femme. And if there is an attraction, I’ll most likely try to date her.

diamondrose · 10-12-2014, 09:36 PM

Committed and monogamous..almost married.

Uli · 10-12-2014, 10:07 PM

I got an error when I tried to answer the poll.

Partnered and monogamish.

View Poll Results: How do we date/partner/be single?
Single, not dating, not having casual sex	28	29.17%
Single, casual dating/casual sex	8	8.33%
Single, dating one person, no commitments	12	12.50%
Seeing someone/partnered/married - closed relationship - monogamy or polyfidelity	36	37.50%
Seeing people/someone, partnered or married - open relationships- nonmonogamy/polyamory ect	12	12.50%
Voters: 96. You may not vote on this poll

10-13-2014, 06:42 AM	#8
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,972 Times in 25,664 Posts Rep Power: 21474888	Single, not dating, not having casual sex. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

10-12-2014, 07:09 PM	#1
~SweetCheeks~ Member How Do You Identify?: femme-babygirl-brat Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Justin's babygirl Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: So Cal Posts: 733 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,608 Thanked 3,253 Times in 646 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Partnered/committed monogamous.

10-12-2014, 07:30 PM	#2
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,711 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I'm pretty blunt about being a girly girl that only goes for butch on OKCupid. There is a very rare butch 35+ on okcupid in my area. Usually poly. The ones that are out on cupid about being butch and are monog/poly/single/etc... Just plain out about being Butch and come in various different guises are all across the border in Seattle and further south. The only out ones here are poly and with a partner. Which is fine. I'm in school anyway. But I never get a write back. shrug

10-12-2014, 08:05 PM	#3
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,908 Times in 5,019 Posts Rep Power: 0	Married, monogamous.

10-12-2014, 08:47 PM	#4
Nadeest Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Leesburg, FL Posts: 595 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,876 Thanked 2,118 Times in 501 Posts Rep Power: 17077997	I'm definitely single, and not dating. That is because I haven't found anyone, though. I'd happily go out with someone nice, that asked me out, right now, no matter what their age, as long as they were of legal age.

10-12-2014, 08:58 PM	#5
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,711 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Ok when you do date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?

10-12-2014, 09:05 PM	#6
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,828 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Too bad I can't change my answer on polls. I answered for Sunday but might want to change my answer tomorrow.

10-12-2014, 09:11 PM	#10
Gaige Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: above my boots Posts: 2,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,649 Thanked 3,755 Times in 1,171 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Single, not dating, no casual sex. I need an attraction in order to be able to have sex with a femme. And if there is an attraction, I’ll most likely try to date her.

10-12-2014, 09:36 PM	#11
diamondrose Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: . Posts: 1,384 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2 Thanked 2,895 Times in 923 Posts Rep Power: 13536274	Committed and monogamous..almost married.

10-12-2014, 10:07 PM	#12
Uli Member How Do You Identify?: fat girl Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married! Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: - Posts: 112 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 173 Thanked 529 Times in 104 Posts Rep Power: 3865493	I got an error when I tried to answer the poll. Partnered and monogamish.