What pissed you off today?

Kenna · 12-01-2014, 09:14 PM

The pain in my spine and pelvic bones. I'm so sick of pain.
I have two more important doctor appointments this week...I am determined to have patience. But I get pissed that the most simplest of tasks or riding in a vehicle causes such excruciating pain. I get pissed when the pain is so bad it makes my teeth chatter and makes me sick to my stomach.

Sorry for my vent.
Everyone else (including furbabies) in my house are asleep, and I just needed to get that out.

cinnamongrrl · 12-24-2014, 06:05 PM

With all the massive amounts of water going on outside, the well apparently ran out today.

It was forever this morning before I could do dishes or even wash my hands.

THEN....I'm mid shower, shampoo lathered... and the water cut out...again

It did this about 3 more times before I was sufficiently rinsed.

bah humbug!

nycfem · 12-30-2014, 02:25 PM

Hi, Kenna,

As you predicted in your post, going off on another member and sharing their personal business publicly is leading to a reported post and moderation. I am not sure whether I need to explain the moderation since you yourself chose to go for it even though you knew it would likely lead to moderation. And for the record, your post was NOT reported by the member who you went off on.

Whether Cinnamongrrl's original post was meant as a passive-aggressive jab at you or was simply her being pissed off and genuinely sharing it, we shall never know. However, with your posts there was no guessing. You were sharing personal information about another member's personal life publicly and with vindictiveness. You can't do this! You can report her post or message her privately or ignore it or put her on ignore, but you can't go off on her publicly relating to personal information.

From Cinnamon's post, I did not think of you, as I'm sure the vast majority of members who read it did not. From your post I learned that you and Cinnamon have been neighbors and having real life neighborhood goings-on, what those are, and that you are angry at her. That's too much information for a public forum and compromises Cinnnamon's privacy. It's also not the way to handle a post that you suspect or believe that you know is passive-aggressive.

If this doesn't make sense, I'm happy to engage with you more on this, but please PM me privately and take a cool down from this thread. In the future, if you know as you are typing that it is against the TOS/ moderation worthy, then please don't do it!

Thanks,
Jennifer

12-01-2014, 09:14 PM	#1
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,192 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	The pain in my spine and pelvic bones. I'm so sick of pain. I have two more important doctor appointments this week...I am determined to have patience. But I get pissed that the most simplest of tasks or riding in a vehicle causes such excruciating pain. I get pissed when the pain is so bad it makes my teeth chatter and makes me sick to my stomach. Sorry for my vent. Everyone else (including furbabies) in my house are asleep, and I just needed to get that out. __________________ **************************** She has been through hell, so believe me when I say, fear her when she looks into a fire and smiles. ~E.Corona~

12-24-2014, 06:05 PM	#2
cinnamongrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?: wild woman Relationship Status: No, thank you. Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Home in NC..gonna dig in like a tick this time… Posts: 7,662 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,233 Thanked 27,600 Times in 6,957 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	With all the massive amounts of water going on outside, the well apparently ran out today. It was forever this morning before I could do dishes or even wash my hands. THEN....I'm mid shower, shampoo lathered... and the water cut out...again It did this about 3 more times before I was sufficiently rinsed. bah humbug! __________________

12-30-2014, 02:25 PM	#3
nycfem Moderator How Do You Identify?: femme sub Preferred Pronoun?: Baby Grrl Relationship Status: Attached Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NYC Posts: 6,794 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 52,987 Thanked 21,427 Times in 5,101 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	MODERATION- Reported post Hi, Kenna, As you predicted in your post, going off on another member and sharing their personal business publicly is leading to a reported post and moderation. I am not sure whether I need to explain the moderation since you yourself chose to go for it even though you knew it would likely lead to moderation. And for the record, your post was NOT reported by the member who you went off on. Whether Cinnamongrrl's original post was meant as a passive-aggressive jab at you or was simply her being pissed off and genuinely sharing it, we shall never know. However, with your posts there was no guessing. You were sharing personal information about another member's personal life publicly and with vindictiveness. You can't do this! You can report her post or message her privately or ignore it or put her on ignore, but you can't go off on her publicly relating to personal information. From Cinnamon's post, I did not think of you, as I'm sure the vast majority of members who read it did not. From your post I learned that you and Cinnamon have been neighbors and having real life neighborhood goings-on, what those are, and that you are angry at her. That's too much information for a public forum and compromises Cinnnamon's privacy. It's also not the way to handle a post that you suspect or believe that you know is passive-aggressive. If this doesn't make sense, I'm happy to engage with you more on this, but please PM me privately and take a cool down from this thread. In the future, if you know as you are typing that it is against the TOS/ moderation worthy, then please don't do it! Thanks, Jennifer __________________ *** How do I... ?** Check out the Members Helping Members thread: http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...embers+Helping