How do you feel about "PDA"?

imperfect_cupcake · 12-19-2014, 10:43 PM

Depends where I am, really (what country, what part).

Generally I enjoy holding hands, or my hand through their arm. Head on their shoulder on the bus or train. Hand on lap at the pub.

Public style kisses, unless it's late night somewhere, after a few drinks, and it's a queer to club, rave or an event or a dark doorway.

I'm not going to play tonsil hockey on the train at 7pm.

But I have made out pretty heavily after midnight in the pub at a table during a queer event. Maybe even did kissing rounds at the table....

Gotten rather frisky at a pride picnic before when some young butch wanted to try kissing the girls that were in our circle... We passed her around for a proper snog each.

Generally, I'm pretty reserved unless the special occasion calls for a bit of fun.

starryeyes · 12-19-2014, 11:12 PM

I love it. Just sayin!! :-D

MysticOceansFL · 12-20-2014, 04:09 AM

I'm all for it! Walking hand and hand or my arm around her waist or while driving I lay my hand on her thigh and her touching me also and telling each other " I love you's " in public also and sharing food off each other plates but I'm not into showing sexually how I deeply feel about my partner in public that should be at home you know that's private! But anything else I'm all for!

CherryWine · 12-20-2014, 09:07 AM

I am pretty much in agreement with what others have posted. Holding hands, quick pecks on the cheek or forehead, maybe a little back rub here and there. Where I live, this is mostly limited to gay bars and gay-friendly events in order to avoid rude comments or stares.

I don't care to watch someone straddling their partner and sucking face in public, so you won't find me doing it either. Get a room for all of that. Lol.

grenade · 12-20-2014, 09:31 AM

It depends on where we are. I'm a toucher. I will touch anywhere. If I'm not touching my partner then I'm holding hands with my 13 year old daughter.

TruTexan · 12-20-2014, 11:13 AM

I"m pretty much like sleepy on PDA. I enjoy being with a partner and touching them. I love to be touched in return. But I'm not about to play tonsil hockey as HB put it public or straddle my partner , that's for getting a room somewhere and not in public in MHO( I don't like seeing it either, either gay or straight.)

Logicaly · 01-03-2015, 12:20 AM

I like some PDA for sure. Walking down the street holding her hand. Or if we are standing at a street corner waiting to cross I will take the opportunity to have my arms around her, or to steal a kiss. If we are driving, and just pulled into a parking spot, I am more likely to get a longer kiss before we get out of the car.

I think there is a point it does become too much, but simple things, instead of full on make-out sessions are good.

12-19-2014, 11:12 PM	#2
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12-20-2014, 04:09 AM	#3
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,033 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I'm all for it! Walking hand and hand or my arm around her waist or while driving I lay my hand on her thigh and her touching me also and telling each other " I love you's " in public also and sharing food off each other plates but I'm not into showing sexually how I deeply feel about my partner in public that should be at home you know that's private! But anything else I'm all for! __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

12-20-2014, 11:13 AM	#6
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,266 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I"m pretty much like sleepy on PDA. I enjoy being with a partner and touching them. I love to be touched in return. But I'm not about to play tonsil hockey as HB put it public or straddle my partner , that's for getting a room somewhere and not in public in MHO( I don't like seeing it either, either gay or straight.) __________________

01-03-2015, 12:20 AM	#7
Logicaly Member How Do You Identify?: Transgender Male Preferred Pronoun?: Male Relationship Status: She is the gamer girl to my gamer boy Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California, Bay Area Posts: 683 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 395 Thanked 1,742 Times in 513 Posts Rep Power: 8641138	I like some PDA for sure. Walking down the street holding her hand. Or if we are standing at a street corner waiting to cross I will take the opportunity to have my arms around her, or to steal a kiss. If we are driving, and just pulled into a parking spot, I am more likely to get a longer kiss before we get out of the car. I think there is a point it does become too much, but simple things, instead of full on make-out sessions are good. __________________ ~Logicaly~ Geeky guy extraordinaire Always and Forever

12-19-2014, 10:43 PM	#1
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Depends where I am, really (what country, what part). Generally I enjoy holding hands, or my hand through their arm. Head on their shoulder on the bus or train. Hand on lap at the pub. Public style kisses, unless it's late night somewhere, after a few drinks, and it's a queer to club, rave or an event or a dark doorway. I'm not going to play tonsil hockey on the train at 7pm. But I have made out pretty heavily after midnight in the pub at a table during a queer event. Maybe even did kissing rounds at the table.... Gotten rather frisky at a pride picnic before when some young butch wanted to try kissing the girls that were in our circle... We passed her around for a proper snog each. Generally, I'm pretty reserved unless the special occasion calls for a bit of fun.

12-20-2014, 09:07 AM	#4
CherryWine Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian femme Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: The Deep South Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,060 Thanked 10,006 Times in 2,182 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	I am pretty much in agreement with what others have posted. Holding hands, quick pecks on the cheek or forehead, maybe a little back rub here and there. Where I live, this is mostly limited to gay bars and gay-friendly events in order to avoid rude comments or stares. I don't care to watch someone straddling their partner and sucking face in public, so you won't find me doing it either. Get a room for all of that. Lol.

12-20-2014, 09:31 AM	#5
grenade Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Full Flavor Femme Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Midwest Posts: 2,929 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,925 Thanked 8,058 Times in 2,121 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	It depends on where we are. I'm a toucher. I will touch anywhere. If I'm not touching my partner then I'm holding hands with my 13 year old daughter.