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			I miss critical thinking type threads.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I miss super long verbal conversations with someone I am sweet on I miss going out for dinner or the pub in dapper clothes I miss big genderqueer-dyke regular events and being able to catch up with lots of people in one venue I miss good Indian food, especially Bangladeshie I miss Turkish shops I miss three hour sex a thons I miss dinner parties, a lot I miss seeing groups of butches regularly. I got to do it recently and it was like standing by a waterfall and breathing ionized air. I felt totally refreshed and charged up. It's not the same seeing a butch here and there on the street or in the drug store or grocery store. Actually socialising, chatting, laughing and hanging out with *plural*, butches, makes me feel normal and happy. I miss that too. Gosh, my life may be queer, but it has very little butch - as group socialising - in it these days. I miss my femme mates, don't get me wrong, but I feel a bit like being on an island with lots of great people, except for the gender that gives you a lift, a complimentary tension and charge. I'm not trying to fetishishise here but butches, can you imagine a world where there are no feminine women? Not even heterosexual ones? Not on tv, not in the magazines, not on the street (or if there is it's rare), it's all masculine women and men. Imagine how excited you get for a moment when you'd see one? Yeah. That's kind of a femme thing a lot of us miss. Just seeing you all. Just for a moment.  | 
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			VALOMILK's! I need to go to Cracker Barrel and get some.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			The excitement of Christmas while living at home. 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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	  kissesA kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.  | 
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			Being single is a good thing and I like it. Join Date: Jun 2014 
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			I miss cigarettes, booze, fatty foods and Elvis.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Getting texts from that someone special.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			The long conversations..
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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	Im just me thats it..  
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			I miss all things Asheville....the coffee, the feel, the people...the mountains especially...it is home...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Dogs!  I miss Jake, Manny and Koda (three of my 5 dogs).
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Human interaction. I miss the days when you could make eye contact and greet someone either in a elevator or just passing each other on a sidewalk ~
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			As a single person, I miss dating, true dates not this new stuff kids do these days.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Folks who don't play games, lie or cheat.  | 
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			I miss the days before you needed a degree in chemistry to read a food label.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 
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			My give a damn.  I mean there are some things I still give a damn about, but most things are given to much importance that really are not that important.  So my give a damn aint broke. Im just much more selective of what I give a damn about
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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	Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.  | 
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			Ohhhh I have missed BFP!!!!! Work has been extremely exhausting the last 6 months but life is awesome...  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Spins in circles.. I am home... I missed you!! 
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			OMG, I missed YOU!!! Hi sissy!!!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I miss spooning!!!!!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I miss kissing my daughter and grandson good morning. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I miss knowing that my mom, grandma and aunties are around. I miss my mom saying something is "bitchen". I miss my sisters, my cousins and my Dr. Seuss books that use to arrive in the mail. I miss romper room, captain kangaroo, sheriff john and hobo kelly. Oh, and Bozo, My Favorite Martian, Courtship of Eddie's Father, Lost In Space, original Twilight Zone, Kolchak: The Night Stalker, Colombo, Police Woman, Dragnet, Speed Racer, Dark Shadows, Bonanza, Combat, Rifleman, The Big Valley and many more! 
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			There's nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shoreline, no matter how many times it's sent away. Sarah Kay Last edited by WildHorses; 02-18-2015 at 01:24 AM. Reason: more additions  | 
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			agreed! i miss cuddling
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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