The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 50

ruthie14 · 05-01-2010, 10:17 PM

Hi Jet, I wish I could believe that. I really do.

morningstar55 · 05-02-2010, 07:05 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

ok really???!!! New job sucks, and now my Mother is making me crazy. She made me so angry tonight.. Never knew her to be spiteful, but she is being spiteful now.

I sooooooo regret buying a house with her. I wish I never did!! She is so different from what I knew as a kid and what she has shown me since I left home. I would have never guessed. I need SOMETHING good to happen. I am at my wits end I swear. Shit.. One bad thing after another and another and another...

Thanks for letting me vent!

((((Ruthie))))))))) maybe ya just need to get away for a bit.....

goooooooo morning Lofters
ill have to catch up with all of you later............. taking my friend to see the Niagara Falls... bbl

yourexwife · 05-02-2010, 07:33 AM

Not the only one sweetie, I got me some silver in my locks. : )
Not liking it, but not into the the chemicals of changing it to the color I was born with. LOL
: )

So how is everyone doing on this gloomy day? Happy music will lift your spirits.

Isadora · 05-02-2010, 09:36 AM

The most scary thing for me is fear of falling. I don't know why, maybe I spent too many years as a geriatric social worker. I fell on Thursday. Even 10 years ago I would have just been embarrassed and picked my self up. Now before I picked myself up I checked for anything possibly broken or splintered. I am sore from neck to toe (nothing broken or sprained just battered, rug burned and bruised) but it scared me. I have no idea why I am telling you this. LOL My bones feel ancient today. heh

Galahad · 05-02-2010, 12:25 PM

Ouch Isadora. Thank goodness no broken bones or bad sprains. I have the same fear of falling too. Nothing heals fast anymore. It took a year the last time I fell for those aches, bumps and little muscle pulls to work out and get my strength back. The new scare with taking the osteoporosis prevention drugs is brittle bones that shatter. I'm taking a calcium and mineral supplement now, maybe too late, but I hope it helps.

Jet · 05-02-2010, 03:09 PM

It's hot out today
hope everyone is okay
fallen or not

take care, i think i'm going to do more
art for my favorite thread

cya

ruthie14 · 05-02-2010, 04:16 PM

Sorry Isa..hopefully you will feel better soon.

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Originally Posted by Isadora

The most scary thing for me is fear of falling. I don't know why, maybe I spent too many years as a geriatric social worker. I fell on Thursday. Even 10 years ago I would have just been embarrassed and picked my self up. Now before I picked myself up I checked for anything possibly broken or splintered. I am sore from neck to toe (nothing broken or sprained just battered, rug burned and bruised) but it scared me. I have no idea why I am telling you this. LOL My bones feel ancient today. heh

Rockinonahigh · 05-02-2010, 08:25 PM

I never worried about falling untill a fue years ago,when a simple slip trashed my knee and back.The doc thought it was just bruses and a sprain.the knee got better but the back took a good hit.many years of rideing show horses had slightly bludged a disk,tho it wasnt a prob to speak of.Then I fell flat on my butt and hit hard and really did it good that time.

morningstar55 · 05-03-2010, 05:46 AM

good morning Lofters
its Monday ...... and rainy here at the ol homestead...
its has been nice to be home for a change..... but its back on the road later this afternoon.. *sigh*
have a great day everyone.

miss entycing · 05-03-2010, 01:15 PM

hiya Lofter's
another rainy, humid and utterly dreary day here in the Carolina's....

hope everyone has a lovely rest of the day

Wryly · 05-03-2010, 01:18 PM

hey all!

Beautiful weather here - nice and sunny. But my little niece thinks I need to watch Toy Story......again!
I've watched it so many times with her that I think I know it by heart.

Hope everyone has a good day.

05-04-2010, 12:45 PM

What-o Chaps and Chapesses of the Loft

It's been a while old beans, I hope everyone is feelin' dandy now the spring is really upon us. Don't you love the bursting forth of cherry blossom and the first horse chestnut tree leaves? (well here in the UK anyway)...and spring lambs gamboling in fields, racing up and down having a rare old time.

What heralds spring for you?

Wryly · 05-04-2010, 12:50 PM

What heralds spring?
hockey playoffs! Hoping the Detroit Red Wings do well.
Allergies. I don't suffer much, other than some headaches and a stuffed nose, but it really is annoying.
Putting the woolies away! Actually - we enjoyed a mostly mild winter so I didn't need the sweaters like I usually do.
Family. In the spring I do a bit of travelling and visit my nephew and his family. Always an enjoyable time.

lipstixgal · 05-04-2010, 12:58 PM

Well I'm 52 and I feel young and great would be better if I had someone in my life though.

lipstixgal · 05-04-2010, 12:59 PM

Well I'm 52 and I feel young and great would be better if I had someone in my life though.

05-04-2010, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Wryly

What heralds spring?
hockey playoffs! Hoping the Detroit Red Wings do well.
Allergies. I don't suffer much, other than some headaches and a stuffed nose, but it really is annoying.
Putting the woolies away! Actually - we enjoyed a mostly mild winter so I didn't need the sweaters like I usually do.
Family. In the spring I do a bit of travelling and visit my nephew and his family. Always an enjoyable time.

ahaa I forgot the major sports; here it's the F.A Cup (or whatever they call it nowadays), major domestic soccer championships. Oh yes, putting the heavier of the winter wear away is always good too. Have you had your spring trip to see your nephew?

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Well I'm 52 and I feel young and great would be better if I had someone in my life though.

The spring sap is rising huh?

fever · 05-04-2010, 01:25 PM

The lilacs are coming out now too, Wryly, and they are my favourite bush/flower. Where are you travelling to visit family? If you come to BC, please give me a shout. But, bring your rubber duckie boots, it has been raining here way too much! lol

Good afternoon to all the lofters. Ruthie, I am sending you big hugs. You are one terrific femme. Maybe YOU need to come to BC for a visit. I have a few butch friends that would love to meet you. :-)

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Originally Posted by Wryly

What heralds spring?
hockey playoffs! Hoping the Detroit Red Wings do well.
Allergies. I don't suffer much, other than some headaches and a stuffed nose, but it really is annoying.
Putting the woolies away! Actually - we enjoyed a mostly mild winter so I didn't need the sweaters like I usually do.
Family. In the spring I do a bit of travelling and visit my nephew and his family. Always an enjoyable time.

Jack · 05-04-2010, 01:45 PM

...being 45 I can join this club,

* waves to all the other over 40's *

We're half way there kids. LOL

Jet · 05-04-2010, 03:11 PM

fly by...sayin hey. everyone have a good week.

jet

Wryly · 05-04-2010, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Incubus

ahaa I forgot the major sports; here it's the F.A Cup (or whatever they call it nowadays), major domestic soccer championships. Oh yes, putting the heavier of the winter wear away is always good too. Have you had your spring trip to see your nephew?

The spring sap is rising huh?

Incubus - I'm enjoying my visit right now! Matter of fact - I just extended my time here. We've been busy, busy, busy - seeing the sights, going places. Plus you add in the activites for his daughters. Having a great time.
I've been to London a few times. Once I was lucky enough to see a women's FA Cup final - I remember one of the teams was Everton. A good time.

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Originally Posted by fever

The lilacs are coming out now too, Wryly, and they are my favourite bush/flower. Where are you travelling to visit family? If you come to BC, please give me a shout. But, bring your rubber duckie boots, it has been raining here way too much! lol

Good afternoon to all the lofters. Ruthie, I am sending you big hugs. You are one terrific femme. Maybe YOU need to come to BC for a visit. I have a few butch friends that would love to meet you. :-)

Fever - sorry my friend, I'm unable to visit BC anytime soon. Hope to someday. My family is in southern California. Beautiful weather here - except for the earthquakes. Apparently there was an aftershock last night - but I slept through it.
Oh my! Lilacs are one of my faves! When I was a kid we had a row of lilac bushes growing by the house. I remember them being quite tall. Sadly, they are no longer there.

05-02-2010, 07:33 AM	#983
yourexwife Junior Member How Do You Identify?: girlie girl Preferred Pronoun?: Oh miss, psssssssst, pssst, can I tell you Relationship Status: relatable Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: home Posts: 31 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12 Thanked 16 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 214767	LOL Not the only one sweetie, I got me some silver in my locks. : ) Not liking it, but not into the the chemicals of changing it to the color I was born with. LOL : ) So how is everyone doing on this gloomy day? Happy music will lift your spirits.

05-02-2010, 09:36 AM	#984
Isadora Member How Do You Identify?: Momma, Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: I am in love. Truly Madly Deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 997 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 502 Thanked 2,126 Times in 559 Posts Rep Power: 2369288	The most scary thing for me is fear of falling. I don't know why, maybe I spent too many years as a geriatric social worker. I fell on Thursday. Even 10 years ago I would have just been embarrassed and picked my self up. Now before I picked myself up I checked for anything possibly broken or splintered. I am sore from neck to toe (nothing broken or sprained just battered, rug burned and bruised) but it scared me. I have no idea why I am telling you this. LOL My bones feel ancient today. heh __________________ "I have a respect for manners as such, they are a way of dealing with people you don't agree with or like." Margaret Mead Read me! www.leatherati.com

05-03-2010, 05:46 AM	#989
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05-03-2010, 01:15 PM	#990
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05-04-2010, 01:45 PM	#998
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05-01-2010, 10:17 PM	#981
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Hi Jet, I wish I could believe that. I really do.

05-02-2010, 12:25 PM	#985
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 339 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446604	Ouch Isadora. Thank goodness no broken bones or bad sprains. I have the same fear of falling too. Nothing heals fast anymore. It took a year the last time I fell for those aches, bumps and little muscle pulls to work out and get my strength back. The new scare with taking the osteoporosis prevention drugs is brittle bones that shatter. I'm taking a calcium and mineral supplement now, maybe too late, but I hope it helps.

05-02-2010, 03:09 PM	#986
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05-02-2010, 08:25 PM	#988
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I never worried about falling untill a fue years ago,when a simple slip trashed my knee and back.The doc thought it was just bruses and a sprain.the knee got better but the back took a good hit.many years of rideing show horses had slightly bludged a disk,tho it wasnt a prob to speak of.Then I fell flat on my butt and hit hard and really did it good that time.

05-03-2010, 01:18 PM	#991
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05-04-2010, 12:45 PM	#992
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	What-o Chaps and Chapesses of the Loft It's been a while old beans, I hope everyone is feelin' dandy now the spring is really upon us. Don't you love the bursting forth of cherry blossom and the first horse chestnut tree leaves? (well here in the UK anyway)...and spring lambs gamboling in fields, racing up and down having a rare old time. What heralds spring for you?

05-04-2010, 12:50 PM	#993
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094254	What heralds spring? hockey playoffs! Hoping the Detroit Red Wings do well. Allergies. I don't suffer much, other than some headaches and a stuffed nose, but it really is annoying. Putting the woolies away! Actually - we enjoyed a mostly mild winter so I didn't need the sweaters like I usually do. Family. In the spring I do a bit of travelling and visit my nephew and his family. Always an enjoyable time.

05-04-2010, 12:58 PM	#994
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05-04-2010, 12:59 PM	#995
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	Well I'm 52 and I feel young and great would be better if I had someone in my life though.

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Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	fly by...sayin hey. everyone have a good week. jet