What TO DO in a relationship.....

MissItalianDiva · 05-09-2015, 01:55 AM

Be imperfect and admit when you are human...works wonders

Tuff Stuff · 09-06-2015, 10:44 PM

Affection,loads of it..and she must be right most of the time if not all of the time.If she is not happy..you will not be happy.

I don't know,that's just my experience

JDeere · 09-07-2015, 02:40 AM

Always have communication!

Daisy Chain · 09-07-2015, 03:34 AM

Dont listen with your mouth listen with your ears and when you`ve listened repeat the point back so they know you have listened and understood. Then move forward from there. Always be sure to offer them the same as you would ask of them. Forgive and forget the little things and when they piss you off be sure to remember the stuff they do that makes you feel loved and valued as well.

Daisy

Venus007 · 09-07-2015, 06:38 AM

Remember especially when fighting that you love this person and want to build something moving forward.

Having to be right, nuclear anger, winning at any cost, emotional bullying, these tools may work in the moment to win the argument but those same tools can be the identical ones that disassemble your ongoing love and trust.

Temper your speech.

Chad · 09-07-2015, 08:20 AM

Respect, my sweetheart is my love and my best friend. I respect her for all of her gifts. Always respect your partner.

Virago · 09-07-2015, 12:15 PM

LOVE this thread!

09-07-2015, 02:40 AM	#3
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09-07-2015, 08:20 AM	#6
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05-09-2015, 01:55 AM	#1
MissItalianDiva Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Miss Twiggy Preferred Pronoun?: Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious and that shit doesn't sound atrocious! Relationship Status: divorce happens..all that glitters ain't gold Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: SLC Utah Posts: 2,284 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,768 Thanked 7,159 Times in 1,793 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Be imperfect and admit when you are human...works wonders

09-06-2015, 10:44 PM	#2
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	Affection,loads of it..and she must* be right most of the time if not all of the time.If she is not happy..you will not be happy.* I don't know,that's just my experience

09-07-2015, 03:34 AM	#4
Daisy Chain Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Hy calls me Hys Kitten Join Date: May 2015 Location: 2nd star to the right and straight on til morning Posts: 729 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,814 Thanked 1,809 Times in 447 Posts Rep Power: 0	Dont listen with your mouth listen with your ears and when you`ve listened repeat the point back so they know you have listened and understood. Then move forward from there. Always be sure to offer them the same as you would ask of them. Forgive and forget the little things and when they piss you off be sure to remember the stuff they do that makes you feel loved and valued as well. Daisy

09-07-2015, 12:15 PM	#7
Virago Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 387 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 404 Thanked 1,123 Times in 306 Posts Rep Power: 8364711	LOVE this thread!