The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

[Okiebug61]

Red told me she wants a power washer for Christmas. I am thinking I am being set up to have a lot of work to do. :-)

[ArkansasPiscesGrrl]

hey Lofters! Hope your Tuesday afternoons are going great.

I am taking a bit of a break to eat some lunch (homemade ham & field peas soup), look around in BFP for a bit, then back to work calling insurance companies. It is cold and cloudy here in AR, missing my old FL weather. Clay, you will have to enjoy the warmth in the south for me! Good thing I am self employed, I don't HAVE to go outside!

When I get done for the day, I am going to treat myself to watching the last Happy Potter movie. Was catching up with the next-to-last movie last night, to remind me before watching this one. Have to finish it all by tonite, though, as Tuesday is my NCIS night! Woo-hoo!

Have an awesome day, Singles!

[LadyRain]

Got home last night, after 3am! Flight delay and was stuck in LasVegas for 3 hours. Good to be home in my bed, my puppy my kitten! Travel is fun but I am worn out.!!

[clay]

Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

hey Lofters! Hope your Tuesday . It is cold and cloudy here in AR, missing my old FL weather. Clay, you will have to enjoy the warmth in the south for me! Good thing I am self employed, I don't HAVE to go outside!



Have an awesome day, Singles!

Hey APG: It IS awesome here today. Countyfem & I went to a BBQ lunch at Jim & Nick's...and ate out on patio..was a gorgeous 75 here today..awesome blue skies, sunshine, and few clouds.
Then we went to Hilton Head Island Beach...she made some pics, dipped her feet in sand, and we came back by Starbucks...and had a coffee. Tomorrow we will see the Old Sheldon Church Ruins and some cool places as well as downtown waterfront park..we will have lunch on the waterfront...and weather should be as awesome then as well...so come on down and join us dahlink!!!
I am so blessed to have her here...she is keeping me laughing and NOT thinking about Friday. I have a very best friend in her..and I am so blessed we have become such awesome friends...she is such a sweetheart...and I hope someone very special wins her heart!!! She is very deserving....I told her I have to "screen" anyone who shows an interest....she is a gorgeous soul!!!! Anyway...have a great evening and enjoy your movie..hugs and loves ya gal!!! Clay

[ruthie14]

Originally Posted by rustedrims

GOOD GOD RUTHIE !!!!

If i sit across the table eating dinner looking into someones eyes i really dont want it to be my DINNER.!!!.What part of the "Head" needs to be served for dinner..??..
You are scaring me..Making a note if i eat at Ruthies house keep an open mind..
What was for Dessert anyway..????..A little courious now..

Getting wrote up at work only means someone is paying attention to you not that you are bad..Kinda surprised i havent got wrote up myself..

First... I didn't cook the dinner so I did not cook the bores head. It came in seperated from its body I'll have you know. With the full reverance it deserved. lolol

If I cooked for you... it would be delish! I am a good cook!

Dessert was pumpkin pie!

work... well , ya according to them..it was trouble. Unfortunately it was thier trouble they found a way to blame me for. lovely eh?

Morning star.... This is my full time job as a nursery school teacher. It is very high stress and low low pay. My 59 year old self can't handle the physical or the emotional stress anymore. Most child care teachers only last 5 years... I am very long in the toothe.

My part time job is working with autistic young adults and I have a pet/babysitinng business as well. .. still live paycheck to paycheck.

Need to find a full time job with less physical stess and more money. lololol Good luck right?
I am in a lot of pain tonight... to much lifting and stress I think.

Night all!

Ruthie

[ruthie14]

Clay.....Ruthie: what are you doing girl? I see you always manage to get into trouble...no matter what...maybe I need to give rusted a "head's up" on you...lmao


You know me Clay... trouble is my middle name!!!! actually it's sucker... but trouble sounds more like a diva... so I'll take trouble!! love you Clay!

Ruthie

[morningstar55]

mawning loft dwellers

looks like a oatmeal kinda morning here....

Ruth wow.. lol .. i dont think i could keep up with them lil buggers lol.
maybe a change in jobs might be good.. ey?? lol
ya know i know how tough it is for our age group to find decent paying work.
tis why im still in this truck i guess..... id like to find something local .. and been applying here and there , ,most involve trailers.. and well im trying to stay away from that. ... im thinking of checking with a kellys or addco to se if i can be trained for a shipping /recieving thing or learn to drive a fork lift...
and get off this damm road.. i miss being home so much.
but right now....... it pays the bills i guess.
hope everyone has a awsome humpday

[clay]

Originally Posted by ruthie14

Clay.....Ruthie: what are you doing girl? I see you always manage to get into trouble...no matter what...maybe I need to give rusted a "head's up" on you...lmao


You know me Clay... trouble is my middle name!!!! actually it's sucker... but trouble sounds more like a diva... so I'll take trouble!! love you Clay!

Ruthie

oh yeah, a rose is a rose...by any other name, right????
Yep Diva Troublelicious..that be YOU!!! hahha
What did that poor boar do to you..ya hadda behead it and eat it..and where is MY piece of pumpkin pie BTW!! with cool whip, too..smiles...

[clay]

Mawnin' Ms. Morningstar.....it is already 70 here and it is only 900am...smiles...sure looks like a shorts and tee kinda day....smiles... (ducking in case n e one "throws? anything at me..lol...like I can control the weather...have an awesome day peeps...and hello to all my fellow lofters...Clay

Originally Posted by morningstar55

mawning loft dwellers

looks like a oatmeal kinda morning here....

Ruth wow.. lol .. i dont think i could keep up with them lil buggers lol.
maybe a change in jobs might be good.. ey?? lol
ya know i know how tough it is for our age group to find decent paying work.
tis why im still in this truck i guess..... id like to find something local .. and been applying here and there , ,most involve trailers.. and well im trying to stay away from that. ... im thinking of checking with a kellys or addco to se if i can be trained for a shipping /recieving thing or learn to drive a fork lift...
and get off this damm road.. i miss being home so much.
but right now....... it pays the bills i guess.
hope everyone has a awsome humpday

[Vlasta]

Originally Posted by claybaby

Mawnin' Ms. Morningstar.....it is already 70 here and it is only 900am...smiles...sure looks like a shorts and tee kinda day....smiles... (ducking in case n e one "throws? anything at me..lol...like I can control the weather...have an awesome day peeps...and hello to all my fellow lofters...Clay

Clay , How the heck I am only one state far away from you and your wether is so nice ? It's , not cold here , just so much rain , but it's heading to your way , trust me , I am getting weather from TN and I believe from reading it will not be pretty . so get ready !

Anyway , I hope everyone is well in our geriatric thread ... lol . Have a great hump day

[Gina]

Originally Posted by claybaby

morning lofters....how is everyone? It is another gorgeous, warm, sunny day here in the South!!! Sunny, blue skies...and temps will be in 70's...smiles...STILL able to wear my shorts and tees...smiles...
Hey Gina..how are you darling? Good to see you...please take care of YOU...and great to see you here..
Ruthie: what are you doing girl? I see you always manage to get into trouble...no matter what...maybe I need to give rusted a "head's up" on you...lmao...naw...just kidding..she is an awesome lady, rusted!!!
Morningstar..what mischief are YOU getting your self in to BTW...lol..
so everyone...hello to the rest of you..have an awesome day..and if you see someone without a smile, give them yours....smiles....I heart you all...Clay

Hi Clay! Gee it's been awhile..But I really do get on here and post and read. How are you? I know that you are loved in our community You are so supportive and give attention to others...HUGS! I am doing good. Went shopping yesterday and all my shopping is done and wrapped and under the tree. Christmas is extra special for me this year.....

[Gina]

Originally Posted by Rain

Got home last night, after 3am! Flight delay and was stuck in LasVegas for 3 hours. Good to be home in my bed, my puppy my kitten! Travel is fun but I am worn out.!!

Rain - I know that feeling well - being so tired after a trip. But there is no place like home and your own bed...

[Gina]

Okie - when I travel (and I travel quite a bit) - I always get more of a discount with my AARP card than with the AAA - and I've gotten as much as 40% off by doing a little haggling....

Originally Posted by Okiebug61

I thought turning 50 this year pretty much sucked. That was until I found out how many places I can use my AARP card and save 10%. Whoo Hooo!

[Gina]

While I was shopping yesterday - I bought myself a purple sleep mask that says: *Wake me with Coffee*

[midwest chick]

Originally Posted by Gina

While I was shopping yesterday - I bought myself a purple sleep mask that says: *Wake me with Coffee*

Oh, I soooo want a pink one! Where did you get it?

[blueeyes226_l]

Hi people,
I hope all is well with all of you. I hope all of you had a Thanksgiving not like mine. My daughter and her hubbie came and belive me it wasn't a nice Thanksgiving. It will take some time for my heart heals from her crap.Her and I got in to it 3 times. What am I thankful for....They left the day after Thanksgiving. One of the things-I brought Jon some candy he likes and was going to give it to him so I disn't have to pay postage. Shelly,my daughter, informed me They DID NOT like that candy. I said well I gave Jon some last year and he seemed to be happy about it. She told me NOT TO get them any thing. There was nothing they needed or wanted. Because,they just go out and buy what they need and want. If I give or send them any thing it will get returned. She blew up again and I said well never mind shelly I'll take care of it. She said something to me and I said I'll take care of it. I told her to scue it Shelly and tossed the candy in the trash can. She also told me she will not pay for my casket and so on. (I had told er my life Ins was made out to her but she would have to pay the rest of what my life Insurance will not pay. What a duirty look I got from her. I asked her if her and Jon got there blood typ done to see if they matched my blood typ. She more or less told me to go to H**l. She didn't like my friend Kodey who ate Thanksgiving with us. She pulled more crap but,I know you have a feeling what all had gone on.Some of You know the trouble I have had with the family. Honest to God I wanted to grab her and shake the stuffing out of her.She really had me ticked. Pluse,my Mom had one of her heart spells from all the crap from her. I belive Shellys money has gone to her head pluse his money to. I love my daughter very much but,my Kidney Dr. was me to try to stay away from stresful stuff. It makes my kidneys slah off even more.
I'm having test done to see if I can get a kidney. My kidneys are only 24% working. If it drops to 10% that willn't substan life.
Take care and be safe,
blueeyes226_l

[Gina]

Originally Posted by midwest chick

Oh, I soooo want a pink one! Where did you get it?

I got it at Bed, Bath & Beyond...Love that store!!

[LadyRain]

Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

Hi people,
I hope all is well with all of you. I hope all of you had a Thanksgiving not like mine. My daughter and her hubbie came and belive me it wasn't a nice Thanksgiving. It will take some time for my heart heals from her crap.Her and I got in to it 3 times. What am I thankful for....They left the day after Thanksgiving. One of the things-I brought Jon some candy he likes and was going to give it to him so I disn't have to pay postage. Shelly,my daughter, informed me They DID NOT like that candy. I said well I gave Jon some last year and he seemed to be happy about it. She told me NOT TO get them any thing. There was nothing they needed or wanted. Because,they just go out and buy what they need and want. If I give or send them any thing it will get returned. She blew up again and I said well never mind shelly I'll take care of it. She said something to me and I said I'll take care of it. I told her to scue it Shelly and tossed the candy in the trash can. She also told me she will not pay for my casket and so on. (I had told er my life Ins was made out to her but she would have to pay the rest of what my life Insurance will not pay. What a duirty look I got from her. I asked her if her and Jon got there blood typ done to see if they matched my blood typ. She more or less told me to go to H**l. She didn't like my friend Kodey who ate Thanksgiving with us. She pulled more crap but,I know you have a feeling what all had gone on.Some of You know the trouble I have had with the family. Honest to God I wanted to grab her and shake the stuffing out of her.She really had me ticked. Pluse,my Mom had one of her heart spells from all the crap from her. I belive Shellys money has gone to her head pluse his money to. I love my daughter very much but,my Kidney Dr. was me to try to stay away from stresful stuff. It makes my kidneys slah off even more.
I'm having test done to see if I can get a kidney. My kidneys are only 24% working. If it drops to 10% that willn't substan life.
Take care and be safe,
blueeyes226_l

am so sorry all this is happening to you. Family sure can be rotton. I think cause they are related they think they can say and do anything. I have my 16yr old grandaughter living with me right now. her parents dont WANT HER!! Imagine treating a child like a puppy!! She is a good kid!

[blueeyes226_l]

Originally Posted by Rain

am so sorry all this is happening to you. Family sure can be rotton. I think cause they are related they think they can say and do anything. I have my 16yr old grandaughter living with me right now. her parents dont WANT HER!! Imagine treating a child like a puppy!! She is a good kid!

Sorry aboutr your grandaughter. She must be feeling bad about things. Thank God she has you -your care and love for her. The teen years can be ruff as it is with out being treated like a puppy. Give her a hug from me.

[Vlasta]

Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

Hi people,
I hope all is well with all of you. I hope all of you had a Thanksgiving not like mine. My daughter and her hubbie came and belive me it wasn't a nice Thanksgiving. It will take some time for my heart heals from her crap.Her and I got in to it 3 times. What am I thankful for....They left the day after Thanksgiving. One of the things-I brought Jon some candy he likes and was going to give it to him so I disn't have to pay postage. Shelly,my daughter, informed me They DID NOT like that candy. I said well I gave Jon some last year and he seemed to be happy about it. She told me NOT TO get them any thing. There was nothing they needed or wanted. Because,they just go out and buy what they need and want. If I give or send them any thing it will get returned. She blew up again and I said well never mind shelly I'll take care of it. She said something to me and I said I'll take care of it. I told her to scue it Shelly and tossed the candy in the trash can. She also told me she will not pay for my casket and so on. (I had told er my life Ins was made out to her but she would have to pay the rest of what my life Insurance will not pay. What a duirty look I got from her. I asked her if her and Jon got there blood typ done to see if they matched my blood typ. She more or less told me to go to H**l. She didn't like my friend Kodey who ate Thanksgiving with us. She pulled more crap but,I know you have a feeling what all had gone on.Some of You know the trouble I have had with the family. Honest to God I wanted to grab her and shake the stuffing out of her.She really had me ticked. Pluse,my Mom had one of her heart spells from all the crap from her. I belive Shellys money has gone to her head pluse his money to. I love my daughter very much but,my Kidney Dr. was me to try to stay away from stresful stuff. It makes my kidneys slah off even more.
I'm having test done to see if I can get a kidney. My kidneys are only 24% working. If it drops to 10% that willn't substan life.
Take care and be safe,
blueeyes226_l

I am so sorry what is happening with your daughter . We as a parents should be enjoying are children and grandchildren . Hopefully one day she realizes that everything you teach her will surfaces and be daughter you raised . It's very painful and trust me I understand .

I am wishing you the best .

sending you a cyber hugs

Vlasta