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I wish I had gone straight to college after high school..
but then again, if I did that, then I would have been on the wrong coast to get pregnant with my son... hmmmm... No... Every mistake I made, every regret I might have has led me to where I am and who I am now...
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I've released myself from looking back...I can not turn back time...
it is counterproductive (for me) to live looking over my shoulder when I want to be moving forward with clarity of vision and strength of purpose... I am not always able to achieve this goal, but I try...I wish to put my energy into meeting these goals rather than being sidetracked by hindsight and hindered by regrets... |
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THE DAMN CIGGIES
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there has brought me here...
"There is nothing for you to go back and live over, or fix, or feel regret about now. Every part of your life has unfolded just right. And so - now - knowing all that you know from where you now stand, now what do you want? The answers are now coming forth to you. Go forth in joy, and get on with it."
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There is nothing I did that has not brought me here.
There are a whole lot of things that happened that I wish hadn't, like getting t boned in my car, but all of the things that happened, made me stronger and able to face the things that go wrong, with honor and compassion. Things happen for a reason, we often don't know the reason for it, but I believe it is how we adapt that makes us who we are.
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Everything happens for a reason...gives opportunities to learn and grow...I could wish I hadn't done a lot of things but then again what fun would that be?
Goes along with one of my favorite quotes: "You don't find life worth living; You make it that way!" How boring it would be without the learning...
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what i wouldnt give to be able to erase just a few stoopid moments in my life... but... im stuck with them... and the consequences that i left myself with... would i rather not have the regret... of course not... but... people in hell would rather not be there either... so i guess i will just have to deal withem... |
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Listened more been a better friend.. stopped trying to e what everyone else thought I should have been, not been a player taken the keys from her that last night.. just wish I would have taken the time to find me. I know the slips we make along the way shape us make us who we are but I think I could have done it better.. ahh regrets bitter pill
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I'd say I am sorry I screwed up my credit so bad, but it's taught me to be more careful of my finances and don't impulse buy (in big amounts, at least.. and okay maybe I still wish I hadn't a little, but that was 3-5 years ago and I have paid off every account - with documentation to prove so - and pay my bills on time if not ahead now)
I'd say I am sorry I dropped out of college, but I did so to take care of my partner I'd say I am sorry I ignored the red flags, but it showed me that was a path and type of person I didn't want to follow I'd say I am sorry I didn't meet you sooner, but I had to learn to love myself and more importantly, stand up for myself So really, the only thing I wish I hadn't done was starting smoking a long time ago - but I have given it up again and doing my damnedest to stick to it. |
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Just wish I hadn't been suckered by the people who suckered me.
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to have sold my house sooner
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had not gone to sleep at the wheel and killed my car
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I wish I had never gotten Plantar fasciitis in both feet and then a partially torn achilles tendon. The last 3 yrs of being very sedentary for me has cost me about 60 or 70 pounds and I know it will take a miracle to get it back off of me.
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Taken the ride that guy offered, when I was walking home...
As for the rest... If I would not have done those things I wouldn't be the person I am today... Isn't there a saying about, you would rather have loved than lost than to never have loved at all... I can't remember who said it or if I have even said it right but I would rather take a risk and risk it all than never have tried... Live with no regrets! |
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Wishing you well! And I can so relate!
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I wish I had finished college the first time around. It only took me until I was in my early 40's to finish my Master's degree, lol. But still, I did it!
I wish I had met my beautiful wife sooner in life, but I do cherish every moment we have; we both had a path to travel to get to where we are and our lives crossed when the timing was perfect! I wish I would have talked to my mom more; questions about my family and no one left alive with the answers. I wish I hadn't moved to where I did when I finally left my hometown. I'd have a lot more money toward retirement were it not for that HUGE mistake. In the end, its going to cause me to have to work a few more years than planned, but overall, I'm still in pretty good shape! All in all, I try to live with as few regrets as possible. I have a few lasting ones, but not many. Sometimes I might think something is a regret in the moment, but the advantage of hindsight usually lets me know that it was not a regret at all, but was instead exactly what was supposed to happen, and what needed to happen! Great Thread! Glynn |
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wishing I had not continued with this trucking on the road, last spring when i had the chance to get out of it..... *sigh*
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I have no regrets. Nothing you can say or do can change the past. I take each day as it comes, live it completely, and move on to the next. I can't dwell on my mistakes. I can't think too much about my future. I'd rather live it a day at a time.
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