Maybe The Third Time Will Be The Charm - Page 2

DapperButch · 01-24-2010, 01:46 PM

WELCOME! I bet you will end up loving this place as much as we all do!

Gemme · 01-24-2010, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Mrs. Strutt

Thank you, everyone, for the warm welcome...it is especially lovely to see some familiar faces

{{{Cath}}} - my baby turned five years old on December 9, if you can believe it. Mr. Strutt and I spend a lot of time wondering where the time has gone.

Hello, Mrs. S! Oh, I bet she's an angel!

It's been a while but I'm very glad you've found us here. I've always enjoyed your laid back energy.

buffdaddy · 05-14-2011, 01:16 PM

Hey all! Good to see so many familiar names.

I was worried mentioning the other sites was some kinda taboo. I for one loved, loved, loved the old Butch-femme site, even some of the arguments were fun as long as there were no threats of fallacious charges. Last time I logged in it felt like everyone had left the party, I'm guessing because people were using it to harm each other. Sad because I know it meant a lot for so many of us.

Then the dance?!?! Fun for a minute, then I think management must have thought "Not on MY site" and people started getting 'nasty' public admonishments from management for the slightest dissagreement, or perceived violation. I myself was kicked off when a femme who was staying with me created a profile for herself. Just a nasty gram and !Boing! I was kinda pissed cause I had bought about a half dozen anonymous subscriptions.

So I am hopefull that this place finds some middle ground. You know what they say about she who ignores history........
-Jordan

The_Lady_Snow · 05-14-2011, 01:22 PM

Um

WELCOME!

Gemme · 05-14-2011, 01:34 PM

Jordan!

Linus · 05-14-2011, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by buffdaddy

Hey all! Good to see so many familiar names.

I was worried mentioning the other sites was some kinda taboo. I for one loved, loved, loved the old Butch-femme site, even some of the arguments were fun as long as there were no threats of fallacious charges. Last time I logged in it felt like everyone had left the party, I'm guessing because people were using it to harm each other. Sad because I know it meant a lot for so many of us.

Then the dance?!?! Fun for a minute, then I think management must have thought "Not on MY site" and people started getting 'nasty' public admonishments from management for the slightest dissagreement, or perceived violation. I myself was kicked off when a femme who was staying with me created a profile for herself. Just a nasty gram and !Boing! I was kinda pissed cause I had bought about a half dozen anonymous subscriptions.

So I am hopefull that this place finds some middle ground. You know what they say about she who ignores history........
-Jordan

Welcome, Jordan! Hopefully we end up being the new home for you.

buffdaddy · 05-14-2011, 01:55 PM

Thanks for the welcomes all! Linus glad to know your on board

Wondering if anyone know what was the BFdances' undoing? As I said I have warm memories of the old site, but the dance is a really curiousity to me.

Corkey · 05-14-2011, 01:58 PM

Don't think anyone here cares.
Welcome to the Planet, which does things differently.

Linus · 05-14-2011, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by buffdaddy

Thanks for the welcomes all! Linus glad to know your on board

Wondering if anyone know what was the BFdances' undoing? As I said I have warm memories of the old site, but the dance is a really curiousity to me.

Nope. And to me, doesn't matter. The members here are what matter most and what I concern myself more with. All the rest is interesting but more of a technological curiosity (more of a what-not-to-do or what might be interesting to add here).

cara · 05-14-2011, 02:01 PM

Welcome to the site.

Gemme · 05-14-2011, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by buffdaddy

Thanks for the welcomes all! Linus glad to know your on board

Wondering if anyone know what was the BFdances' undoing? As I said I have warm memories of the old site, but the dance is a really curiousity to me.

You would have to ask the folks over there. The Planet was created for a fresh start and a new perspective and the site admin have been VERY successful doing that.

Take a look around and let the past go. The future's so bright!

buffdaddy · 05-14-2011, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Linus

technological curiosity (more of a what-not-to-do or what might be interesting to add here).

Yeah that's what I mean. Was anything learned?

I already bought a subscription because I will always give financial support to venture of this kind, but investing my heart in another doomed community just doesn't feel smart. Yanno?!?!

.........maybe this isn't a conversation people want to have?

buffdaddy · 05-14-2011, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

You would have to ask the folks over there. The Planet was created for a fresh start and a new perspective and the site admin have been VERY successful doing that.

Take a look around and let the past go. The future's so bright!

They are Gone! And like I said I got kicked off.

Corkey · 05-14-2011, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by buffdaddy

Yeah that's what I mean. Was anything learned?

I already bought a subscription because I will always give financial support to venture of this kind, but investing my heart in another doomed community just doesn't feel smart. Yanno?!?!

.........maybe this isn't a conversation people want to have?

Perhaps it's the wrong thread to have it in, this thread was started by Mrs. Strutt. Perhaps you could start your own thread on why another site went belly up.

The_Lady_Snow · 05-14-2011, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by buffdaddy

Yeah that's what I mean. Was anything learned?

I already bought a subscription because I will always give financial support to venture of this kind, but investing my heart in another doomed community just doesn't feel smart. Yanno?!?!

.........maybe this isn't a conversation people want to have?

Um this isn't the way to start off with a new place dooming it when you don't know what's up, unless....

Anyways just give it a whirl.

buffdaddy · 05-14-2011, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Corkey

Perhaps it's the wrong thread to have it in, this thread was started by Mrs. Strutt. Perhaps you could start your own thread on why another site went belly up.

I chose this thread ...'Third time will be a charm' because that's what the title suggested to me. An examination of the success of this third attempt in the light of the past two experiences. Corkey tell me what you think this thread is about.

The_Lady_Snow · 05-14-2011, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Mrs. Strutt

Hi, everyone...I'm Mrs. Strutt.

Some of you might remember me from butch-femme.com and butchfemmedance.com as Strutts Wife. I left both sites quite some time ago for personal reasons and have very much missed interacting with the bf community.

I am hoping the third time is the charm and butchfemmeplanet will prove to be a place of honor, respect, and, most of all, loving community. I look forward to renewing old acquaintances and making new friends!

Namaste

I'm gonna go with Strutts was looking for a new place to hang out, she did.. Now she's....well I'm gonna go with she's busy with her little girl and work etc.

So I'm gonna go she was looking for more friendships for....

$800.00

Gemme · 05-14-2011, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by buffdaddy

I chose this thread ...'Third time will be a charm' because that's what the title suggested to me. An examination of the success of this third attempt in the light of the past two experiences. Corkey tell me what you think this thread is about.

This is what the thread is about:

Hi, everyone...I'm Mrs. Strutt.

Some of you might remember me from butch-femme.com and butchfemmedance.com as Strutts Wife. I left both sites quite some time ago for personal reasons and have very much missed interacting with the bf community.

I am hoping the third time is the charm and butchfemmeplanet will prove to be a place of honor, respect, and, most of all, loving community. I look forward to renewing old acquaintances and making new friends!

Namaste

It's in the newbie introduction forum for a reason. Mrs. Strutt was introducing herself to the site. Feel free to begin your own introduction thread or a thread based on comparing sites but it's not fair to hijack someone else's thread.

buffdaddy · 05-14-2011, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Um this isn't the way to start off with a new place dooming it when you don't know what's up, unless....

Anyways just give it a whirl.

Gettin off to a bad start? Dooming the site? Sorry that's what your hearing form me. I am also sorry it seems I am making people feel they have to defend or protect the site. I haven't seen a flaw in it yet, really I have not a simgle critique.

I feel like I am looking for information and perhaps some thoughtful exploration from other invested witnesses.

Is this a fluff thread, because if it is (my bad) and I will digress.

The_Lady_Snow · 05-14-2011, 02:27 PM

thanks buff, look forward to getting to know about you

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buffdaddy Junior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch top Preferred Pronoun?: Call me Jordan Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2011 Location: Boston Posts: 15 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6 Thanked 55 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 183274	Crossing appendages Hey all! Good to see so many familiar names. I was worried mentioning the other sites was some kinda taboo. I for one loved, loved, loved the old Butch-femme site, even some of the arguments were fun as long as there were no threats of fallacious charges. Last time I logged in it felt like everyone had left the party, I'm guessing because people were using it to harm each other. Sad because I know it meant a lot for so many of us. Then the dance?!?! Fun for a minute, then I think management must have thought "Not on MY site" and people started getting 'nasty' public admonishments from management for the slightest dissagreement, or perceived violation. I myself was kicked off when a femme who was staying with me created a profile for herself. Just a nasty gram and !Boing! I was kinda pissed cause I had bought about a half dozen anonymous subscriptions. So I am hopefull that this place finds some middle ground. You know what they say about she who ignores history........ -Jordan

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buffdaddy Junior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch top Preferred Pronoun?: Call me Jordan Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2011 Location: Boston Posts: 15 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6 Thanked 55 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 183274	Anyone know? Thanks for the welcomes all! Linus glad to know your on board Wondering if anyone know what was the BFdances' undoing? As I said I have warm memories of the old site, but the dance is a really curiousity to me.

05-14-2011, 01:58 PM	#28
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The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,081 Times in 15,669 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	thanks buff, look forward to getting to know about you __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden