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			Ok .....  its voting time ......  yay .. I hate this part because i don't like begging for all this voting stuff.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			BUT ...... i worked my butt off to make this and try and win . heh .. PLEASE VOTE FOR MY DISH .. LETS KNOCK OUT THAT COMPETITION   IF THE LINK does not take you to mine....... type the name of the dish in the search window and it will take you there. thank you so so much   Aunt Theresa's Pollo Estofado http://www.foodnetwork.com/sponsored...e/gallery.html 
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			I have found that my priorities in life has changed since I turned 40, over two years ago. I don't take anyone's crap and I like living a quiet life. Looking forward to meeting other people who think like me. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Have a good night, Zimmeh 
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			ok .....  anyone ever watch Aunt Fee's cooking videos ??  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			OMG she is so hilarious .... i m not much on the F word ... BUT LOVE watching her ... lol 
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			Just wanted to say hi, and I'd love to chat with folks my age!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Happy Independence Day Lofter's, 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Hello Lofters. I Hope everyone is having a great day for the 4th of July.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I stayed home to just chill out. I will be watching fireworks from home on my tv. I hate crowds. Besides, its much quieter for someone that copes with ptsd. 
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			Well, it has been a very long time since I popped in here. Just thought I would say hi and see how everyone is doing.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Next week I will be on my trek to Texas. I'll wave as I drive by! 
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			It's good to see some activity in here. I thought the loft was a place to nap.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Lasts week I got my mobile scooter so I have been learning how to get around the house with it but there are a place or two I still bump walls and door frames I have problems with. My pups wanted a ride on it so we went for a ride around the house they enjoyed it. No trips out yet as James is still building the ramp. We got a carrier so I can go places but I am not to sure about the ramp yet to load the scooter on....one problem at the time grasshopper.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Ya, I'm here just sitting around and collecting dust!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Just  found a cozy spot out on porch... chillin.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I just did a group singalong to Bruce Springsteen at the tavern down the street. Am I old??
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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