The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 46

ruthie14 · 04-17-2010, 07:27 AM

Ahhhh Waffle house...sigh.. haven't been to one of those for years! Have a great breakfast morningstar!

Morning everyone... I'm back. I had no computer since last saturday.

It gat a nasty bug.

Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!
Ruthie

morningstar55 · 04-17-2010, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Ahhhh Waffle house...sigh.. haven't been to one of those for years! Have a great breakfast morningstar!

Morning everyone... I'm back. I had no computer since last saturday.

It gat a nasty bug.

Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!
Ruthie

them darn bugs.....
my brother had a attack on his computer a few yrs back...
he turned it on 1 morning.... and a few animated real looking cock roachs came on the screen and started eating it. then more came and more and more...the whole screen was covered with cock roachs.. until they ate his wholeeeeeeeeee screen up... serious....
had to buy a new computer and lost everything that was on it.

Rockinonahigh · 04-17-2010, 09:08 AM

Morning lofters,im still hear just recovering from haveing family hear for my bday...glad they came to visit ....glad to see them off to theire own diggs cause we have a 3 day rule on visiting.Today is cloudy,breezy and suposed to rain at some point.Yall have a good weekend.

Lady_Wu · 04-17-2010, 09:40 AM

Itty, thank you so much for the greeting! nice to know about another member.
no, i'm afraid i won't be able to attend this year's reunion, as much as i would like to do do so. finances and a lack of transportation prevent me from doing so.
i really like B-f Planet. small enough to get to know the people, big enough to have some variety. i like that i found the Loft. i'm definitely old enough to fit in here!
looking forward to meeting all of you,
gentle regards,
Lady_Wu

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Originally Posted by IttyBittyFem

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I'm returning the greetings to you Lady Wu and welcoming you.

Everyone calls me "Itty", reside in Northern New Jersey and like you, embrace the OFOS (Old Fashioned Old School), along with the Dynamics, lifestyle.

Do you have intentions of attending the Little Rock Reunion in August? It would be lovely to meet you in person!

Hope all of you enjoy your weekend.

miss entycing · 04-17-2010, 12:45 PM

hello lovely people

another sultry warm day here in the Carolina's... with an impending afternoon thunderstorm-
I'm sitting on the porch watching the dark clouds roll in as we speak, the sky is gorgeous right now!
So many hints of dark greys and blues swirling together and a bit of rumbling starting already- amazing, really.

anyways, I hope everyone is smilling, and blissfully contented today!

Jet · 04-17-2010, 01:04 PM

Hey from my blackberry, catching rays poolside. Its damn hot. Have a good one everyone

J

Sybelle · 04-17-2010, 02:45 PM

Just a quick hello. Getting ready for a night with the Symphony. I sing with the chorus.

43, mother of two. Well, three if you count my 12 year old hound. The kids are grown and gone. Just he and I at home now. Slowly learning my way around the boards.

MainelyButch · 04-17-2010, 03:15 PM

Hello all...just poking around the boards, feeling pretty bored lately! Haven't been doing much socializing, either in real life or here in cyberspace, and need to get back to connecting with people! It's hard to figure out where people are "hanging out" nowadays....what boards are hot, interesting and worth the time. any recommendations are surely welcome!

I live in southern Maine, not far really from Boston. Doing the single dance and feeling a bit clumsy about how to figure out exatly how to date or meet women right now, in today's world. Butch to the core, I love the outdoors, my dog and my motorcycle.

Just looking around for friends and people who share my love of the butch-femme dynamics and lifestyle. Love a good conversation, debate, and reading and writing.

Hope everyone is well and enjoying the beautiful early spring we seem to be having - I know I am!!! Peace!

Jet · 04-17-2010, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by MainelyButch

Doing the single dance and feeling a bit clumsy about how to figure out exatly how to date or meet women right now, in today's world.

I'm not sure, but i think you're suppose to say hello.

morningstar55 · 04-17-2010, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet

Hey from my blackberry, catching rays poolside. Its damn hot. Have a good one everyone

J

pool side?? ......... im jealous.... LOL

hey there ......mainly ..... ya know i think you have what I been having latley ..
slumpieeness .. or in a funk..... and i dont know how to shake it.
i have a lot of art work i need to be doing and that i can do from my truck.... but.......
slowly i think im coming around.... hope you do too.
hello to u too... sybelle

Wryly · 04-17-2010, 08:03 PM

Hey all!
Just got home - a visit with a friend went on a bit longer than originally planned. He was able to "delegate" work on Friday so I stayed another night. Lots of fun just hanging out with old friends.

Other than that - not a lot going on.

Hope everyone is having a good weekend!

raising2alone · 04-17-2010, 09:48 PM

Just wanted to say a BIG welcome to Lady Wu

. I am new here myself but everyone is really nice, just rather quiet it seems these days.

Morningstar be careful out there now

. Hello to everyone else peeking in and posting a bit.

Peace and blessings all!

IttyBittyFem · 04-18-2010, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by DELSDAUGHTER

hey Itty!!!! hows it shaking in the big NJ?

Lovely to see you DELSDAUGHTER.

We're currently going through the change of seasons and welcoming Spring has been just gorgeous!

Will I see you at the Reunion in August?

IttyBittyFem · 04-18-2010, 01:55 AM

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Originally Posted by raising2alone

Hello to everyone else peeking in and posting a bit.

Hello Raising! You're where I was 20 years ago I believe. I too have twins. They are identical boys, 23 years old now that I adopted at birth.

It certainly wasn't easy when they were very young however, now as adults, (they'll always be my babies, no matter how old they get) it's even more of a challenge.

I'm sending positve energy in your direction.

Sybelle · 04-18-2010, 05:42 AM

Thanks for the welcome.

More backstory, came out late - my children were in their teens.

Very recently split with my g/f of four years. Dating someone who wants to stay in the closet, per se, isn't something I'd suggest to anyone.

Never insisted that she march in the streets donned in nothing but rainbows. In fact, quite the opposite, just wanted her to be happy. Kept myself from the local LGBT community because she works with a good bit of the "L" portion and she was afraid of anyone finding out. Her Mom retired from the same place she works. Can't have Mom finding out.

That's from my perspective, based on my own personal experience.

So, working on sorting life in general and where I fit in. Moving on, making friends and trying to get out of this emotional quicksand. It's driving me nuts.

Generally stay busy a lot with community theater and chorus. It helps some.

Think I might go clean the spare bedroom and box up winter clothes. Can't sleep, might as well.

DELSDAUGHTER · 04-18-2010, 07:02 AM

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Originally Posted by IttyBittyFem

Lovely to see you DELSDAUGHTER.

We're currently going through the change of seasons and welcoming Spring has been just gorgeous!

Will I see you at the Reunion in August?

no the funds will not allow...i have to go to upstate ny...and then i am supposed to visit sc in sept and in between i am expecting company in agust...for a brief visit...so my year is pretty well planned...although i would love to go...

morningstar55 · 04-18-2010, 08:57 AM

morning everyone.........
wow .... its nice to see a lot of postings here this morning....
i been up for a while now... and well now i need to git...
have a 428 mile drive today.... will end up in ..well near Burmingham AL.
hope thats how you spell it . no time for spell check this morning. heh
have a great day eveyrone.

Rockinonahigh · 04-18-2010, 09:17 AM

MS..if u ever get over my way theire is a waffle house on the I20 and old Minden rd. exit in Bossier..give a holla and I will buy u breakfast or lunch,dinner of ur choice, unless u would rather go to Shoneys wich is only a block down the road and im still buying.
Today its a rainy cloudy day,the temp is in the 60's.Not shure what im going to do today but always come up with something.

morningstar55 · 04-18-2010, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

MS..if u ever get over my way theire is a waffle house on the I20 and old Minden rd. exit in Bossier..give a holla and I will buy u breakfast or lunch,dinner of ur choice, unless u would rather go to Shoneys wich is only a block down the road and im still buying.
Today its a rainy cloudy day,the temp is in the 60's.Not shure what im going to do today but always come up with something.

heyy that sounds cool........... there Rock.. are there any good places for cat fish /gumbo ???

Jet · 04-18-2010, 02:14 PM

Flyin' by like a Jet to say hey. Beautiful day today, all the windows and doors are open and I think i'll work out and take a walk.

have a good one, all.

04-17-2010, 12:45 PM	#905
miss entycing Senior Member How Do You Identify?: dangerous, but worth the risk. Preferred Pronoun?: just be nice.. it's that easy. Relationship Status: CapitalM's carved upon my skin. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: on the southern edge of sanity, under a carolina moon. Posts: 3,276 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,341 Thanked 8,262 Times in 2,254 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	hello lovely people another sultry warm day here in the Carolina's... with an impending afternoon thunderstorm- I'm sitting on the porch watching the dark clouds roll in as we speak, the sky is gorgeous right now! So many hints of dark greys and blues swirling together and a bit of rumbling starting already- amazing, really. anyways, I hope everyone is smilling, and blissfully contented today! __________________ True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate their life, through devotion, to something beyond themselves. Whenever someone awakens fully, it affects human consciousness at a collective level. It is like dropping a stone into a dark murky pond. Ripples of light... Not one word need be spoken.

04-17-2010, 01:04 PM	#906
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	hey from my blackberry poolside Hey from my blackberry, catching rays poolside. Its damn hot. Have a good one everyone J

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Sybelle Member How Do You Identify?: see Scota_Parisi Preferred Pronoun?: see Scota_Parisi Relationship Status: see Scota_Parisi Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: see Scota_Parisi Posts: 264 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 384 Thanked 290 Times in 140 Posts Rep Power: 56	Just a quick hello. Getting ready for a night with the Symphony. I sing with the chorus. 43, mother of two. Well, three if you count my 12 year old hound. The kids are grown and gone. Just he and I at home now. Slowly learning my way around the boards. __________________ "Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius -- and a lot of courage -- to move in the opposite direction." - Albert Einstein Last edited by Sybelle; 04-17-2010 at 02:46 PM. Reason: Didn't care all that much for the original font I chose.

04-17-2010, 03:15 PM	#908
MainelyButch Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Maine Posts: 22 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22 Thanked 32 Times in 11 Posts Rep Power: 22	Hello all...just poking around the boards, feeling pretty bored lately! Haven't been doing much socializing, either in real life or here in cyberspace, and need to get back to connecting with people! It's hard to figure out where people are "hanging out" nowadays....what boards are hot, interesting and worth the time. any recommendations are surely welcome! I live in southern Maine, not far really from Boston. Doing the single dance and feeling a bit clumsy about how to figure out exatly how to date or meet women right now, in today's world. Butch to the core, I love the outdoors, my dog and my motorcycle. Just looking around for friends and people who share my love of the butch-femme dynamics and lifestyle. Love a good conversation, debate, and reading and writing. Hope everyone is well and enjoying the beautiful early spring we seem to be having - I know I am!!! Peace! __________________ ...are we having fun yet?

04-17-2010, 09:48 PM	#912
raising2alone Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Trans Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Name says it all Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Kansas Posts: 28 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5 Thanked 43 Times in 20 Posts Rep Power: 15142	Welcome Lady Wu Just wanted to say a BIG welcome to Lady Wu . I am new here myself but everyone is really nice, just rather quiet it seems these days. Morningstar be careful out there now . Hello to everyone else peeking in and posting a bit. Peace and blessings all!

04-17-2010, 07:27 AM	#901
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Ahhhh Waffle house...sigh.. haven't been to one of those for years! Have a great breakfast morningstar! Morning everyone... I'm back. I had no computer since last saturday. It gat a nasty bug. Hope everyone is having a wonderful day! Ruthie

04-17-2010, 09:08 AM	#903
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Morning lofters,im still hear just recovering from haveing family hear for my bday...glad they came to visit ....glad to see them off to theire own diggs cause we have a 3 day rule on visiting.Today is cloudy,breezy and suposed to rain at some point.Yall have a good weekend.

04-17-2010, 08:03 PM	#911
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094254	Hey all! Just got home - a visit with a friend went on a bit longer than originally planned. He was able to "delegate" work on Friday so I stayed another night. Lots of fun just hanging out with old friends. Other than that - not a lot going on. Hope everyone is having a good weekend!

04-18-2010, 05:42 AM	#915
Sybelle Member How Do You Identify?: see Scota_Parisi Preferred Pronoun?: see Scota_Parisi Relationship Status: see Scota_Parisi Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: see Scota_Parisi Posts: 264 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 384 Thanked 290 Times in 140 Posts Rep Power: 56	Thanks for the welcome. More backstory, came out late - my children were in their teens. Very recently split with my g/f of four years. Dating someone who wants to stay in the closet, per se, isn't something I'd suggest to anyone. Never insisted that she march in the streets donned in nothing but rainbows. In fact, quite the opposite, just wanted her to be happy. Kept myself from the local LGBT community because she works with a good bit of the "L" portion and she was afraid of anyone finding out. Her Mom retired from the same place she works. Can't have Mom finding out. That's from my perspective, based on my own personal experience. So, working on sorting life in general and where I fit in. Moving on, making friends and trying to get out of this emotional quicksand. It's driving me nuts. Generally stay busy a lot with community theater and chorus. It helps some. Think I might go clean the spare bedroom and box up winter clothes. Can't sleep, might as well. __________________ "Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius -- and a lot of courage -- to move in the opposite direction." - Albert Einstein

04-18-2010, 08:57 AM	#917
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	morning everyone......... wow .... its nice to see a lot of postings here this morning.... i been up for a while now... and well now i need to git... have a 428 mile drive today.... will end up in ..well near Burmingham AL. hope thats how you spell it . no time for spell check this morning. heh have a great day eveyrone. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

04-18-2010, 09:17 AM	#918
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	MS..if u ever get over my way theire is a waffle house on the I20 and old Minden rd. exit in Bossier..give a holla and I will buy u breakfast or lunch,dinner of ur choice, unless u would rather go to Shoneys wich is only a block down the road and im still buying. Today its a rainy cloudy day,the temp is in the 60's.Not shure what im going to do today but always come up with something.

04-18-2010, 02:14 PM	#920
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	Flyin' by like a Jet to say hey. Beautiful day today, all the windows and doors are open and I think i'll work out and take a walk. have a good one, all.