Are butches really a dying breed? - Page 5

Mr Nice Guy · 04-21-2012, 03:26 PM

I've seen many Butches in NH. I'll tell you where to look if you want to move. I see them all the time. Of course I work outside everyday. So I see plenty of them.

~ocean · 04-21-2012, 04:11 PM

must be something in the air up there lol

Quintease · 04-21-2012, 06:37 PM

There was a bit group of them outside my flat tonight. Unfortunately they weren't mine so I couldn't share them out

morningstar55 · 04-21-2012, 07:27 PM

i would say no... butchs are not a dying breed.
BUT ........... the gentlemen old school honest types are.
i mean dont they know you can still be a stud/bad boi etc.. but yet still have this gentlemen old school about them that melts any girls heart.

tazz · 04-21-2012, 08:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy

I've seen many Butches in NH. I'll tell you where to look if you want to move. I see them all the time. Of course I work outside everyday. So I see plenty of them.

***looks in Mr. Nice Guy's direction...

Hack · 04-21-2012, 08:40 PM

Speaking for myself, I'm alive and well.

tara_kerrie · 04-21-2012, 08:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55

i would say no... butchs are not a dying breed.
BUT ........... the gentlemen old school honest types are.
i mean dont they know you can still be a stud/bad boi etc.. but yet still have this gentlemen old school about them that melts any girls heart.

I am one of the gentleman old school honest types...in a 28 year old's body.

tara_kerrie · 04-21-2012, 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55

i would say no... butchs are not a dying breed.
BUT ........... the gentlemen old school honest types are.
i mean dont they know you can still be a stud/bad boi etc.. but yet still have this gentlemen old school about them that melts any girls heart.

In my case, morning star being a gentleman old school honest type makes me un-datable for many femmes. I cannot count on all my fingers and toes how many times i've been told that i'm too sweet and innocent because of my ways.
It just happened last night.

tazz · 04-21-2012, 09:47 PM

i've seen plenty of butches in my area~bay area Cali~however, they are usually in a relationship, or, into the Leather life and i'm not in that lifestyle anymore...

morningstar55 · 04-22-2012, 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by KerrieH

In my case, morning star being a gentleman old school honest type makes me un-datable for many femmes. I cannot count on all my fingers and toes how many times i've been told that i'm too sweet and innocent because of my ways.
It just happened last night.

ahh im sorry to read this...... hope you find the right kinda girl

im 57 and well......... im kinda looking around and kinda not.
i adore a old fashion old school type.. BUT i also melt over one with some bad boi , kink ,packing kinda guy mixed in there.. yeha.. lol lol ..... sorry kinda got carried away there.
whewww i need some chocolate

OS Butch · 04-22-2012, 08:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55

ahh im sorry to read this...... hope you find the right kinda girl

im 57 and well......... im kinda looking around and kinda not.
i adore a old fashion old school type.. BUT i also melt over one with some bad boi , kink ,packing kinda guy mixed in there.. yeha.. lol lol ..... sorry kinda got carried away there.
whewww i need some chocolate

I knew there was a reason I wasn't your type

Hehehehe!

stonebutchinpa · 04-22-2012, 08:31 AM

This old fashioned old school butch is alive and well in PA. I think the femmes are a dying breed, atleast in this area.

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 04-22-2012, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by KerrieH

I am one of the gentleman old school honest types...in a 28 year old's body.

yes you are!

APG, glad she is able to call Kerrie her friend!

Greco · 04-22-2012, 08:46 AM

Nope! I'm quite alive and well and so are my OSOF Butch friends...Greco

Breezy · 04-22-2012, 09:10 AM

I met, dated and married my OFOS butch. There are plenty out there, trust me. I see them daily. Most of the butch women I know are not trans but go by she (female id'd). My gf & I hear them lament where are the femmes who are into female id'd butches? Where are the femmes who can accept us as we are and not insist we follow a particular "rule book" simply because we are butch.

My gf included here and other butches have been scarred because femmes said they could not cry, have feelings or act in the least bit what they termed "girly." My gf was shocked when she was allowed to be herself completely and not ridiculed or stereotyped simply because she is butch and did or said something ex gfs had said was not butch enough or was girly. For pity's sake, we are all human but to hold such rigid ideas about what is acceptable is just too much. Who are the butch police and can we get them fired?

tara_kerrie · 04-22-2012, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

yes you are!

APG, glad she is able to call Kerrie her friend!

Thanks APG! I am glad to call you my friend also.

tara_kerrie · 04-22-2012, 09:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55

ahh im sorry to read this...... hope you find the right kinda girl

im 57 and well......... im kinda looking around and kinda not.
i adore a old fashion old school type.. BUT i also melt over one with some bad boi , kink ,packing kinda guy mixed in there.. yeha.. lol lol ..... sorry kinda got carried away there.
whewww i need some chocolate

I have to learn what everyone is referring to as bad boi. Im not very kinky at all (probaly due to lack of experience being kinky), and I just started packing.

Glenn · 04-22-2012, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Breezy

For pity's sake, we are all human but to hold such rigid ideas about what is acceptable is just too much. Who are the butch police and can we get them fired?

^^^^^^^^
I'll co-sign this.

Beloved · 04-22-2012, 09:35 AM

OFOS butch? Is that Old fashioned old school or???

Breezy · 04-22-2012, 09:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Beloved

OFOS butch? Is that Old fashioned old school or???

Old Fashion Old School is correct.

04-21-2012, 06:37 PM	#83
Quintease Member How Do You Identify?: Rainbow femme Preferred Pronoun?: princess Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 508 Thanked 1,816 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 10345577	There was a bit group of them outside my flat tonight. Unfortunately they weren't mine so I couldn't share them out __________________ It is not worth an intelligent person's time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

04-21-2012, 07:27 PM	#84
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	i would say no... butchs are not a dying breed. BUT ........... the gentlemen old school honest types are. i mean dont they know you can still be a stud/bad boi etc.. but yet still have this gentlemen old school about them that melts any girls heart. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

04-21-2012, 09:47 PM	#89
tazz Member How Do You Identify?: Athlete/tomboi Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, cutie Relationship Status: Estoy recibiendo cómodo con él Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: you never know where i might end up ;) Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,807 Thanked 1,759 Times in 642 Posts Rep Power: 20456638	i've seen plenty of butches in my area~bay area Cali~however, they are usually in a relationship, or, into the Leather life and i'm not in that lifestyle anymore... __________________ "She walks a different path than some of us, but those on her wavelength enjoy the journey with her." --DLOS

04-22-2012, 08:46 AM	#94
Greco Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Relationship Status: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In a good life. Posts: 3,200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,160 Thanked 6,649 Times in 2,287 Posts Rep Power: 0	OSOF Butch Nope! I'm quite alive and well and so are my OSOF Butch friends...Greco

04-21-2012, 03:26 PM	#81
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	I've seen many Butches in NH. I'll tell you where to look if you want to move. I see them all the time. Of course I work outside everyday. So I see plenty of them.

04-21-2012, 04:11 PM	#82
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,109 Times in 4,734 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	must be something in the air up there lol

04-21-2012, 08:40 PM	#86
Hack Just a guy. How Do You Identify?: Just a guy Preferred Pronoun?: male Relationship Status: Sparkle's consort Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: MA Posts: 1,458 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 807 Thanked 3,778 Times in 958 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Speaking for myself, I'm alive and well.

04-22-2012, 08:31 AM	#92
stonebutchinpa Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Whatever Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: PA Posts: 125 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 223 Thanked 168 Times in 52 Posts Rep Power: 1282518	This old fashioned old school butch is alive and well in PA. I think the femmes are a dying breed, atleast in this area.

04-22-2012, 09:10 AM	#95
Breezy Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: . Posts: 1,372 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,337 Thanked 4,555 Times in 1,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I met, dated and married my OFOS butch. There are plenty out there, trust me. I see them daily. Most of the butch women I know are not trans but go by she (female id'd). My gf & I hear them lament where are the femmes who are into female id'd butches? Where are the femmes who can accept us as we are and not insist we follow a particular "rule book" simply because we are butch. My gf included here and other butches have been scarred because femmes said they could not cry, have feelings or act in the least bit what they termed "girly." My gf was shocked when she was allowed to be herself completely and not ridiculed or stereotyped simply because she is butch and did or said something ex gfs had said was not butch enough or was girly. For pity's sake, we are all human but to hold such rigid ideas about what is acceptable is just too much. Who are the butch police and can we get them fired?

04-22-2012, 09:35 AM	#99
Beloved Member How Do You Identify?: alive Preferred Pronoun?: um Relationship Status: married Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: on the stars Posts: 460 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,415 Thanked 1,653 Times in 298 Posts Rep Power: 19348703	OFOS butch? Is that Old fashioned old school or???