The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 65

07-01-2010, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Hi Incubus, how is your day going?? Is it evening there yet across the pond?? I have been going for the younger women at least that is what has been coming my way in the last couple of months. Its nice to know that even if you are in your 50's you can still get women younger then yourself. I, Myself am in my 50's but look about 35 so maybe that is why!! Anyway, going to get a tad of coffee for the afternoon and a bite to eat too. tummy rumble.[/I]

It is indeed evening here, just after 7pm to be exact lipstixgal and it's been a grand day doing 'stuff', nothing specific, just stuff.

Mrs.Incubus has left me all alone again to fend for myself

whilst she trips off to the F.E Awards at the college she teaches at tonight to see her students get rewarded for all their hard work this year. (teachers partners stay away from such events). So, tonight its a bit of

, a bit of

a bit of

and all is well in Incubus-World.

I get ya! I am always flattered when young girls show their interest - I'm 46 and definitely don't look 35 but my innate charm seems to get me by

Enjoy your coffee and sustenance!

Jet · 07-01-2010, 02:17 PM

have a good one all

j

WickedFemme · 07-01-2010, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

Boy have I ever been there,the last time I was at the gbar(the only place hear to meet anyone) I could have been the mom or grandma of nearly everyone in the building..talk about feeling out of place. One of them even had the stupidy to ask if I was in the wrong gbar..nasty little wench.I have dated younger but it never worked,if anyone my age wants to date younger is all there is hear to go out with.U bet im not a stand in till something better comes around.

yikes! I don't even bother with those places anymore... however, If I were single - I am in a better place geographically. I don't much care nor am I even attracted to anyone under the age of 45, I don't care how 'hawt' they think they are - I just can't relate at all nor do I find them physically appealing. I love my butch who is two years older than I - totally hot, mature and always has something to contribute to a conversation.
I hope you find someone

I wish everyone a happy and safe Holiday weekend

Rockinonahigh · 07-01-2010, 03:46 PM

W.F.
Once and a while I get together with friends who still like to go to the gbars when the drag queens are puting on a good show,other than that I stay out of them...to much drama.The way I look at it is if Mrs.Right dose come along she will have to swat me hard to get my attention cause after all ive delt with in dateing im not to shure I would know an honest possablity.

lipstixgal · 07-01-2010, 05:02 PM

Well I did some cleaning today, the guy came around to see the god damn tags for the town. I hate this town Hasbrouck Hts, NJ it is so conservative!! Anyway, I found them and put them on the damn dogs collars so now if they get lost the town can find them and return them to me!! yeah!!

07-02-2010, 04:09 AM

Good morning lovely loft folks.

It's a big day today. Mrs.Incubus is having her long curls chopped off. I'm in mourning already. I know why she needs to do it and understand entirely - a combination of stresses and strains over the last couple of years have left her with thin patches at the back because she's losing too much hair.

When we first met she had started growing her hair out and she had 'pom pom' hair (anyone with naturally curly hair will get that one) but over the last nigh on 4yrs it's grown to be down to her waist. I've always loved her long curls and am rather nervous of her coming home later looking like someone different.

I hope all you sleep heads have a wonderful day once you're up and around!

ruthie14 · 07-02-2010, 04:17 AM

When we first met she had started growing her hair out and she had 'pom pom' hair (anyone with naturally curly hair will get that one) but over the last nigh on 4yrs it's grown to be down to her waist. I've always loved her long curls and am rather nervous of her coming home later looking like someone different.

Hey Incubus.. I went to get a trim and ended of with short hair (not what I asked for) about 5 weeks ago. I hated it at first, but I love it so much now that I went back last night to the same guy and got a trim. Short hair can be cute on a femme.. I know what you mean though. Just look in her eyes, and you will see her as she has always been. She is being very brave. I hope she is ok.

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Ruthie

07-02-2010, 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

When we first met she had started growing her hair out and she had 'pom pom' hair (anyone with naturally curly hair will get that one) but over the last nigh on 4yrs it's grown to be down to her waist. I've always loved her long curls and am rather nervous of her coming home later looking like someone different.

Hey Incubus.. I went to get a trim and ended of with short hair (not what I asked for) about 5 weeks ago. I hated it at first, but I love it so much now that I went back last night to the same guy and got a trim. Short hair can be cute on a femme.. I know what you mean though. Just look in her eyes, and you will see her as she has always been. She is being very brave. I hope she is ok.

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Ruthie

Thank you for that Ruthie.

I think she's ok, she was being very brave when she left this morning.

I know femmes do indeed look gorgeous with short hair; length of hair does not a femme make. Before we met she'd had short 'elfin' type hair and in the pictures from that time she does look fabulous. She will still be my beautiful baby girl and as long as there's just a little something to grab hold of when she's being a naughty girl I'll be a happy bunny

I hope you have a lovely day Ruthie.

morningstar55 · 07-02-2010, 05:08 AM

Good Morning Loft dwellers

im sorry i been kinda neglectful , been taking a bit of a break from the internet well a lil bit.. lol ..... peeking in on my emails and such........
im not playing farmville or farmtown ...... havnt for months now.. just got burnt out on it...
although i still do love playing the scrabble games...... love the word games..

hair..... well mine is short use to be long... miss my long hair.. i dont mind it short these days..... but like it long enough for a lil grabbin meself.. * eg* lol

anyways. im spending another weekend at home.... wooHOOo..... lol
and face painting again this weekend....... omg.. the extra bucks have been a huge blessing.. monday i'll be bk on the road again..
have a great weekend eveyone.. in case i dont get bk here..... LOL
i have been checkin in on FB ...... lol ......... ttfn

Legendryder · 07-03-2010, 05:40 AM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Who's Bob is that your dog? Aren't you lonely? being single for almost 8 years. I wish someone would come into my life and fulfill it. I need that, yeah I have dogs but its not enough for me. I'm ready to take the plunge!!

Yes, Bob is my dog and no I am not lonely. I am too darn busy to be lonely. I am in school full time, work part time and have my business which takes all my time. So I have no time to be lonely. And I just do not think another person in my life is really all that important. I am happy that you are ready to find that one person and I wish you all the luck.

miss entycing · 07-03-2010, 05:50 AM

morning Lofter's

looks to be another beautiful but hot day here in the Carolina's... good day to spend by the water or maybe camping.....
wishful thinking here, lol..

hope everyone is having the beginnings of a lovely holiday weekend so far!

cuddlyfemme · 07-03-2010, 09:52 AM

Happy 4th of July weekend Lofters! Have fun and be safe

Cowboi · 07-03-2010, 09:54 AM

Good Morning!!! Happy 4th to all. Have a fun, safe weekend!!

lipstixgal · 07-03-2010, 10:50 AM

Good Afternoon lofters!! hope everyone is having a great weekend. Just doing some laundry and relaxing with the dogs again!! Anyway, fireworks by Macy's tomorrow night on TV that's the highlight of my weekend!!

Jet · 07-03-2010, 10:51 AM

hey all. just stopping by
have a good one

Rockinonahigh · 07-03-2010, 11:03 AM

Morning lofters,happy 4th to u all.Not doing much at the momnet but laundry and watching syfy.Im feeling sort of poorly with a case of bactreial infartion in my guts and antibiotice bout to do me in...how I got this I will never know..no fun .

naturlover_52 · 07-03-2010, 04:00 PM

Sorry that you aren't feeling well Rock...Yes stomach stuff can be the worst. What a way to spend the holiday.
I am just here at home Just woke up from a nap a bit ago...was doing some cleaning in the yard and my back started bothering me. I have a disk in my low back that is degenerating...which causes pain.
Take care all and have a great week end.

lipstixgal · 07-03-2010, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by naturlover_52

Sorry that you aren't feeling well Rock...Yes stomach stuff can be the worst. What a way to spend the holiday.
I am just here at home Just woke up from a nap a bit ago...was doing some cleaning in the yard and my back started bothering me. I have a disk in my low back that is degenerating...which causes pain.
Take care all and have a great week end.

Sorry you are having back pain any kind of pain can be an annoyance for sure, feel better soon.

dark_crystal · 07-03-2010, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Morning everyone..
Doing something nice for myself everyday to boost my spirits. Dyed my hair last night.. Get a hair cut tonight... etc etc. Little things.. but they help. Planning a party for this weekend... Will be fun.

that is a wonderful idea Ruthie...i should try it

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Originally Posted by Legendryder

Well, I am a 46 yo single Butch. And I plan on staying single. I do not have time to put into what is required to have a good and stable relationship. Trying to have one would not be fair to either party. So, I just do not date, and have not for almost 8 years. Until I am finished with my schooling, however long that takes, and am into a solid working enviornment, it is not going to happen. I am happy with what I am doing, and it have given me an opportunity to really learn myself, and there is just nothing wrong with that. Besides, I have Bob. He is more than a handful anyhow.

i know how you feel...i am taking some time off too and working with a counselor to try and leave behind some of the baggage i have been carrying...maybe in a year or so i will be fit for human consumption lol

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Originally Posted by Wryly

Looks like I'm going to be on the road again this weekend - going to pick my sister up from her visit and then I'm taking a nephew to one of Toronto's northern suburbs.

you are always runnin around all over the place!!!!

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Hi Incubus, how is your day going?? Is it evening there yet across the pond?? I have been going for the younger women at least that is what has been coming my way in the last couple of months. Its nice to know that even if you are in your 50's you can still get women younger then yourself. I, Myself am in my 50's but look about 35 so maybe that is why!! Anyway, going to get a tad of coffee for the afternoon and a bite to eat too. tummy rumble.[/I]

i just turned 40 in May but i am soooooo not interested in anyone younger than me and prefer at least ten years older...however ppl say i look about 25 and if i date a 50y/o butch ppl usually think i'm the daughter lol...but i think that is kinda good b/c you can get away with a lot more pda that way lol

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Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

W.F.
Once and a while I get together with friends who still like to go to the gbars when the drag queens are puting on a good show,other than that I stay out of them...to much drama.The way I look at it is if Mrs.Right dose come along she will have to swat me hard to get my attention cause after all ive delt with in dateing im not to shure I would know an honest possablity.

i like to DANCE so i would still go to bars if anyone would take me

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Well I did some cleaning today, the guy came around to see the god damn tags for the town. I hate this town Hasbrouck Hts, NJ it is so conservative!! Anyway, I found them and put them on the damn dogs collars so now if they get lost the town can find them and return them to me!! yeah!!

my poor 16 y/o doggie had to get a baf and mani/pedi today...him going to spend the night wif his grandparents tomorrow so him need to be at his best!

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Originally Posted by Incubus

It's a big day today. Mrs.Incubus is having her long curls chopped off. I'm in mourning already.

i am contemplating a radical chop job...my hair is thick and wavy and to my waist...i am considering something along the lines of the flapper bob? you know what i mean? look at my photos and tell me what ya'll think, ebberyone...

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Originally Posted by Cowboi

Good Morning!!! Happy 4th to all. Have a fun, safe weekend!!

Happy 4th Cowboi!!!! Same to you!

Rockinonahigh · 07-03-2010, 07:36 PM

I still injoy a night out at the gbar,just not fond of not haveing as much fun as I once did.The place had some of the best queens around for a show twice a week..now not so much,either they got tired of it,got run off for not meeting the standard of the head queen or found a better place to be.If I had someone to go out with I to, would go out more than I do...ever come to Shereveport?? Or I could add wherever u r inTexas to my travel plands after im done with the back surgery or what ever they do with it.
This intestinal thing I have is better but now the doc has taken me off all the meds till I see him monday morning..the antibiotics were giveing me a prob I dont need.

07-02-2010, 05:08 AM	#1289
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Good Morning Loft dwellers im sorry i been kinda neglectful , been taking a bit of a break from the internet well a lil bit.. lol ..... peeking in on my emails and such........ im not playing farmville or farmtown ...... havnt for months now.. just got burnt out on it... although i still do love playing the scrabble games...... love the word games.. hair..... well mine is short use to be long... miss my long hair.. i dont mind it short these days..... but like it long enough for a lil grabbin meself.. * eg* lol anyways. im spending another weekend at home.... wooHOOo..... lol and face painting again this weekend....... omg.. the extra bucks have been a huge blessing.. monday i'll be bk on the road again.. have a great weekend eveyone.. in case i dont get bk here..... LOL i have been checkin in on FB ...... lol ......... ttfn __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

07-03-2010, 05:50 AM	#1291
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07-03-2010, 09:54 AM	#1293
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07-03-2010, 04:00 PM	#1297
naturlover_52 Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch/bi Preferred Pronoun?: she and her are just fine....Sweetcheeks hey you Relationship Status: seeing someone long distance but soon will be both in Ca love her very much Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: So Calif East San Gabrielle Valley aka the land of shake and bake Posts: 108 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 85 Thanked 89 Times in 44 Posts Rep Power: 3426	loft Sorry that you aren't feeling well Rock...Yes stomach stuff can be the worst. What a way to spend the holiday. I am just here at home Just woke up from a nap a bit ago...was doing some cleaning in the yard and my back started bothering me. I have a disk in my low back that is degenerating...which causes pain. Take care all and have a great week end.

07-03-2010, 07:36 PM	#1300
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	D.C. I still injoy a night out at the gbar,just not fond of not haveing as much fun as I once did.The place had some of the best queens around for a show twice a week..now not so much,either they got tired of it,got run off for not meeting the standard of the head queen or found a better place to be.If I had someone to go out with I to, would go out more than I do...ever come to Shereveport?? Or I could add wherever u r inTexas to my travel plands after im done with the back surgery or what ever they do with it. This intestinal thing I have is better but now the doc has taken me off all the meds till I see him monday morning..the antibiotics were giveing me a prob I dont need.

07-01-2010, 02:17 PM	#1282
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	have a good one all j

07-01-2010, 03:46 PM	#1284
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	W.F. Once and a while I get together with friends who still like to go to the gbars when the drag queens are puting on a good show,other than that I stay out of them...to much drama.The way I look at it is if Mrs.Right dose come along she will have to swat me hard to get my attention cause after all ive delt with in dateing im not to shure I would know an honest possablity.

07-01-2010, 05:02 PM	#1285
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	Well I did some cleaning today, the guy came around to see the god damn tags for the town. I hate this town Hasbrouck Hts, NJ it is so conservative!! Anyway, I found them and put them on the damn dogs collars so now if they get lost the town can find them and return them to me!! yeah!!

07-02-2010, 04:09 AM	#1286
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	Good morning lovely loft folks. It's a big day today. Mrs.Incubus is having her long curls chopped off. I'm in mourning already. I know why she needs to do it and understand entirely - a combination of stresses and strains over the last couple of years have left her with thin patches at the back because she's losing too much hair. When we first met she had started growing her hair out and she had 'pom pom' hair (anyone with naturally curly hair will get that one) but over the last nigh on 4yrs it's grown to be down to her waist. I've always loved her long curls and am rather nervous of her coming home later looking like someone different. I hope all you sleep heads have a wonderful day once you're up and around!

07-02-2010, 04:17 AM	#1287
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	When we first met she had started growing her hair out and she had 'pom pom' hair (anyone with naturally curly hair will get that one) but over the last nigh on 4yrs it's grown to be down to her waist. I've always loved her long curls and am rather nervous of her coming home later looking like someone different. Hey Incubus.. I went to get a trim and ended of with short hair (not what I asked for) about 5 weeks ago. I hated it at first, but I love it so much now that I went back last night to the same guy and got a trim. Short hair can be cute on a femme.. I know what you mean though. Just look in her eyes, and you will see her as she has always been. She is being very brave. I hope she is ok. Hope everyone has a great weekend! Ruthie

07-03-2010, 09:52 AM	#1292
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Happy 4th of July weekend Lofters! Have fun and be safe

07-03-2010, 10:50 AM	#1294
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	Good Afternoon lofters!! hope everyone is having a great weekend. Just doing some laundry and relaxing with the dogs again!! Anyway, fireworks by Macy's tomorrow night on TV that's the highlight of my weekend!!

07-03-2010, 10:51 AM	#1295
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	hey all. just stopping by have a good one

07-03-2010, 11:03 AM	#1296
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Morning lofters,happy 4th to u all.Not doing much at the momnet but laundry and watching syfy.Im feeling sort of poorly with a case of bactreial infartion in my guts and antibiotice bout to do me in...how I got this I will never know..no fun .