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WolfyOne · 07-17-2011, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

more from me... lol

ok here is a novel idea- BAM upside your head- pay attention!!!! lol

I love starting as friends. In fact I can easily have a butch as a buddy, go fishing, hang out and not have the pressure of dating. Let's face it, I'm pretty damn cool. lol (I'm in that kind of mood today) I always say "friends first". If something happens, great! if not, thats ok too. I enjoy butch company. I don't have to do the "jump your bones then call uhaul". In fact I might be slow to commit for some.

lez be friends, shall we?

Ummmmm, now paying attention, lol

I'd go fishing with you, if I was in the neighborhood...heck, I'm even good for hanging out

I'd be more of a lets have a non date and just talk kind of person

Being pretty and damn cool works

Sachita · 07-17-2011, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

Ummmmm, now paying attention, lol

I'd go fishing with you, if I was in the neighborhood...heck, I'm even good for hanging out

I'd be more of a lets have a non date and just talk kind of person

Being pretty and damn cool works

awwww now you're talking! Polite, a little flirty but genuine. It keeps the doors of friendship open. You can flirt with me anytime love muffins and should you find yourself in my neck of the woods I'll even take you fishing. Don't count on my going to OK- never was on my list.

WolfyOne · 07-17-2011, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

awwww now you're talking! Polite, a little flirty but genuine. It keeps the doors of friendship open. You can flirt with me anytime love muffins and should you find yourself in my neck of the woods I'll even take you fishing. Don't count on my going to OK- never was on my list.

I'm still remembering, way back, you said you'd make a home cooked meal if I ever got your way
I like to flirt and have been told I can be charming
I enjoy mental stimulation with a like minded person
Learning something new every day is exciting, no matter how small
OK swept me up due to 2 women I was with in IL and both from OK
I moved here with the second one and stayed after the break up

Fishing, good eats and conversation...couldn't think of a better way to start a friendship in person

Invictus · 07-17-2011, 04:53 PM

Self admitted 2x4 Butch

Maybe its just the Old Fashioned/Old School in me

MysticOceansFL · 07-17-2011, 05:52 PM

Hello , singles hope everyone had a great week end!!

WolfyOne · 07-17-2011, 05:53 PM

A friend shared this with me today
Thought this would be a good place to share with others

http://positive-thoughts.typepad.com...r-purpose.html

bigbutchmistie · 07-17-2011, 07:04 PM

So who wants coffee and who wants frappuccino's? Let me know. Im here to serve coffee...

How is everyone's Sunday going?

Delish · 07-18-2011, 05:39 AM

Good morning everyone! I hope y'all had a fabulous weekend. It's beautiful here. Think I'm going to take my babies for a long walk Have a great day!!!

Sachita · 07-18-2011, 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

So who wants coffee and who wants frappuccino's? Let me know. Im here to serve coffee...

How is everyone's Sunday going?

awwww you're such a sweet boi. Java made in the press pot

Sachita · 07-18-2011, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Invictus

Self admitted 2x4 Butch

Maybe its just the Old Fashioned/Old School in me

How's that working for you? I'm serious. Is there a reason why? are you shy? Tell us how it works. I really want to know as I am sure many femmes here wanna know.

You can't blame it on old school because it has nothing to do with old school. I've been queer a long long time, at least 25 years and in the past old school dykes did approach femmes and make a plan to woooo them.

Invictus · 07-18-2011, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

How's that working for you? I'm serious. Is there a reason why? are you shy? Tell us how it works. I really want to know as I am sure many femmes here wanna know.

You can't blame it on old school because it has nothing to do with old school. I've been queer a long long time, at least 25 years and in the past old school dykes did approach femmes and make a plan to woooo them.

Perhaps I should have been more specific, 2x4 when it comes to online chat. It is very difficult for someone to catch tone and the subtleties of speech, while reading someones post. When we read, we tend to hear our own voice in our head, and therefore emphasis where it be misinterpreted, or missed completely, until the receiver has a clearer understanding of the sender. For example... in the following phrase, how much money do have?

twenty two dollar bills

Communication, where the sender and receiver are speaking, is much easier to understand.

Invictus · 07-19-2011, 06:56 AM

Good morning everyone

Sweet_Amor_Taino · 07-19-2011, 07:11 AM

The top of the morning to everyone

07-17-2011, 05:52 PM	#5
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,035 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Hello , singles hope everyone had a great week end!! __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

07-17-2011, 05:53 PM	#6
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,407 Times in 4,138 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	A friend shared this with me today Thought this would be a good place to share with others http://positive-thoughts.typepad.com...r-purpose.html __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

07-18-2011, 05:39 AM	#8
Delish Member How Do You Identify?: Queen of our castle Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: She put a ring on it and the date is set :) Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Missouri...in her arms :) Posts: 1,089 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,279 Thanked 835 Times in 428 Posts Rep Power: 3888560	Good morning everyone! I hope y'all had a fabulous weekend. It's beautiful here. Think I'm going to take my babies for a long walk Have a great day!!! __________________

07-19-2011, 07:11 AM	#13
Sweet_Amor_Taino Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Gentleman Preferred Pronoun?: he/him Relationship Status: Exclusively dating, Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Austin Tx Posts: 538 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 388 Thanked 852 Times in 297 Posts Rep Power: 4397589	The top of the morning to everyone __________________ When we are aware that each moment of each day and each step we take,is truly mystical and full of wonder,we will live our lives with greater thought and care, we will also respect and appreciate This moment.

07-17-2011, 04:53 PM	#4
Invictus Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 298 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 140 Thanked 344 Times in 165 Posts Rep Power: 1681234	Self admitted 2x4 Butch Maybe its just the Old Fashioned/Old School in me

07-17-2011, 07:04 PM	#7
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	So who wants coffee and who wants frappuccino's? Let me know. Im here to serve coffee... How is everyone's Sunday going?

07-19-2011, 06:56 AM	#12
Invictus Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 298 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 140 Thanked 344 Times in 165 Posts Rep Power: 1681234	Good morning everyone