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Sachita · 07-18-2011, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Invictus

Self admitted 2x4 Butch

Maybe its just the Old Fashioned/Old School in me

How's that working for you? I'm serious. Is there a reason why? are you shy? Tell us how it works. I really want to know as I am sure many femmes here wanna know.

You can't blame it on old school because it has nothing to do with old school. I've been queer a long long time, at least 25 years and in the past old school dykes did approach femmes and make a plan to woooo them.

Invictus · 07-18-2011, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

How's that working for you? I'm serious. Is there a reason why? are you shy? Tell us how it works. I really want to know as I am sure many femmes here wanna know.

You can't blame it on old school because it has nothing to do with old school. I've been queer a long long time, at least 25 years and in the past old school dykes did approach femmes and make a plan to woooo them.

Perhaps I should have been more specific, 2x4 when it comes to online chat. It is very difficult for someone to catch tone and the subtleties of speech, while reading someones post. When we read, we tend to hear our own voice in our head, and therefore emphasis where it be misinterpreted, or missed completely, until the receiver has a clearer understanding of the sender. For example... in the following phrase, how much money do have?

twenty two dollar bills

Communication, where the sender and receiver are speaking, is much easier to understand.

Invictus · 07-19-2011, 06:56 AM

Good morning everyone

Sweet_Amor_Taino · 07-19-2011, 07:11 AM

The top of the morning to everyone

Sachita · 07-19-2011, 07:14 AM

I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B.

Good morning

*Anya* · 07-19-2011, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B.

Good morning

Slow dancing can be the sexiest, hottest, ever! Totally agree

Invictus · 07-19-2011, 08:19 AM

Well ladies, if you should ever be in town, I shall be sure to include dancing on the "things to do" list.

WolfyOne · 07-20-2011, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B.

Good morning

Come to the Reunion in Oct and I'll slow dance with you
Heck, I'll dance to almost any kind of music
Music moves my soul and gets my toes tapping

Sachita · 07-20-2011, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

Come to the Reunion in Oct and I'll slow dance with you
Heck, I'll dance to almost any kind of music
Music moves my soul and gets my toes tapping

I never say never but it's unlikely. I do occasionally get away but its hard. When i do get away I'm afraid I look for ultra quiet space. But you never know.

Inked_Trinity · 07-19-2011, 07:17 AM

Morning everyone! Feeling a bit more myself today after getting knocked out in the ring this weekend. Vision is pretty much back to normal. Ready to take the world on again!

07-19-2011, 07:11 AM	#4
Sweet_Amor_Taino Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Gentleman Preferred Pronoun?: he/him Relationship Status: Exclusively dating, Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Austin Tx Posts: 538 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 388 Thanked 853 Times in 298 Posts Rep Power: 4397590	The top of the morning to everyone __________________ When we are aware that each moment of each day and each step we take,is truly mystical and full of wonder,we will live our lives with greater thought and care, we will also respect and appreciate This moment.

07-19-2011, 07:14 AM	#5
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,992 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B. Good morning __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

07-19-2011, 07:17 AM	#10
Inked_Trinity Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: BadAss! / Sarcastic Bastard! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Earth Posts: 2,352 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,507 Thanked 6,927 Times in 1,819 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Morning everyone! Feeling a bit more myself today after getting knocked out in the ring this weekend. Vision is pretty much back to normal. Ready to take the world on again! __________________ Tell me I can't do it.. then stand back and watch me amaze you.

07-19-2011, 06:56 AM	#3
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07-19-2011, 08:19 AM	#7
Invictus Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 298 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 140 Thanked 344 Times in 165 Posts Rep Power: 1681235	Well ladies, if you should ever be in town, I shall be sure to include dancing on the "things to do" list.