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12-08-2013, 06:53 AM | #12 | |
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I agree with a lot of what's been said ..... * Isolation from friends and family * angry outbursts out of the blue * the silent treatment for no reason * putting their behavior on you such as accusing you of lying when there's no grounds for it * not communicating which is vital for any healthy relationship I've learned to listen to that little gut instinct because it's always right. I also agree that it's a valid thread especially this time of year. Lots of people are stressed and/or depressed this time of year and take it out on the ones closest to them. Another one, which could be added to this for clarity, is the rules always change. What was okay one day is not okay the next and it happens often. This is another way an abuser can confuse their target and make them turn it around on themselves. This is verbal/emotional abuse at its finest. A good point. An emotional abuser can turn things around and make you believe it's YOU that's the problem. Some are very good at it
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