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Old 01-09-2014, 05:26 AM   #1
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I've learned, I'm not perfect and it's ok



I've learned many things through the years, No one is perfect and that's ok, and that you have to look with both eyes opened and not with your eyes covered while peeking through the cracks of your fingers.
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I've learned, or admitted recently, that I'm a terrible judge of character.
Sometimes its not you who is a bad judge of character, more that it is those who hide in sheeps clothing ...
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This can be anything...that's changed your mind, your routine, your ethics,..everything here is worthy of listening to, so don't be shy Thanks
Thank you kittygrrl.
Under "Life, Thinking Harder, What have I learned"....

After reading a really good book to help me with my Advocacy work ...Learning, understanding and becoming aware of the following information has helped me change my routine, empowered me in several ways and enhanced my "red flag radar" ....
(I'm sorry for the photo of the guy, I couldn't find another image that worked)
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I've learned that things (and people) aren't always what they seem...

Words are just words until they're backed up with action

Your time is often the greatest gift you can ever give
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i have learned that blood doesn't always make people family surprise!
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Cool i've learned-

same sh*t, different day-always applies. Period
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I have learned that at this point in my life I really, really need to simplify things. I'm gonna be 48 in a few weeks and I have to do what is best for me and my butch. We are not getting any younger, and her health is declining, and it's up to me to take care of things. Well meaning family/friends can voice their opinions all they want, but they are not doing the work and they are not offering any help either.
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Eat when you are hungry and sleep when you are tired.
Otherwise, run as fast as you can and slam into life.

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that life is too short to hold on to anything but good stuff.
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Today I learned, after 9 years of dating, that my partner does not care for mushrooms on his pizza nor is he a fan of chocolate cake. Who knew??
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Today I learned, after 9 years of dating, that my partner does not care for mushrooms on his pizza nor is he a fan of chocolate cake. Who knew??
Weird huh, 'cause I love breaded mushrooms and devil's food cake. Just not canned mushrooms or the standard chocolate cake from store.

Good dialog. Getting to know you...


FYI it's called living together.
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But we haven't been living together for 9 years, only dating. We have been living together for 7.5 or so.

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But we haven't been living together for 9 years, only dating. We have been living together for 7.5 or so.
I know you know what you mean and I love that about you!
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I've learned in my next life I will take better care of my body. Not just weight, but sleep more, start eating things that are good for me earlier. Chose a career that isn't as hard on my body. Take better care of my joints.
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