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Originally Posted by honeybarbara
I think if name taking was equal across the board, and not very o e sided, I'd say that its not deferring. but because it is very lop sided... cmon, it may not be you, but a good proportion of people are deferring to a feminine does the giving up and taking of the masculine in ord to "be a family".
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I guess the first that I think when I read this is so what? What if they choose to do that?