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			When K and I started going out, we were across borders (Toronto and NYC). When I finally moved here, we lived together for nearly 3 years. She moved back out West (Los Angeles) to be closer to her family and find a job. I'll be moving out there at the end of August. I had forgotten how difficult it is to be apart from the one you love.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I'm reminded each night when I go to bed alone. I'm reminded each day by the silence (only broken by Bobcat who whines for K). There are a variety of little tricks that we use to stay in contact (e.g., online talking, phone date nights, etc.) I thought it might be useful for those who are just starting LDRs or have "forced" LDRs due to factors outside of the relationship to have a thread to discuss ideas, tricks, etc. at keeping things alive and avoiding the loneliness that sometimes come with it. 
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