Poly-friendly mingling/flirting thread

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

So I am gonna explain how it would go for *me*, this does not reflect how others would run their particular space.


If I coupled up with/ decided to mentor/ fall in like with/ decided to combine families with/ and they happened to be a peer(another Alpha.Master.Dom.Top), I would most likely do so with someone I have hand a long time, and I mean LONG LONG time Leather relationship with, it would have to be a REAL TIME exchange where both our houses were mingling, socializing, getting to know one another period of consideration and planning for a future blend of Households.


My peer and I (An Alpha.Master.Top.Dominant) would be to busy getting things in order, (having already spent a great deal of time together with all our peoples) to even have to worry about some weird *Alphas killing eachother* kind of bullshit up in my sacred space, that kind of weird chest bumping I am *Alpha* so therefore I have to be in charge of it all is NOT going to function well in a House that is being constructed under the guidance of 2 Dominants.

Dominants with common sense are going to talk about how to handle and check their egos at the door before exposing any of their property to that kind of unnecessary drama and stress.


If you (GENERAL) have an issue with other Alphas, then you're (GENERAL) best bet is to be the ONLY Alpha in your household, it will save a lot of grief.


As for having all the people you are *seeing*, *fucking*, *dating*, *courting* etc under one roof, *I* couldn't do it.. *I* need breathing room, I need private one on one time, individual time in an individual space, where I am not having to worry about (insert slave's name here) having to see, watch, and be around private intimate moments between me and (insert whatever here)

That for *ME* is to messy, I like to keep my compartments nice and tidy and in seperate drawers.


Leather Women/Men run successful poly families with just one Master, Master and Mistress at times, Master with alpha submissive exploring Top side and bringing in a boy.girl it goes on and on.


It's the work that people have issues with sometimes, not the poly or idea, it takes work, consideration, empathy, and responsibility to make it work.

Thanks for the interaction

Thank you I can actually see that working and like you I would have to know my peer a long time before even considering such a mingling. I also agree that there are many forms of poly families ran by Leather Women/Men that are very successful because they are willing to do the work involved. I haven't seen/ran into much chest thumping in the Leather community at least not among those that have been at it awhile. I was just asking because I was actually talking to someone about the possibility of having a poly family with more then one Alpha but I think they were referring to non Leather situations and I wanted others opinion on if it was even possible or something they would want. Since I realize there is about a 1000 and 1 ways to do poly or non mongomy....Thank you again for answering