FTM's Attracted to Femmes

SoberBoi · 07-29-2012, 01:07 AM

I am very new in transition (about 9 months T)...therefore I still have a lot of the "how do they look at me" paranoia that newbies suffer from.

I avoid lesbians and straight females now because I am pre-op and have innate fears that they "won't get it" and mis-gender me.

The more I transition and get surgery, I will probably get over it.

I asked the support staff if they could change my userid to SoberGuy or at least SoberBoy because I feel uncomfortable dysphorically with my old member name.

07-29-2012, 01:07 AM	#27
SoberBoi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM, Robert Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Sharing my journey with God... ;) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Hackettstown,NJ Posts: 30 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 68 Thanked 52 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 219326	Self-perception I am very new in transition (about 9 months T)...therefore I still have a lot of the "how do they look at me" paranoia that newbies suffer from. I avoid lesbians and straight females now because I am pre-op and have innate fears that they "won't get it" and mis-gender me. The more I transition and get surgery, I will probably get over it. I asked the support staff if they could change my userid to SoberGuy or at least SoberBoy because I feel uncomfortable dysphorically with my old member name.