FTM's Attracted to Femmes

veryfemme · 12-23-2011, 11:17 PM

I have noticed that many of FTM friends date primarily butch women or FTM and I wanted to know how many FTMs are attracted to femme women? Is there a reason why you are attracted to femmes and are you also attracted to butch women or other FTM as well?

ButchEire · 12-23-2011, 11:27 PM

I haven't found that to be true at all, and everyone is different and it has nothing to do with how they identify. I myself am attracted only to femmes.

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Originally Posted by veryfemme

I have noticed that many of FTM friends date primarily butch women or FTM and I wanted to know how many FTMs are attracted to femme women? Is there a reason why you are attracted to femmes and are you also attracted to butch women or other FTM as well?

veryfemme · 12-23-2011, 11:29 PM

it seems like to me every time I find a nice guy attractive they tell me they are not interested in me because I am too femme and it sucks. I know everyone is different but no guys has proven me wrong just yet.

ButchEire · 12-23-2011, 11:33 PM

Too femme? That's funny. When did such a ridiculous boundary develop?

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Originally Posted by veryfemme

it seems like to me every time I find a nice guy attractive they tell me they are not interested in me because I am too femme and it sucks. I know everyone is different but no guys has proven me wrong just yet.

veryfemme · 12-23-2011, 11:37 PM

I really couldnt tell you but I have been turned away for being too girly and its hard and I hate it

atomiczombie · 12-24-2011, 12:31 AM

I am all about the femmes. I have no romantic or sexual interest in the fellas. But hey, there's nothing wrong with FTM's who like butches and other FTMs. To each their own.

veryfemme · 12-24-2011, 12:46 AM

I agree completely!

mustangjeano · 12-24-2011, 12:55 AM

There is no such thing as "too girly" in my book.
The more femme the better.

Quintease · 12-24-2011, 04:28 AM

It's funny, as I read the OP's post and realised that all the FTM's I know are dating femme(y-type) girls, even if they didn't necessarily before transition.

LiaPDX · 12-24-2011, 04:59 AM

I can confirm the "too femme" response. I've been told that by women who are not FTM.. That I'm too girly, and they prefer a soft butch or someone who is "sporty".
*shrugs* but it's all about visual preference to some. Which is cool, it's their thing.

Sachita · 12-24-2011, 05:18 AM

In the world of love and lust we just can't generalize. Of course we can have a 10 page tread proving that point yet again, debate, even argue or what we all know is true... it doesnt matter how you ID, what color, religion, etc. we're going to fuck who we want. As it should be.

GPS · 12-24-2011, 05:47 AM

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Originally Posted by veryfemme

I have noticed that many of FTM friends date primarily butch women or FTM and I wanted to know how many FTMs are attracted to femme women? Is there a reason why you are attracted to femmes and are you also attracted to butch women or other FTM as well?

I'm only attracted to Femme women, being it lesbian, bisexual or straight.

hard to find a good woman that even looks at FtM guys.

veryfemme · 12-24-2011, 09:26 AM

GPS - If I could find FTMs I would be in better shape lol - I have looked and most are taken or are not interested

Liam · 12-24-2011, 09:36 AM

I'm attracted to women, and I find women who identify as femmes, to be the kind which I am most compatible with.

theoddz · 12-24-2011, 09:39 AM

Well, since this site is primarily focused, though not exclusively (because it is INclusive!!

), on the Butch/Femme dynamic, I would think that many, if not most, of the transmen here would be attracted to the feminine. I'm sure there's also guys here who probably have other preferences, too, but in the nearly 7 years I've been around in this particular community, it seems that most of the guys I've known here are attracted to Femmes/femininity.

I guess you just have to ask us, individually.

I'm attracted to Femmes, period. I have no romantic or sexual interest in masculine energy, but that's just me.

As a good friend once told me, "the heart wants what the heart wants".

....and that's the way it should be...and should be respected.

~Theo~

~Bo · 12-24-2011, 09:55 AM

I'm trans and I'm only attracted to femmes. The girlier the better.

Hi.....and welcome to the Planet.

Where are you from in Florida? It's beautiful down there.

Ebon · 12-24-2011, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by veryfemme

I have noticed that many of FTM friends date primarily butch women or FTM and I wanted to know how many FTMs are attracted to femme women? Is there a reason why you are attracted to femmes and are you also attracted to butch women or other FTM as well?

I'm attracted to feminine energy.

GPS · 12-24-2011, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by veryfemme

GPS - If I could find FTMs I would be in better shape lol - I have looked and most are taken or are not interested

Eye openers

ruffryder · 12-24-2011, 06:12 PM

Trans here and I Adore all femmes. <3

For those femmes that can't seem to find a ftm, Trans, or Butch interested in them, I think you finally came to the right place !

veryfemme · 12-24-2011, 06:45 PM

hey ~Bo I am on the east coast and it is beautiful in FL but right now in my opinion it is way to hot for it to be Christmas!! I would like some 60 degree weather about now!

12-23-2011, 11:17 PM	#1
veryfemme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme/lady Relationship Status: Spoken For Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 83 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 227 Times in 41 Posts Rep Power: 3539929	FTM's Attracted to Femmes I have noticed that many of FTM friends date primarily butch women or FTM and I wanted to know how many FTMs are attracted to femme women? Is there a reason why you are attracted to femmes and are you also attracted to butch women or other FTM as well?

12-24-2011, 12:31 AM	#6
atomiczombie Member How Do You Identify?: Femmesensual Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His Relationship Status: Dating Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Rio Vista, CA Posts: 1,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,949 Thanked 3,220 Times in 759 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I am all about the femmes. I have no romantic or sexual interest in the fellas. But hey, there's nothing wrong with FTM's who like butches and other FTMs. To each their own. __________________ http://i277.photobucket.com/albums/k...orums_2000.gif Russian Unicorn http://occupiedmedia.us/

12-24-2011, 12:55 AM	#8
mustangjeano Member How Do You Identify?: old school stonebutch, Queer TG butch, ranch hand Preferred Pronoun?: he Relationship Status: single, not looking Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Northern Ca. Posts: 1,088 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,459 Thanked 1,029 Times in 361 Posts Rep Power: 15314316	There is no such thing as "too girly" in my book. The more femme the better. __________________ "Your outlook affects your outcome". John Paul Warren

12-24-2011, 04:28 AM	#9
Quintease Member How Do You Identify?: Rainbow femme Preferred Pronoun?: princess Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 508 Thanked 1,817 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 10560327	It's funny, as I read the OP's post and realised that all the FTM's I know are dating femme(y-type) girls, even if they didn't necessarily before transition. __________________ It is not worth an intelligent person's time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

12-24-2011, 05:18 AM	#11
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,992 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	In the world of love and lust we just can't generalize. Of course we can have a 10 page tread proving that point yet again, debate, even argue or what we all know is true... it doesnt matter how you ID, what color, religion, etc. we're going to fuck who we want. As it should be. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

12-23-2011, 11:29 PM	#3
veryfemme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme/lady Relationship Status: Spoken For Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 83 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 227 Times in 41 Posts Rep Power: 3539929	it seems like to me every time I find a nice guy attractive they tell me they are not interested in me because I am too femme and it sucks. I know everyone is different but no guys has proven me wrong just yet.

12-23-2011, 11:37 PM	#5
veryfemme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme/lady Relationship Status: Spoken For Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 83 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 227 Times in 41 Posts Rep Power: 3539929	I really couldnt tell you but I have been turned away for being too girly and its hard and I hate it

12-24-2011, 12:46 AM	#7
veryfemme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme/lady Relationship Status: Spoken For Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 83 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 227 Times in 41 Posts Rep Power: 3539929	I agree completely!

12-24-2011, 04:59 AM	#10
LiaPDX Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Very femme - which means the only hiking I do, is across a mall. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Oregon Posts: 7 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22 Thanked 28 Times in 2 Posts Rep Power: 0	I can confirm the "too femme" response. I've been told that by women who are not FTM.. That I'm too girly, and they prefer a soft butch or someone who is "sporty". shrugs but it's all about visual preference to some. Which is cool, it's their thing.

12-24-2011, 09:26 AM	#13
veryfemme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme/lady Relationship Status: Spoken For Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 83 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 227 Times in 41 Posts Rep Power: 3539929	GPS - If I could find FTMs I would be in better shape lol - I have looked and most are taken or are not interested

12-24-2011, 09:36 AM	#14
Liam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Guy Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The Evergreen State Posts: 2,269 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,865 Thanked 6,875 Times in 1,861 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I'm attracted to women, and I find women who identify as femmes, to be the kind which I am most compatible with. __________________ <3 Love is weird.

12-24-2011, 09:39 AM	#15
theoddz Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Cranky Old Poop Preferred Pronoun?: Mr. Beast Relationship Status: Married to a beautiful babe whom I don't deserve. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Central Texas Posts: 3,544 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,162 Thanked 9,939 Times in 2,516 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Well, since this site is primarily focused, though not exclusively (because it is INclusive!! ), on the Butch/Femme dynamic, I would think that many, if not most, of the transmen here would be attracted to the feminine. I'm sure there's also guys here who probably have other preferences, too, but in the nearly 7 years I've been around in this particular community, it seems that most of the guys I've known here are attracted to Femmes/femininity. I guess you just have to ask us, individually. I'm attracted to Femmes, period. I have no romantic or sexual interest in masculine energy, but that's just me. As a good friend once told me, "the heart wants what the heart wants". ....and that's the way it should be...and should be respected. *~Theo~* __________________ *"All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots are not reached by the frost."* -- J. R. R. Tolkien

12-24-2011, 09:55 AM	#16
~Bo Senior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: PA Posts: 1,590 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 1,680 Times in 742 Posts Rep Power: 13485855	I'm trans and I'm only attracted to femmes. The girlier the better. Hi.....and welcome to the Planet. Where are you from in Florida? It's beautiful down there.

12-24-2011, 06:12 PM	#19
ruffryder Senior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: guy ones Relationship Status: ... Join Date: May 2011 Location: chillin' in FL Posts: 3,690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,951 Thanked 9,679 Times in 2,875 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Trans here and I Adore all femmes. <3 For those femmes that can't seem to find a ftm, Trans, or Butch interested in them, I think you finally came to the right place !

12-24-2011, 06:45 PM	#20
veryfemme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme/lady Relationship Status: Spoken For Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 83 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 227 Times in 41 Posts Rep Power: 3539929	hey ~Bo I am on the east coast and it is beautiful in FL but right now in my opinion it is way to hot for it to be Christmas!! I would like some 60 degree weather about now!