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			I went to see Hannah Free this evening, it is an independent film with a storyline that spans the lives of a butch-femme couple. It is quite a lovely movie, and stars Sharon Gless (Chris Cagney!), as the butch. The movie is especially wonderful in that it explores aging and sexuality as well as the obvious lesbian issues. Has anyone else seen it? Thoughts?
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Sounds great..I will have to add it to my list
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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 Edit: Well dang it. Looks like it came to Austin and I missed it. Hope they do it on DVD.  | 
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			Thanks for the tip Bonn-e-jammers.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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 What are these issues? Does this involve: Monograms? Fanny pack selection? Which one is "the man?"  | 
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			i prefer a wax seal or sceau.  (it's the preferred choice when you're requesting the head of some unsavory character.)
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I would just like it to be known that I am always the man. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I could never remember which one was Cagney and which was Lacy. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Guess I never watched that show much..... Seriously though, I look forward to seeing this film- Lesbian film representations are few and far between...  
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			Oh, ya know, Mr. Bender, marginalization, invisibility, not allowing lifetime lovers to visit each other right before one of them kicks the bucket. Also included, what happens when your lover marries a man and expects things not to change between you and her, what happens when you abandon her because she married the man and she does, really, feel abandoned, as do her children. And, the little things, like having the courage to kiss in the yard while raking leaves.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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 lesbian movies only get made if someone has a bake sale.....  | 
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 (Also, e isn't really the man, but sometimes she is The Man).  | 
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   Yes those things are universal to being queer. Can I think of anything completely specific to being lesbian in the movie????? thinking cap, thinking cap. Well, maybe not in these "modern" times (now I am sounding old), but the part about children being brought along for the ride as lesbian relationships rode the waves of heterosexual marriage interruptions has been primarily a lesbian phenomenon, as opposed to a broader queer experience. Women have historically had custody of kids as het marriages broke apart, though I KNOW that is changing. This movie was set in the 1990's, and the two lovers were very aged in the "current" scenes of the movie. Their "young" scenes went back to their childhoods and young adulthoods, and middle-agedhoods. e da man. yes e is. And speaking of kissing, I was dutiful and did a bit of it while at the movie. There were no leaves to rake, I had to make do.  | 
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			Sometimes, I'd rather just have the bake sale...thinking back to "Claire of the Moon"--shudder.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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 "Claire of the Moon" is the "Patch Adams", "Ishtar", "Showgirls" of Lesbian cinema. I'm still cringing. But someday they will watch it at midnight showings and dress up and throw toast at the screen. OK maybe not. If it had been a musical perhaps...  
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 We, not wanting to disturb her, asked her partner, "What's Max doing?" Her partner rolled her eyes. "She's waiting for one redeeming quality." We actually thought that we should picket the theater to prevent people from wasting their time and money.  | 
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 God bless us all though for trying. Always looking for some good lez cinema. *sigh*  | 
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			Ah, yes...that was Welcome Home, Roxy Carmichael, complete with " lesbian-issue sub-plot "
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I dunno................I think Salmonberries with KD Lang runs a close second or even beats Claire.....
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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