Expectations of FTMs/transsexed men (Dylan's thread)

[Emmy]

I agree. One must not undermine another’s identity when describing one’s own attractions. And I certainly see how ascribing ‘feminine’ traits- whatever those may be, exactly- to FTMs (in particular, among men as a whole) is undermining. That’s a really important point and I’m glad this discussion is happening.

What I was wondering about, and perhaps not articulating well, was whether wishing to date or to partner with men who belong to this community, specifically, was necessarily undermining. (Maybe it is, btw- not meant to be a rhetorical question...)

Originally Posted by Dylan

Don't rely on stereotypes to describe your personal attractions?

Don't debase Another's identity to better fit your own identity?


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Dylan