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09-22-2010, 07:25 PM
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I pulled this from my post on a different thread, because I got a lot of feed back and we have a lot of new people since I made this post.
What Forgiveness is not Forgiveness is not condoning unkindness Forgiveness is not forgetting that what happened was painful Forgiveness is not excusing poor behavior Forgiveness is not denying or minimizing your hurt Forgiveness does not mean reconciling with the offender Forgiveness does not mean you give up having feelings What is Forgiveness Forgiveness is for you not the offender Forgiveness is taking back your power Forgiveness is taking responsibility for how you feel Forgiveness is about your healing not about the person that hurt you Forgiveness is a trainable skill just like learning to throw a ball Forgiveness is a choice Forgiveness is becoming the hero instead of the victim
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