Insecurities; I worry that women won't/don't like me

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Originally Posted by dancer611

So...can you give a girl some ideas of gay/"non-hetero" behavior? Are you talking dress? Stance? Attitude? Rainbow flags?

You see a butch you think is cute...

Make direct eye contact smiling as hard as you can smile...

(As Tyra says... Smile with those eyes)

Let her/him know that you like what you see with that smile...

Once you have the butch in questions attention, mouth the word *Hi*

If she/he smiles big back and mouths *Hi* back, motion the butch over...

say the words... *You are cute, wanna dance?* or something like that...

Leaves no doubt that you are looking at the butch as a prospective partner and not just a straight girl in a gay bar for the first time...