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I think understanding and practicing non-violent communication would go a long way towards creating an atmosphere of empathy.
Several years back, a group of us studied non-violent communication by using a book and workbook. It was eye opening for me and really helped me understand why and how I was thinking and communicating those thoughts. It is really useful in interpersonal relationships of all kinds. The book/workbook came from this site: https://www.cnvc.org/ It's the Center for Non Violent Communication. I need a refresher for sure.........lol If you want to change your brain chemistry then you have to create new neural pathways to replace the old ones. That can be done many ways, but I think communication is a part of doing that. A change of attitude will also help. You want to encourage your brain to create happy chemicals rather than unhappy chemicals. You can control what you think and how you express it...it takes practice and time. And we should never forget the importance of exercise. laughin.......damn I wish I was better at it...........
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I appreciate all the links posted earlier regarding hormones and am checking them all out. Great information. Communication and words are powerful tools as well for creating empathy. I studied with Marshall Rosenberg when he started up in the 80s, and lived here in Santa Barbara. *Founder of CNVC system of communication* The communication method was an eye-opener. We don't always realize how our own words, how we form sentences, and how we speak to others affects our own perception. Well, let me speak for myself, I didn't always realize. Speaking in an empathetic way, non-attacking way, is good for fostering empathy. I am not sure how communication styles alter brain chemistry or hormones, but plan to look into that. And I need a refresher course as well. Tools get rusty if not employed. Thanks for the reminder, I appreciate it.
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