When a Femme meets a Butch... dating advice!

[Dance-with-me]

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I suggest if you see one another again to just let it flow, get to know her, about her and find out the things you are curious about, even if it's not a romance it's nice to have a local queer scene to hang with.

But here's the problem: How do I get from "I'm a volunteer for the program you run, with very little in-person contact and no reason to assume we'll be social" to a chance to see one another again in a context where I can just let it flow, get to know her, etc.? THAT's what the real issue is here - I have no clue as to how to move it from professional to social, especially if we don't have very much reason to be face-to-face.