When a Femme meets a Butch... dating advice!

Chancie · 10-24-2012, 03:06 PM

I've met wonderful people through personals and at social events and on this site.

But, my most serious relationships started when I was bold and I initiated them.

I know there are people who won't agree but I think it should be clear that a social engagement is a date.

I've had too many friends wonder endlessly whether or not they were on a date the night before.

That doesn't mean you can't find love with a friend, of course.

Martina · 10-24-2012, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Chancie

I've had too many friends wonder endlessly whether or not they were on a date the night before.

If I had the time back I spent listening to these angsty convos, . . . . well, I'd have a lot more time. If you do ask her out, use the word "date."

10-24-2012, 03:06 PM	#1
Chancie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-inist Relationship Status: I'm lucky. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Western Mass Posts: 3,774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,518 Thanked 14,540 Times in 2,744 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I've met wonderful people through personals and at social events and on this site. But, my most serious relationships started when I was bold and I initiated them. I know there are people who won't agree but I think it should be clear that a social engagement is a date. I've had too many friends wonder endlessly whether or not they were on a date the night before. That doesn't mean you can't find love with a friend, of course.