When a Femme meets a Butch... dating advice!

Darbonaire · 10-24-2012, 05:49 PM

Non-threatening.....ask her if you can meet & maybe discuss in more depth the group she has......ask her to tell you more about it.....if the group interests you & she runs it then....perhps a good friendship can begin....moving from friendship to a "possible" dating scenaroi often takes care of itself.....

There is nothing "forward" about a coffee date.....who knows what questions & answers will come up over that cappuccino?....lol....you may find out you really would prefer a frienship & then again...<slow grin>....

Allow the powers that be to flow though you, & enjoy the journey....& the coffee...LOL

Jonathan

Darbonaire · 10-24-2012, 05:57 PM

I believe that people are brought into your life in various ways & ALL are good. I met my wonderful ex-wife on the old aol B/F chat room....never knew that a few years later we would meet again on line & then meet in person. 10 really good years.....i have also met people on blind dates in my past & currently I am meeting folks in r/t & geting to know some on line...so....explore...it's all good !!!

You can never have too many friends !

ruffryder · 10-24-2012, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Darbonaire

... perhps a good friendship can begin....moving from friendship to a "possible" dating scenaroi often takes care of itself.....

There is nothing "forward" about a coffee date.....who knows what questions & answers will come up over that cappuccino?....lol....you may find out you really would prefer a frienship & then again...<slow grin>....

Allow the powers that be to flow though you, & enjoy the journey....& the coffee...LOL

Jonathan

Definitely works to know if someone is interested or you are interested in persuing something more than a friendship. This is how my girl and I started our dates and our friendship, now we are friends and more.

10-24-2012, 05:49 PM	#1
Darbonaire Timed Out How Do You Identify?: MALE Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Working on myself, thank you Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Virginia Posts: 186 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 343 Thanked 552 Times in 145 Posts Rep Power: 0	Coffee... Non-threatening.....ask her if you can meet & maybe discuss in more depth the group she has......ask her to tell you more about it.....if the group interests you & she runs it then....perhps a good friendship can begin....moving from friendship to a "possible" dating scenaroi often takes care of itself..... There is nothing "forward" about a coffee date.....who knows what questions & answers will come up over that cappuccino?....lol....you may find out you really would prefer a frienship & then again...<slow grin>.... Allow the powers that be to flow though you, & enjoy the journey....& the coffee...LOL Jonathan

10-24-2012, 05:57 PM	#2
Darbonaire Timed Out How Do You Identify?: MALE Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Working on myself, thank you Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Virginia Posts: 186 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 343 Thanked 552 Times in 145 Posts Rep Power: 0	Also, I believe that people are brought into your life in various ways & ALL are good. I met my wonderful ex-wife on the old aol B/F chat room....never knew that a few years later we would meet again on line & then meet in person. 10 really good years.....i have also met people on blind dates in my past & currently I am meeting folks in r/t & geting to know some on line...so....explore...it's all good !!! You can never have too many friends !