How do you communicate when you're angry? - Page 7

imperfect_cupcake · 06-02-2015, 08:28 AM

If I'm taking the piss and being sarcastic and teasing, it means I'm irritated and exasperated and willing to talk.

The second I get reeeeeeaaaaly polite it means
1) I think you are a fucking arse
2) you need to fuck off for a while before I pull your lungs out of your nose with a spoon.

If I go totally silent that means enraged. 10/10 on the implosion scale.

I jokingly gave one of my partners an anger scale from 1-10 1 being mildly irritated to 10 being incandescent rage.

They had little faces and my usual reactions and up to what level I could joke around in (up to 6) if the person had the charm and skill required to do so. Some people don't and I find I got from a 2 to a 7 in a matter of seconds. Others, there some kind of natural understanding and they can take me from a 6 to 1 in five words and make me laugh.

I love being home. A lot. But the west coast is very serious in certain ways. I seem to get a long much better with east coast temperaments.

A. Spectre · 06-02-2015, 08:43 AM

Naturally THIS is how I communicate when angered.

No, No, No, all silliness aside, history is not kind to me. In my younger-thought-I-was-a-bad-ass days of Uber Butchness, I was quick to jump to conclusions, thought the worst of every situation and would hold a grudge.

As the years have ticked off the calendar, very few things upset me. If situations nettle me in some way, I know it will pass and finding humor in MOST situations has saved my mental health. Trust that humor is a miracle panacea for most things.

The older I get, a sense of calm blankets me in a way that is a bit surprising considering my history of having a wee bit of a temper.

Tuff Stuff · 08-15-2015, 04:30 PM

These days I light a few firecrackers(3-4) to let off steam.One of my storage finds was a case of black cat super charged crackers...amazing noise for a tiny cracker...scares the freakin' djinn right out of me..and her too

And for those really bad tantrums,I bring out the M80s...talk about attention getting..for real

Sometimes spanish is hard to understand..

06-02-2015, 08:43 AM	#122
A. Spectre Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch dominant lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She, Baby Boi Relationship Status: She is my sunrise and sunset. Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: North Shore Chicago Posts: 1,569 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,033 Thanked 11,079 Times in 1,496 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Naturally THIS is how I communicate when angered. No, No, No, all silliness aside, history is not kind to me. In my younger-thought-I-was-a-bad-ass days of Uber Butchness, I was quick to jump to conclusions, thought the worst of every situation and would hold a grudge. As the years have ticked off the calendar, very few things upset me. If situations nettle me in some way, I know it will pass and finding humor in MOST situations has saved my mental health. Trust that humor is a miracle panacea for most things. The older I get, a sense of calm blankets me in a way that is a bit surprising considering my history of having a wee bit of a temper. __________________ * * *Joy and Sorrow are Inseparable

06-02-2015, 08:28 AM	#121
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	If I'm taking the piss and being sarcastic and teasing, it means I'm irritated and exasperated and willing to talk. The second I get reeeeeeaaaaly polite it means 1) I think you are a fucking arse 2) you need to fuck off for a while before I pull your lungs out of your nose with a spoon. If I go totally silent that means enraged. 10/10 on the implosion scale. I jokingly gave one of my partners an anger scale from 1-10 1 being mildly irritated to 10 being incandescent rage. They had little faces and my usual reactions and up to what level I could joke around in (up to 6) if the person had the charm and skill required to do so. Some people don't and I find I got from a 2 to a 7 in a matter of seconds. Others, there some kind of natural understanding and they can take me from a 6 to 1 in five words and make me laugh. I love being home. A lot. But the west coast is very serious in certain ways. I seem to get a long much better with east coast temperaments.

08-15-2015, 04:30 PM	#123
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	These days I light a few firecrackers(3-4) to let off steam.One of my storage finds was a case of black cat super charged crackers...amazing noise for a tiny cracker...scares the freakin' djinn right out of me..and her too And for those really bad tantrums,I bring out the M80s...talk about attention getting..for real Sometimes spanish is hard to understand..