What are you doing right now?

C0LLETTE · 11-12-2015, 09:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by not2shygrrl

If you don't mind me asking Collette, what is the significance of the small stones placed near a headstone in the cemetery? I wish I had read that post prior to your visit, I would have sent some strength out to the universe for after the visit. I understand some how you feel.

I so hope your chat was a good one!

Thank you for your kind response not2shygrrl and to you too, homoe,for your research.

For me, it is a simple ancient gesture to show that the gravesite was visited and the deceased is not forgotten. For some it is also a form of invitation to ask the deceased to come and spend some time with you.

A more traditional visit would have prevented the leaving of flowers but this is a more complex issue. Its reasoning is very interesting but I'll leave that research to you lol. Essentially it is based on the belief that we all leave this earth as we came to it and as equals .

So, "What am I doing today?" ...I'm thanking not2shygrrl and homoe for their kindness.

not2shygrrl · 11-12-2015, 11:50 PM

Tonight I am responding to a post that I had a question about....after being outside readying a trailer for travels to an estate sale! I saw a few (ahem) items that I want so off I go tomorrow morning, trailer in tow! It is freezing here with this blustery wind....and although it is usually dark here due to no street lights in the woods....its a really dark sky tonight....eerily so. I am happy to be back inside and fussing on my computer here at BFP.

listening to the thuds and bumps of the outside noises. ~ wishing I had a fire place because it would be roaring right now! ~

Quote:

Originally Posted by C0LLETTE

Thank you for your kind response not2shygrrl and to you too, homoe,for your research.

For me, it is a simple ancient gesture to show that the gravesite was visited and the deceased is not forgotten. For some it is also a form of invitation to ask the deceased to come and spend some time with you.

A more traditional visit would have prevented the leaving of flowers but this is a more complex issue. Its reasoning is very interesting but I'll leave that research to you lol. Essentially it is based on the belief that we all leave this earth as we came to it and as equals .

So, "What am I doing today?" ...I'm thanking not2shygrrl and homoe for their kindness.

Well you are as sweet as sweet tea Collette!!! (wink) Thank you for graciously addressing my question. Seems you left me with a bit o' work to do in that last paragraph.....hmmmmmm I must now have a look see!

Jesse · 11-13-2015, 12:26 AM

Watching Rosewood, and then I will most likely head to bed.

Karysma · 11-13-2015, 12:40 AM

Catching up on all the shows I record.... And napping off and on. It's a lazy night. 😏

JDeere · 11-13-2015, 01:01 AM

Watching my recorded shows.
Catching up on posts on bfp.

RockOn · 11-15-2015, 10:11 PM

I was reading posts here at BFP ... then I put my phone down and was sitting here thinking about the horrific tragedy Paris, France just experienced. Acutally, more specifically, I was thinking of the people who experienced it first hand. There they were, all out at different places expecting a nice evening.

So many lives gone in an instant. So sad! The survivors know what real fear is and will never forget.

There is really no solution to this type problem. Fanatical crazies will continue to train for these type horrors in their little secret pockets all over the world.

That scenario could have happened to you, me ... anyone here in the U.S. in her respective city.
Unfortunately, there is no silver bullet.

Bazillions of dollars are spent on security and the money numbers keep increasing ... defeating this monster would be the equivalent of trying to herd cats.

I am not one to stay in doom n gloom places but do at times pause and reflect. I don't clown 100% of the time. Actually, I have cut way back to about 98.3%.

JDeere · 11-15-2015, 11:37 PM

Posting on bfp
chatting in the chat room

11-13-2015, 12:26 AM	#3
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Watching Rosewood, and then I will most likely head to bed. __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”

11-13-2015, 12:40 AM	#4
Karysma Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she,her Relationship Status: Post Apocolyptic Join Date: Jul 2015 Location: Atlanta Posts: 172 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 850 Thanked 769 Times in 148 Posts Rep Power: 13174978	Catching up on all the shows I record.... And napping off and on. It's a lazy night. 😏 __________________ Karysma

11-15-2015, 10:11 PM	#6
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	serious moments I was reading posts here at BFP ... then I put my phone down and was sitting here thinking about the horrific tragedy Paris, France just experienced. Acutally, more specifically, I was thinking of the people who experienced it first hand. There they were, all out at different places expecting a nice evening. So many lives gone in an instant. So sad! The survivors know what real fear is and will never forget. There is really no solution to this type problem. Fanatical crazies will continue to train for these type horrors in their little secret pockets all over the world. That scenario could have happened to you, me ... anyone here in the U.S. in her respective city. Unfortunately, there is no silver bullet. Bazillions of dollars are spent on security and the money numbers keep increasing ... defeating this monster would be the equivalent of trying to herd cats. I am not one to stay in doom n gloom places but do at times pause and reflect. I don't clown 100% of the time. Actually, I have cut way back to about 98.3%.

11-13-2015, 01:01 AM	#5
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Watching my recorded shows. Catching up on posts on bfp.

11-15-2015, 11:37 PM	#7
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Posting on bfp chatting in the chat room