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|  11-24-2015, 12:39 PM | #101 | 
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			I would not pursue any type of reationship with someone that is rude, cruel, arrogant, pompous, and or disrespectful.  Although....... I do agree with my buddy Homoe, loud and obnoxious is really up there on my list. | 
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|  11-24-2015, 12:59 PM | #102 | 
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			A smoker. Anyone who smokes cigarettes or e cigs or vape.  Really bad hygiene. That poonanny better be clean and smell good. Someone who is insistent on trying to change any aspect of me before I can try to change myself. | 
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|  11-24-2015, 02:55 PM | #103 | 
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			Nasty teeth, not brushing and flossing, Halitosis
		 
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|  11-28-2015, 07:26 PM | #104 | 
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			Someone who can NEVER NEVER EVER admit if they're wrong!
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|  04-30-2017, 06:47 PM | #105 | 
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			A "know it all" personalty type!
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|  04-30-2017, 07:08 PM | #106 | 
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			Someone who is rude and condescending to waitstaff or anyone in the service industry!
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|  04-30-2017, 07:17 PM | #107 | 
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			Inexperienced lovers.
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|  04-30-2017, 07:19 PM | #108 | 
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|  04-30-2017, 07:22 PM | #109 | 
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|  04-30-2017, 07:26 PM | #110 | 
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|  04-30-2017, 07:28 PM | #111 | 
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|  04-30-2017, 08:14 PM | #112 | 
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			people who set standards higher for others than they set for themselves. People who judge others but cant and dont live up to their own judgemental ideals. overindulgers of any kind, from drink to eats to shopping to gambling naysayers. People who are NEVER happy, and are always seeing them in a pessimistic light/darkness poor hygiene. GOD I hate that! people who make fun of others, and especially when they justify it I dont care how much education people have..but its a huge turn off when they make fun of me for having college degrees. I am NOT an egg head without common sense just because I spent years in college. Dont tear me down if you are insecure, in other words. religious yankers. I am so offended with people who shove religion down my throat. I also agree I dont like inexperienced lovers. Taught enough. Now I bask in my husband's experience. Insensitive people. Thick headed daft emotionally immature folks. Man, getting hit by them is like a 2 x 4 hitting you in your core. 
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|  05-01-2017, 06:01 AM | #113 | 
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			Sexual inexperience does not equate stupidity.
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|  05-01-2017, 06:15 AM | #114 | 
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|  05-01-2017, 09:33 AM | #115 | 
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			A conversation monopolizer- talks non-stop and does not know the give and take of actual conversation. A gossiper. Someone that talks trash about other people. Prudes. Though I may look like one (dress modestly, do not like my cleavage to show in everyday life, do not swear in general -yes, I know I have been saying the F word more here since Trump has been pushing my buttons but not really in the world...) I am not a prude. A Trump supporter. That is one potential relationship that would be doomed from jump street. Forgot one of the biggest: heavy drinkers and druggers. About green meds, no judgment. I don't use green meds and know that they help a lot of people but I am unsure about that. I know I am allergic to the smoke. This would have to be some kind of compromise. 
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|  05-01-2017, 02:05 PM | #116 | 
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			Being close minded Rudeness Passive aggressive Cheaters Emotional drainers When someone monopolizes the conversation and does not let you speak When someone interrupts you while you are talking When someone goes on and on about their ex's (which makes you surmise they have not worked through their past) Bad hygiene Constant negativity (where every conversation is all negative to the point that you have to ask is there anything good that goes on in your world?) Drama, drama, drama | 
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|  05-01-2017, 02:31 PM | #117 | 
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			ppl who are showy ~ attention seekers  that have all the characteristics of all the above descriptions ! I tend to be  quiet at first while I am adjusting to the enviorment .
		 
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|  05-01-2017, 04:11 PM | #118 | 
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			the first BIG one has to be liars.  Geez, I hate liars! People who cheat on anything. Hypocrisy. People who constantly judge people. Bright folks who've chosen not to seek higher education. Sorry, I know this is not PC, but people with lower IQs. Rude people. People who violate my privacy...logging on my computer, searching my apt., etc. Anyone Right Wing whether in office or not. Those are the ones I can think of right now...sure there are more. 
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|  05-01-2017, 04:34 PM | #119 | 
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			Assumptions..  When other people try to comment as to my or other people's 'label' and where I or they 'fit' based on their assumptions or label descriptors. -- kind of makes me wanna say "You dont know me!!!" Huge turn off.. unbrushed teeth, and B.O.. worse is poured on cologne like it elimates the yuck BO smell.. 
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