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[MsTinkerbelly]

Originally Posted by DapperButch

MsTinkerbelly, last I heard women who date FTMs are allowed on this site. Welcomed on this site. I don't remember reading anywhere that the expectation is that people at BFP who date FTMs had to have been with said FTM prior to their transition. Oh, AND that said FTM had to have identified as lesbian PRIOR to their transition. You know that a number of FTMs never identified as "lesbians". Just like many of our butch and femme friends here don't, and never have, identified "lesbians", even though they have loved female bodied people.

People don't need to PROVE that they belong here by talking about their history of sexual partners, either.

I see that you were cordial in the end (I think you were being genuine), but I must admit, I am surprised at you, MsTinkerbelly!

When did you become a moderator?

I am really offended by this Dapper, really offended. How dare you chastise me, or question my motives? HOW FUCKING DARE YOU!!!!!!!

[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by MsTinkerbelly

When did you become a moderator?

I am really offended by this Dapper, really offended. How dare you chastise me, or question my motives? HOW FUCKING DARE YOU!!!!!!!

Wow.

I was not trying to be a moderator. You were suggesting to her that she did not belong here, and I am suggesting that you are incorrect.

With your logic, anyone who dates ME or any FTM, who hasn't dated a "lesbian" in the past doesn't belong here. Actually, you were suggesting the "rules" are even narrower than that. You were suggesting that the people who belong here that date FTMs have to have dated a lesbian who transitioned to FTM. That is news to me.

Am I incorrect? Is that not what you said? I responded to quotes.

[MsTinkerbelly]

Originally Posted by DapperButch

Wow.

I was not trying to be a moderator. You were suggesting to her that she did not belong here, and I am suggesting that you are incorrect.

With your logic, anyone who dates ME or any FTM, who hasn't dated a "lesbian" in the past doesn't belong here. Actually, you were suggesting the "rules" are even narrower than that. You were suggesting that the people who belong here that date FTMs have to have dated a lesbian who transitioned to FTM. That is news to me.

Am I incorrect? Is that not what you said? I responded to quotes.

I do not owe you or anyone other than jewel an explanation, and she and I are good. Now, if you go back to minding your own business, we will be just fine.

[jewelofnj]

Actually I am out of here.

[MsTinkerbelly]

Originally Posted by jewelofnj

Actually I am out of here.

That would be a real shame jewel.

I just sent you an apology for misreading your post and coming across so unfriendly.

Please give us (me) another chance

[jewelofnj]

You owe Dapper an apology not me. He made a valid point and you totally PMS'd all over him. See my message back.

Be kind to people.

[MsTinkerbelly]

Originally Posted by jewelofnj

You owe Dapper an apology not me. He made a valid point and you totally PMS'd all over him. See my message back.

Be kind to people.

Actually I am not going to apologize to Dapper...he is not a moderator, and should have reported me, not confronted me.

I deserved to be reported; even though I misread your post, I showed my ass and was acting as a moderator/protector of the site. That is not my role, and for that I am sorry to the mods, admin and you.

Although I'm sure Dapper meant well, it did not sit well with me as he is not my spouse, my parent or even a friend.