Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex?

clay · 12-13-2015, 08:50 AM

Yes, sometimes I can.....and others no way.

Shystonefem · 12-13-2015, 12:11 PM

My ex tries to stay in touch will all of her exs because she, eventually, tries to get back with them. It is like a rotating door....

Only 2 (me and her ex before me) won't speak to her. She is now with her ex from when she was 17. I figure my turn won't come up for another 10 years or so. Too bad, so sad..... my answer will always be "not for a million dollars".

AVATAR · 12-13-2015, 01:49 PM

it really depends on the 2 exes and how it ended i think. Its hard to be just friends with someone you might still be in love with. Though once the anger and pain has subsided, i think its possible.

trixie · 12-13-2015, 05:20 PM

I really don't care to be friends with my exes. Feh.

And ftiw, I can certainly use rude language--especially when discussing exes. I yam what I yam.

Tuff Stuff · 12-13-2015, 08:30 PM

I kind of moved on you could say.I wish them all a happy life and that's about it.

Liam · 12-13-2015, 08:50 PM

Sometimes, it happens.

JDeere · 12-13-2015, 09:39 PM

IMO if you haven't used what some deem as crude language about someone besides yourself then you have issues.

I use crude language describing myself and others, it's how I am so this stuff about being a pissing match because someone read the post wrong is BS.

I thought we were past judging but I guess not.

12-13-2015, 08:50 AM	#1
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Shystonefem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Shy for President Join Date: May 2014 Location: NH Posts: 1,105 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,475 Thanked 3,671 Times in 897 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	My ex tries to stay in touch will all of her exs because she, eventually, tries to get back with them. It is like a rotating door.... Only 2 (me and her ex before me) won't speak to her. She is now with her ex from when she was 17. I figure my turn won't come up for another 10 years or so. Too bad, so sad..... my answer will always be "not for a million dollars". __________________ Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. ~Lao Tzu

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Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	Not Me I kind of moved on you could say.I wish them all a happy life and that's about it.

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AVATAR Timed Out - Identity Issues How Do You Identify?: butch Preferred Pronoun?: female ones Relationship Status: happy and single Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: Rocky Mountains Posts: 89 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 414 Thanked 212 Times in 82 Posts Rep Power: 0	it really depends on the 2 exes and how it ended i think. Its hard to be just friends with someone you might still be in love with. Though once the anger and pain has subsided, i think its possible.

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trixie Member How Do You Identify?: independent spinster lady Preferred Pronoun?: she-ra, princess of power Relationship Status: one is the magic number Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: right here, right now Posts: 110 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12 Thanked 188 Times in 63 Posts Rep Power: 2482429	I really don't care to be friends with my exes. Feh. And ftiw, I can certainly use rude language--especially when discussing exes. I yam what I yam.

12-13-2015, 09:39 PM	#7
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	IMO if you haven't used what some deem as crude language about someone besides yourself then you have issues. I use crude language describing myself and others, it's how I am so this stuff about being a pissing match because someone read the post wrong is BS. I thought we were past judging but I guess not.