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After reading these comments about dates with other people I thought about myself. I have said some embarrassing things on a date not often but once after too much wine I said something complementary about her breasts. Well that relationship lasted over 5 years and was good til the end. Sometimes it is okay to make a mistake.
Ladies have asked me about my salary and my home but those are easy to see and eliminate. Ladies that go on about exes are also a red flag. |
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12-13-2015, 04:23 PM
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"oh yeah, I used to be very successful and i spoiled my ex wife. She never had to lift a finger. *proceeds to pull out proof*"
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Oh, I know your ex, I know all about you.
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12-13-2015, 06:04 PM
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Other than a few strange first dates, the one thing that used to irritate the heck out of me was something being mentioned by quite a few people here.
Please stfu about your ex....get over her before you start dating again, and then leave her in the past where she belongs. One person I dated talked about their ex in EVERY conversation we had during the time we dated. I hope they didn't do that with the next gf 
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I surf that one. I don't think there is anything wrong talking about your exes (or am I the only one with several exes in my life?) in regards to talking about *your* life. Like if you are telling a story about a vacation you took and you were married for 9 years, it's likely much of your recent life is going to have stories that include ones ex. Fact of life. I don't want people to never talk abut the stories of their life because they fell in love and had sex before dating me. I *love* stories about people's lives. And if people edit their exes out of them, that's just weird.
But *pining* about ones recent ex in front of a new date is bad form. So is endless ranting. There is a difference in talking about your life with exes in it, and talking about one recent ex in particular in an obsessive manner. I want to get to know people, their lives, their histories, their stories... That's going to have stories with exes in them as characters that are part of the play about their lives. Obsessing about someone you've just broken up with while meeting another is poor form. Maybe just look for casual date sex while going through that. Last edited by imperfect_cupcake; 12-13-2015 at 07:14 PM. |
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I believe we agree about that  Although i have to say, I love the way you put your thoughts into writing! 
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