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11-22-2009, 11:36 PM
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MILLION $$$ PUSSY
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Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?:
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Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles 
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*I* am going to post from my personal space and my personal take and the way I am in this world.. My femme gender presentation may fall under a new type of femme or a new sort of femme, it does not nor will it ever fall on the antiquated description of femme.. I won't ever be the one who wears the apron, does the high heels and make up at all times, nor is willing to not have a Dominant role in *my* relationship, let me add I do not define femme, as skirt wearing, cooking in the kitchen following 3 steps behind they butch... *I* know I am different than some femmes, not so different from others.. I am comfortable with the lack of dresses, domestication I have.. I like being in charge, I am extremely proud of who I am as a Femme Leather Daddy to downright giddy at the thought of my cock...
*This* is where I think that for me, I get put into a different box of femme or my gender is dismissed because I am not a feminine as others.. *I* personally do not buy to this ideal.. If we look back at the antiquated history of butch femme, you have to know the femme was the power, she was the one who worked, she was the one who gave a safe haven to her counterpart.. Butch.. Who could not like herself go as easily into the workforce and not stand blend in as much as their femme counterparts... *I* embrace femme, my gender but not by others definitions of it, not because of what I wear or who I am with.. I am femme without butch I am femme foremost... Queer Leather Femme Daddy, it may not *fit* into what others may define femme as, or claim that my kind of femme is certainly and will not fall upon old school standards.. I am ok with that... I am comfortable and know I have power, being the femme that I am... I hope this late night rant made sense |
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11-23-2009, 12:59 AM
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Senior Member
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Stonefemme Relationship Status:
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late night response to a late night rant
There is no one right way to be Femme, whether it's an adjective or a noun... there's just no one right way.
I'll tell you, Snow, I have seen people that I absolutely adored as sister Femmes decide they absolutely must not actually BE Femmes because they were so dominant. I always wish that I could point to you as a Femme who is dominant when it happens... except that they don't know you at all so it wouldn't make a difference. *wry shrug* |
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11-23-2009, 01:21 AM
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Butch Preferred Pronoun?:
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Selly , come back !
How fascinating is this !
Kind of like petri dish fascinating...No, I'm not being snarky, I really want to look at this. If Selly is 20-ish I'd wager she has her ear to the ground in her age group and social circles. And if Butch/Femme is no longer representative for a younger generation, the words very well may become a thing of the past, at least in her experience. I think its fascinating to know. It doesnt mean I'll be dropping my identity and I still use Butch/Femme as a jumping off point. But if the evolution of terms and identification have strayed away from Butch/Femme "labels" (floabw) then I wonder where our youth is headed ! And I'm not being contrite or when I say I'm excited to see a new generation embrace their identities in their own way. Isnt that how we evolve? |
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